Have you ever wondered how does an alpha male handle being dumped? I'm going to share with you
a few things today that you can implement in your life should that ever happen to you. Stick around.
Welcome back, gentlemen. Coach Mossab here and in this video I'm going to cover a few things
on how an alpha male handles being dumped. The first one being how an alpha male consoles himself
and how he thinks about the relationship to move past it, then we're going to talk about what he
does to pick himself back up and start re-entering the dating scene and then I'm going to talk about
a key mindset that he uses to move forward and find somebody new. All right let's jump in.
So, first let's talk about right after the breakup, what goes through an alpha male's mind ideally
and how he processes the breakup going forward. So, the first thing that he thinks is that he
was on his purpose in life on his mission before the relationship started during the relationship
and now he's still on it afterwards and that sort of grounds him and keeps him going through
the breakup because a lot of times what guys do is when they enter a relationship, they sort of let go
what they were doing beforehand, what made them attractive and so they find themselves after
they break up, starting back at square one. Not really knowing how to get back out there, maybe
they're now out of shape, maybe their friends are no longer around and they have to rekindle
those relationships again but what should have happened instead and what alpha male aims to do
and what does happen is that his social circle is still around, his hobbies are still in place,
he didn't get complacent in the relationship and so now after the relationship is over,
he's not wandering and lost for what to do. He's still going about his life but now he just has
to deal with the grief rather than the grief as well as picking his life back and putting
it together. So, it's very important to have that passion, that purpose in your life that all your
actions are directed towards, maybe that's a charity thing, maybe that's a career thing.
Anything where you're aiming for something bigger and a goal that's in front of you that helps keep
you anchored and on track. So, that's number one, he's not completely restarting from scratch
after the relationship is over and number two is that he understands that he can attract somebody
if he gets back into the dating scene and this is actually pretty reassuring
because if you're somebody, maybe you got lucky, you don't really know how to date and you stumbled
onto that past relationship, losing that can be devastating especially if you think you have
no hope of finding somebody else because maybe you don't have the ability to attract, you don't
really know what to do, that can be pretty overwhelming but instead what an alpha male
knows is that he has built up his social skills, his conversational skills, his dating skills over
time so that when the relationship is over, he's still grieving but he understands that later he
can find somebody new and he doesn't think that he's going to be forever alone or have this weight
on his shoulder after the relationship is over. So, if you don't have this belief currently, say if
your relationship were to end or you think it's on the verge of ending, maybe it's in the past and you
had that fear of not finding somebody else, what you want to do is work on your dating skills, your
communication skills, your persuasion, all these sorts of things so that when a breakup happens,
you're not completely lost or fearful of what the future might hold you'll have this understanding
that you can get yourself back out there and find somebody new. Now, point number three, I actually
want to dispel a myth about what it means to be an alpha male and what people sort of think
an alpha male is like and it's that they think he is some sort of emotionless person
or he sort of doesn't feel things but that's actually not true. A lot of times alphas are very
compassionate, they do have a sense of loss if they lose somebody in a relationship so
they're not completely stoic at all times and feel nothing, they do grieve after the relationship but
the difference is they don't let that stop them from taking action. The difference might be if
you have a breakup and your friends invite you to come out with them, a lot of times if you're still
grieving, you might be too depressed to go out, you stop yourself from going out but what they will do
instead is that they'll force themselves to go out, go out with their friends, do whatever they need to
sort of pick themselves up from that low. So, it's not that they don't feel anything, they do feel and
they do grieve and they do process the end of that relationship but they don't let that stop them
from again, taking action and getting back out there. So, next I'm going to cover what an alpha
male does to start picking himself back up and getting back in the dating scene but before I do
that, if you enjoy this content, go ahead and hit the like and subscribe button and leave a comment
below, I will get back and answer if you have any questions about this content. So as I mentioned
during the relationship, that alpha male didn't let the relationships with his friends fall, he
kept up his social circle, he kept up his hobbies so the first thing he does when the relationship
is over as I already alluded to is to reach out to those friends, say hey, my relationship just ended,
let's find something to do, maybe we'll go out, maybe let's just hang, whatever it is to have
that support network of guys he'll reach out to to stop himself from falling into that lull. So, that's
the first thing he'll reach out to his friends. He'll continue to go out, work on his hobbies,
do well at his job and otherwise continue to keep the ball rolling so that again, he doesn't fall
into sort of any depression or lulls in his life. The other thing he does is if he knows that
that past relationship is over is he'll reach out to other women in his phone to see what was there,
maybe they were off limits during the relationship and see if he can restart something to enter a new
relationship if that's what he wants. If not, then he takes his time away from that but again, an
alpha male is somebody who has women's interests generally so if his past relationship is over,
then he knows he has options for potentially a new relationship going forward. So, if he knows
that that past relationship is completely done and there's no going back to that, then he knows that
the only way forward is to start taking action and potentially entering into a new relationship. So,
overall what I want to emphasize the theme is that he doesn't sulk and he understands that inaction
is the enemy so immediately he starts picking things back up, he starts moving things forward
either into a new relationship or moving his life past because the more he sits back and thinks
about the relationship and grieves and reflects on it, the more negative emotions he's gonna feel
and the more grief he's gonna feel. But if he starts taking action then he's gonna get out
of his head into the world and potentially get out of that situation into either a new relationship
or to the point where he stops thinking about that past relationship. Now, if you're interested in more
ways on how to become an alpha male then I have a free gift for you which is my dating mindset and
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handle situations like this and all others as an alpha male. All right, see you on the inside.