- Hey, what's up?
It's me, Jessica J.
And I was just wondering
if you've ever sat and thought to yourself,
Uh, Jessica, I don't get it.
I thought things were going really good.
What happened?
Well, so I'm glad you asked,
'cause that's what I'm gonna go over today.
The three reasons we women might go cold on you
when it seemed so freaking promising,
and make sure you never miss out on another opportunity
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I always get so excited when I do it in one take.
Okay, because I'm trying to get right to the fucking point
these days in these videos.
I'm gonna start with number one,
but make sure you stay 'til number three,
because it's the only one
you can actually do something about.
I'm gonna tell you what you can do about it.
So the first thing is she actually found out
something about you that she really didn't like.
I said it once, I'll say it again,
we women, we be stalking,
and maybe she went through your Insta,
and found out that you and your girlfriend
only broke up like three weeks ago.
This literally happened to me.
I was on a date with a great guy.
We had so much fun, fun laughs, fun, fun, fun.
And then I got home like, oh my God,
I can like totally marry this dude.
Let me do a deep dive to his Insta.
Okay, let me look at his motherfucking Instagram.
And sure enough,
it'd only been three weeks where him and his ex-girlfriend
were posting love of my life photos.
And while I did do an even deeper dive,
and look into her Instagram,
and she did mention that they had just broken up,
ah that was just a little too soon for my tastes.
So yeah, I did ghost him.
Whatever, but again, this is intrinsic shit
that you might not be able to do anything about.
Maybe she didn't like your alma mater.
Maybe she found out that you're a Kansas City fan,
and she's a Bills fan.
Either way, she did some of her own digging,
and she didn't like what she found.
And she took it upon herself to be like, okay, I'm done.
We do this shit, what can I say?
Number two's really interesting,
and I actually had to explain this to a client last night,
but either she found out you are only partner material,
or you are absolutely not partner material.
I always say it's one thing to be a good person.
It's another thing to be a good partner.
Maybe you got all the fixings for boyfriend material,
but you're not exactly
making her eager in the pants for you.
Or maybe all you're doing is making her eager in the pants,
but she knows you're a fucking fuck up.
She knows you're a fuck boy.
And that you can never be anything longterm.
Again, that's not to say
that there's anything wrong with you.
You're on your journey.
You're doing what you gotta do for your fucking self.
However, if you are not making her eager in the pants,
chances are, you're not speaking to spark arousal.
And in order to do that, you got to check out
Speak to Spark Arousal at speaktosparkarousal.com.
Because fine, while it's great
that you might be partner material,
no woman nowadays wants to settle with a man
who doesn't make her want to fuck the shit out of him.
I can't tell you how many girlfriends of mine
are going through divorces,
'cause they're finally realizing that like, oh my God,
I didn't need to settle for somebody
who would just be a good husband and father,
because that's not what life's about.
We don't need to settle when we can make our own money,
when we can have our own dreams,
and when we don't need to partner up with somebody.
That's just not the reality of today,
so we women will not settle without the passion.
If you're not putting the passion in her pants,
then we will peace out on you.
And number three, this one makes me the saddest,
because I have done this as a woman.
And I had a lot of guys come around,
because it's been done to them.
Number three is some other guy came along,
and made her feel more for him than she felt for you.
Now, the reason I said you could do something about this
is because if you're not sitting there
making her feel desperate to be with you,
desperate to lock you down,
then you're not making her feel strongly enough
to go get snatched up by some other dude.
Again, because we women nowadays
are not in the market to settle for just a good guy.
Plenty of fucking good guys out there.
Plenty of guys who will listen to us, take our shit.
Never say anything,
but that's the stuff that women back then had to deal with,
because it was like, oh my God, well I don't have a job.
I'm not educated.
I need somebody to help me raise my kids.
That ain't the reality of us right now.
We want somebody who gives us something
that no other man is giving us.
And that's the fire in our loins in a very non-medical way.
So I actually already mentioned it.
If you are not making her feel that way about you,
if you don't have women desperate to lock you down,
and desperate to have a life with you,
it's because you're not making her
feel emotionally compelled enough to do so.
And the one thing that can make us want to feel that way
with you is feeling that intense attraction for you,
feeling that intense arousal for you,
because I'm sorry, arousal and desire
are the only things that are gonna separate you
from any other person in her life.
We don't need another girlfriend.
Our girlfriends are reliable,
supportive, soul sweet, and caring.
Always remember our birthdays.
And I'm sorry, that's just not enough,
because if that's all you can bring to the table,
you should be worried,
but don't worry for too long,
because I go over exactly how to do this
in my Speak to Spark Arousal system,
where it shows you exactly how to incite that desire
in any woman you want in a way that doesn't feel forward,
or creepy, or fucked up, or out of character for you,
which I found are usually the key reasons
why guys feel uncomfortable moving things forward,
or becoming flirty.
Is that I don't to be creepy, Jessica,
or even that's not me, Jessica.
So put those excuses to the fucking side already.
If you haven't gotten on board with Speak to Spark Arousal,
and you're not making women want to rip your clothes off,
there's nothing else I can do for you.
There's no point in watching any more of my fucking videos.
Sorry, I'm getting a little aggressive,
'cause these are excuses that don't need to be had.
So check it out while you still can.
If this is something that you have been dealing with
for way too long now,
is women going cold on you with no rhyme or reason.
And thanks for watching as always,
I'll see you guys next time.