Matt: Do you need to be alpha rich and significantly good-looking to attract
the woman of your dreams and to get those gorgeous woman's attention well if
you think the answer is yes to any or all of those three then you need to
watch this video because my name is Matt artisan and this is do you need to be
alpha rich or good looking to attract beautiful women many who encouraged me
to be assertive the woman wants to be turned on we've done all the testing you
know what works you guys who think you have to be a certain way to attract
beautiful women have identity issues and it actually hurts your identity to think
that with a little bit of work you can actually be really good with women so if
you have a limiting belief that women like alpha rich or really good-looking
guys and anything that goes against that core belief threatens your identity
because it would force you to actually take action instead of just living like
a victim of your circumstance guys will fight me on this topic till the end of
time I see it in the YouTube comments all the time because it's rooted in
their identity they think that it's true that it's a fact that women like those
types of guys and if I dispelled that fact that changes their whole identity
that means they can't use the excuses of I'm too short or I don't have enough
money or I'm not good-looking enough to go out and get girls that means they
actually have to do something they actually have to learn some skills and
go take action and it feels a lot better to just sit on your ass and do nothing
isn't that right but of course you do that you're gonna reap those rewards of
nothing especially no beautiful women in your life so let's start with number one
alpha look at me in two I look all that alpha
according to most people's definition of alpha I'm five foot ten I'm not super
short but I'm definitely not alpha height look at my muscles
that's not alpha muscle and I have a thorn tattoo that's like the opposite of
alpha listen to my voice does it sound super alpha yeah I do
voice deepening techniques and it's a lot deeper than it used to be and you
can why the video that I created on that topic
I'll put a link down in the description but for most people's definition I'm not
very alpha which is good news to you if you don't think you're all that alpha if
I can get gorgeous women then so can you and it's not whether you need to be
alpha or not a lot of women I've seen comments they say I don't want a guy
who's alpha oh really you want a guy who's beta you want to go who's
supplicating you want a guy who doesn't take chances in life who doesn't take
any risks who has no success in life come on
but whatever you call it it doesn't matter the term there are certain
qualities that a woman wants and those include leadership whether
you're leading a group or not is irrelevant but you're leading yourself
leaving yourself to positive action you are success driven you have goals in
life and you're trying to achieve them you have big aspirations and big dreams
and you have a purpose in life and most of your actions are dedicated to
achieving that purpose you're on your path if you don't know what that path is
if you don't know what that purpose is that's fine that can be your purpose
you're on a mission to figure out who you are and what your purpose is that's
actually a pretty noble purpose in my opinion so what other attributes do you
need if you want to be alpha or whatever you want to call it attractive to women
well of course you need to be a risk-taker you need to get out of your
comfort zone you need to be brave you need to go after what you want in life
and that goes hand in hand with having a purpose you have a purpose but then you
actually go for it we're men we have a penis it's kind of like a sword
we thrust it whether it's into women or into the world what I mean by that is
we're here to conquer we're here to conquer the world a man who doesn't have
any ambition and he's afraid of taking risks in life and he just wants to stay
in his little comfort zone all the time is not attractive there's nothing
attractive about that that's just lazy that's insecure and that's fearful women
are not attracted to men who live in fear they're attracted to men
who take chances and are brave stepping out of your comfort zone and how do they
know you're that type of person an alpha because you can handle tension when shit
hits the fan you don't go running for the hills
you're there and you take action now how's she gonna know that without a
catastrophe happening easily you walk up to her and there's gonna be some tension
in that interaction and if you're calm and you can handle that tension you're
not freaking out and you seem very grounded and comfortable then she's
gonna assume those qualities at least some of those qualities that I just
mentioned and in that interaction if you're not trying to impress her and
you're not trying to please her and you're not putting her on a pedestal
then she'll see you as being high status alpha masculine whatever word you want
to call it she'll be attracted to you because she's
gonna feel that you can handle the situation and the fact that you just
walked up to her shows a lot of confidence and shows her that you go for
what you want in life in this case it's her in that moment your purpose is to go
for her but that's not your bigger purpose you're not gonna put her on a
pedestal and make women your purpose or make any one particular woman your
purpose no she's just hopefully along for the ride and that's the attitude
that you have this direction for your life and women are just a bonus whether
you have women in your life or not it's not that big of a deal because you have
a destiny and you want a high status or high-value woman to be along for the
ride and when you can approach her and when
you're not putting her on a pedestal then you're you can be calm and just
have a normal interaction with her and she can feel all these attractive
qualities almost in an instant you don't have to try to impress her you don't
have to try to win her over you can essentially be your self I know that's
the most cliche advice ever but once you put down this facade and
you're not you don't have a mask and you're not trying to be the person that
you think she wants you to be and you're just being your true authentic self
which is what I would consider being alpha whether you're big
and buff and have a low voice or not you're just comfortable who you are you
know who you are and you're cool with that you know not everybody is gonna
love you I know a lot of people I'm not their cup of tea so what I don't give it
I'm gonna be me I'm gonna keep doing me take it or leave it and that's the
attitude I have with women as well believe it or not that attitude is very
attractive that you like her but you don't care if you lose her if she's not
into it so what you're not gonna cry you'll just go meet somebody else and
these same qualities of being a leader going for what you want in life having a
mission a purpose and being decisive and taking action are the same type of
qualities you need if you want to be successful in business and have
financial success for the most part also intelligence definitely helps so maybe
just maybe when a woman sees a man that's successfully financially he has
his own business and he's made it to the top he's doing pretty well shouldn't she
assume that he also has those attractive qualities duh of course so maybe it's
not the actual monetary wealth that she's attracted to although that is also
attractive knowing that this guy can provide this awesome lifestyle they can
travel fly first-class have nice cars and nice things
of course what woman doesn't want that but how is she gonna know that you have
those things unless you're approaching women in your Lamborghini she's not
gonna know that you have a Lamborghini what are you gonna sit on the side of
the road and just wait for women to pass by I guess you could do that maybe
that's not a bad strategy heck you could rent a Lamborghini if you wanted to do
that be a lot cheaper you get a bunch of dates and then when
you need more dates rent another Lamborghini no no don't do that because
you don't need to do that but seriously how is she gonna know that you have
money women only want money okay how does she even know that you have money
in the first place unless it's through your social circle which is a great idea
by the way if you have money yeah meet a lot of women through your social circle
because women that know you will hook you up with their friends they're gonna
say hey you got to meet this guy he's real
successful which is an attractive quality remember you have to meet him or
he's rich you have to meet him because well again what woman doesn't want to
have that lifestyle but the truth is if you're working your ass off to become
wealthy do you really have all that time to build up your social circle maybe you
do that's great if you do then you're really living the dream but a lot of
rich people are struggling in their dating life I know because we charge a
lot of money for our coaching and you got to be pretty successful to afford it
and I've had millionaire clients many many many many millionaire clients that
are still struggling but it's very easy for them because they already have a lot
of the attributes that make a successful man they just don't have a lot of
opportunities because how do women know that they're rich they don't have time
to build up their social circle they're not driving around in their Lamborghini
every single day you know trying to pick up women so here's the thing why not
make a good first impression and just dress like you're the boss dress like
you have some money you don't even have to have any well you do need some money
to buy the clothes other than that you don't need any money borrow a thousand
bucks from somebody if you have no money and buy a badass outfit or two or three
I bought a three-piece suit from wish calm that was made probably in China I
got it tailored in the US for about 50 bucks and it looks pretty damn boss now
when you feel it if somebody really knows maybe they can tell that it's not
a Tom Ford suit but most people aren't going to be able to tell you can buy
knockoff Louis Vuitton shoes for a hundred bucks I'm in meta-gene Colombia
actually bought some for like 30 bucks anyway so the point is you can look rich
by just having a nice outfit and that's actually gonna do a lot better for you
versus being rich and not looking the part
as a lot of rich people do they have all this money but then they don't even look
all that wealthy because when you approach a woman at a bar or on the
street she's not gonna know who you are unless you're rich and also famous then
yes that's a big advantage but if you're just rich she's not gonna know that you
can't go up to her and be like hey baby I'm rich
yeah I have million bucks right over there in my car in the trunk no it
doesn't work like that even if that was true she'd be like okay douchebag you're
just bragging that obviously means you can't get women if you need to brag
about your money much better if a woman finds out it about it indirectly my
clients that drove Lamborghinis I told them don't even pick up your date in the
Lamborghini on the first date pick her up in the Lamborghini on the second date
because then she's gonna wonder wait why didn't he pick me up on the first date
in the Lamborghini and the answer is because I didn't need to impress you and
that's way more impressive when you don't have to use your wealth or your
things or your attractive qualities and brag about them now finally what about
being good-looking yes that helps sure if you're really ugly or you're really
short or you're really skinny like me it doesn't mean you have no chance
it just means you need to work a little bit harder on those attributes that I
described you need to internalize them and embody them and become an attractive
man internally since you're not an attractive man externally I think I'm
pretty decent looking but there's definitely a lot better-looking guys
than me in fact I have had clients that I'm like why do you need this
you're like a male model one time I had a guy from Sweden who was like I don't
know how tall he was six five probably super buff ridiculously good-looking
chiseled jaw and guess what the first night of the training he goes into the
club and he just stands there women are looking at him because he's so
good-looking and he dressed well too but he did nothing he was scared
in that environment he was shaking in his boots then we had a little Indian
guy in fact I'll show you a clip right now this guy little Indian guy got three
or four numbers on that first night why because not because he was good-looking
or what women were looking for but because hey he tried he took action and
B he embodied some not all but some of those attractive alpha qualities whereas
the good-looking guy didn't do anything and when women approached him he was
just awkward and nervous and women could feel that and then
eventually they just walked away I'm like okay whatever so again good looks
definitely help try to be as attractive as you can through your style fix the
things that you can fix get the right hairstyle get the right fashion get a
nice beard do whatever you need to do to look your most attractiveness attractive
but that doesn't mean you're gonna be a ten probably you might still be pretty
low on the totem pole but as you keep learning these skills you'll become more
and more attractive if you're already really attractive then you don't have to
be as good at these skills I'll be honest you're gonna your looks will get
you further but if you're not good-looking it doesn't mean you should
give up and not even try it just means you're gonna have to work a little bit
harder but so what that's fun man that's practicing that's going out and meeting
a lot of beautiful women and failing a bunch of times but guess what you're
gonna get some wins on the way and if you want me and my team to help you so
you don't have to fail so many times because quite frankly just watching
videos you're gonna probably not do it exactly as I intend or you're gonna be
one of those guys that watch all these different videos from all these
different people who say all these different things and then you're going
to get really confused it's called information overload and
then you'll either do nothing or you'll go out there and you'll stumble because
there's so much information in your head don't be one of those guys you want to
get this part of your life up to the next level then get a mentor because
like I said in the beginning it's the same attractive qualities for success so
when you get coaching for dating guess what chances are you're gonna become
more successful in business and you're gonna have more monetary success as an
indirect outcome because you're gonna change who you are and become a more
attractive man so if you want to apply for coaching with us there's a link down
in the description we'd love to take you in field hold you by the hand show you
how it's done roleplay with models and give you on the
spot feedback revealing your blind spots and tweaking all those little things
that you're doing to push women away and don't say you're not doing them if
you're watching this and you're definitely doing them because we all do
things that push women away and until you realize
what they are you're gonna keep doing it and you're gonna keep forming bad habits
over and over again it's like watching a video about workout
working out and then going to the gym and doing it wrong and you keep doing it
wrong over and over again and you get little results and then you hire a
trainer and he's like no man you're doing this wrong
he tweaks it a little bit all of a sudden you get much better results and
also to help you out I want to give you my free conversation cheat sheet which
you can download right now for free it'll help you know what to say in
various situations when you first meet a girl daytime nighttime and what to do
and what to say on a date so that you can not run out of things to say quite
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