What to do when a girl rejects you
Welcome back my disciples.
Now, if you made it your goal to get better at dating or just to live like a boss, you
will definitely experience a lot of down periods where you just can’t do things right and
rejection is something you will have to deal with.
It’s totally normal and a part of the process towards becoming a better human being, I mean
demi-god.
So today, I’m gonna give you some tips to prevent rejection fucking up your mindset
and teach you how to actually use it to learn and grow.
Because the fact is this, every guy gets rejected by girls, anyone you can think of has been
rejected by a girl, but the important thing is how you handle it.
And I’m gonna show you how.
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Now let’s get to the advice.
Tip #1: Don’t feed into the rejection.
When you get rejected, the first thing that people do is feel really, REALLY shitty about
it.
Then they start to replay the scenario and think about what they could have and should
have done.
And then they begin to self-deprecate and beat themselves up over the rejection and
how they must be shitty at pickup or be a shitty person if they didn’t prevent the
rejection.
This is a negative loop that most people feed into when something bad happens.
FUCK THAT.
The only way to prevent this negative spiral is to stop it immediately when it starts.
So instead of beating yourself up over it, look at the rejection you just experienced
and instead think about what the key takeaways are.
Instead of replaying the rejection and negging yourself for what you should have done, just
analyze what you’ve learned and how you plan to implement it the next time.
Which brings me to point #2.
#2 Pump yourself into a positive state.
When you experience rejection, your mind will be full of negativity and the longer you stay
in that negative state, the more discouraging it will be and the larger negative impact
it will have.
That’s why you should instantly spin it into a positive learning experience.
Think about, how now you know that you shouldn’t text a girl too much, or how you’ll make
a move faster next time and won’t make the same mistake twice.
Think about the benefits you got out of the rejection and how now you have more time to
focus and pursue other girls who you’ll learn even MORE from.
At first it might not be effective, but when you create this mental pattern of putting
negative situations into a positive light, over time it will become habit and make things
a lot easier.
Tip #3: Let that shit go.
She could’ve had a bad day, she could be talking to someone and already feels loyal
to them or she just wasn’t all that into you bro.
And that’s fine.
Not your fault.
Not her fault.
It just wasn’t meant to happen with this one, move on.
There’s like 3 billion more where that came from.
No need to be a little bitch about it!
Besides, after getting rejected, the ONLY possible way of getting her to change her
mind and like you is if you move on and start fucking other girls because this way, she’ll
see you’re not a little bitch who’s gonna sit around crying and waiting for her to change
her mind.
In my experience, when a girl rejects you, you can either move on and try again in a
few months once she forgets about you because this way she’ll be more open to you since
it’s been so long since she last heard from you.
I wouldn’t bank on this though, the best thing to do is to move on.
Case closed.
Just let that shit go!
Tip #4: Don’t be a little bitch about it The worst way to deal with rejection is flipping
out about it.
If you get rejected and start ranting and having an emotional reaction to it or just
make some passive-aggressive comments, you’re a fucking loser bro.
No, you don’t look like a loser, you are one.
These girls don’t owe you shit and they are allowed to reject you.
If you are the type to react to rejection this way and then start saying shit like:
“Oh, this dumb stupid bitch.
Fuck her.”
then there’s your answer why you got rejected - you’re a loser.
But lucky for you, most men are born losers and it’s very real to overcome it.
But if you are a loyal Basedlympian, chances are you don’t need this tip and if you aren’t
one, then subscribe so you can become a man.
Tip #5: Always have a roster of girls.
This is probably the most important tip right here.
It’s really hard to dwell over a girl that rejected you when you’re talking to a bunch
of different girls, especially if you’re having success with them.
Another thing is that if the rejection happened in a school setting let’s say, and you instantly
move on and start talking to a different girl, you will get over the girl from before AAAND
if she sees you being such a boss who doesn’t give a shit about the rejection and just starts
chilling and talking to some other girl, it might make her regret and rethink her decision.
I’m typically talking to 3-4 girls at any one time just because it doesn’t make sense
to overinvest in any one girl so early on.
It’s best to keep your options open and save yourself from wasting time on a girl
who will probably end up being not worth it anyway.
Tip #6: Watch Based Zeus videos
This one is too obvious.
But yeah, these videos are pretty much the key to everything.
If you watch my videos, it will pump you up and give you the most solid YouTube life advice.
My videos will slowly start turning you into a high-ranking Basedlympian who just isn’t
phased by petty bullshit and does his own thing.
So stay tuned and keep growing and becoming fucking awesome.
And that my handsome motherfuckers, is it!
In summary: don’t feed into the rejection
pump yourself into a positive state let that shit go
don’t be a little bitch about it always have a roster of girls
and watch Based Zeus videos baby.
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