Signs you're dating the wrong person.
Have you manifested a loser in your life?
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life. Okay. So when I talk about losers,
I'm not talking about literal losers, High Flyers.
So don't misunderstand me.
I'm talking about a loser as it pertains to your journey
and your life. This person may be a winner to someone else,
but where you're going and what you're becoming and what
you're drawing to you,
this person may not be the right person for you.
I'm going to give you nine signs and we'll talk about each one for a moment.
So High Flyers sign.
Number one is failure to step into their
role, their role as a leader,
their role as a beautiful,
loving, nurturing person,
their role as a masculine figure, whatever it is,
are they failing to step into their role? They may be nice. I,
I hear this all the time. Women will often say this to me.
He's so nice. He opens the door for me. He calls me,
he checks in to see if I'm okay, but, but he's lacking something.
And I would say, well, what is he lacking? I don't know.
It's something I'm not certain. And I'd say, well,
could it be that he's not fully engaged in his
masculinity? That's it?
That's it he'd say that's a big sign.
And it works the same way with women too. Guys,
if you're looking for a beautiful, nurturing, loving,
caring, feminine woman, and the woman that you're dating,
doesn't fit into those categories, or doesn't want to step into those roles,
then maybe that's the wrong person for you.
Maybe the right person for someone else,
but maybe not right for you. Well, High Flyers, this is a,
this is the big red flag to me, but, um,
it's also a bad sign. They're just bad with money.
They just do not value money.
They've got a lot of debt. They've got credit card debt.
They are borrowing money from friends, family,
and everyone else all the time.
I have a client who has a girlfriend and she is
constantly asking him to help out with her credit card
bill. And then when he paid the $10,000 credit card bill,
she got angry at him because he was late a few days,
you know, is that really? Is that really what you want?
How about your guy has gambling
problems or he's always buying motorcycles or
fishing gear, guns, or other things toys.
And he's got debt and credit card debt.
And if you two get together in a deeper, more committed relationship,
you're bringing that into your life as well.
So this is a huge sign.
And what it is is it's a sign that the person is not mature
enough to be with you in a relationship.
Now you may say I'm wrong. It's okay. I'll deal with it.
And that's your choice. And I welcome you to do that. Sign.
Number three is stingy. They're just stingy.
They're so tight when they walk, they squeak. I didn't say that. Did I? I did.
Anyway. You know,
these are the people that they just don't want to
pay it forward. They don't want to share.
They don't want to give. They're just stingy.
They will ask you, uh, okay,
I paid half the bill. You you've paid half the bill. How about the tip?
Why don't you pay all the tip? You know? And then I'll pay the tip next time.
But next time comes and you're paying the tip again. They're just stingy.
You know what a stingy person is. I don't need to describe it to you,
but is that the kind of person that you want to be with?
Because that, that stinginess with money, it,
it perpetuates into feelings.
They become stingy with their emotions.
They become stingy. I, you know, I know one couple.
And she says, uh, you know, he doesn't like holidays.
He doesn't celebrate any holiday. He doesn't put up any day.
And I have always loved holidays and he's agreed to
celebrate holidays with me. And I thought that was great.
That's a sign of someone who's not stingy. Who's willing to give.
So you take it from there. I mean, if you're with a stingy person,
where's it going to go? How's it going to play out?
That's what you want to ask yourself. Well,
number four is the person you're dating has a negative
mindset. You know, everything is negative. Everything is down.
Everything is going to hell. I mean,
he complains or she complains about
everything and everyone,
and they're always talking about other people as well. Now,
just remember when they're talking about other people and those people aren't
present,
they're likely talking about you when they're with other people and
you're not present just a thought. So High Flyers,
we're going to go through some more signs,
but all of these signs and characteristics,
you have attracted through the Law of Attraction.
So I guess my question to you is if you have
attracted these characteristics,
can you attract the opposite?
I believe you can. Well, High Flyers, this is a huge one.
They make you feel psycho.
Like there's something wrong with you. Like you're a stalker or like you're,
you're, you're obsessive for wanting a commitment,
a deep, heartfelt commitment.
They make you feel crazy for wanting to be married.
Don't you realize you're just a piece of paper.
It doesn't mean a thing. It's just paper.
Well, if it's just paper, let's go sign some. I mean, it's not a big deal,
right? Do you see what I'm saying?
They make you feel crazy for wanting a family.
They make you feel crazy for being close to your family. You know,
it's, it's a form of gaslighting. We'll get into that later. But,
but you have certain things that are core values to you,
that you deeply desire in your life.
And if you're with somebody that doesn't share those core values,
where's it going to go? What's it going to become? Well,
sign number six is they're just flaky and they are ghosting you.
All of a sudden things would be going great. You'll have a great weekend.
You'll have a great time together. And then you call them no answer.
You text them. No answer. And a week goes by two weeks,
go by three weeks, go by. And all of a sudden,
now they're texting you again. They vanish on you.
And then they reappear.
This is because they don't want commitment. That's one reason,
but it's also because it keeps you off guard and
keeps you wanting them and hungry for them.
Is he people that ghost and,
and vanish, um, are oftentimes deep down,
low in self-esteem.
And so they do this to keep people hungry for them.
I don't know. Is that what you want? I mean, if it is it's okay, it's your life,
it's your journey. But think about it.
It may not be the direction you deeply desire to travel. Well,
High Flyers, number seven is they are gas lighters.
It's all your fault. You did it again. See what you're doing.
You're a bad person.
Don't you know that that's something that you have to decide for
yourself. If yours,
if your self esteem and inner power and confidence is
strong enough, maybe you can take it and ignore it.
Or maybe if your self-esteem and inner power is strong
long enough,
maybe you can choose not to take it anymore up to you.
It's your choice. But it certainly is a negative vibratory sign.
All of these signs deal with vibration
and the law of attraction. Well, number eight,
they live to get high.
They work so that they can get high or that they can get drunk or that they can
party all the time.
They like to hang out with their so-called friends
and party and drink or smoke or whatever it is they're
into. And you're kind of secondary. You have to ask yourself,
this, are you in a relationship together,
or are they in a relationship where they're friends and you're
just tagging along? I mean, that can be the case.
It's possible. You want to ask that question? Well, High Flyers,
number nine, I shouldn't even have to say it bad hygiene. Now look at,
we can forgive the guy or the girl who
maybe
eats some garlic and forgets to brush or use some
mouthwash. And it may be a shock,
but that isn't bad hygiene.
What I'm talking about is body odor and just lack of
grooming, lack of taking care of, uh, of yourself.
And if you're with that kind of person,
that's the kind of energy you're going to be around day and night. If you,
if you take the relationship to the next level.
So I think that's really an important sign. Okay. There are more,
but I want you to think about this. It's your journey.
And any one of these signs can change
with the Law of Attraction,
but it's going to take effort and it's going to take energy on your part.
Your vibration is going to have to be so strong.
It literally overpowers theirs and
changes their vibration. It is possible.
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