Hi everyone.
This is Jack and Clayton.
And this video is Three Words to Make a Man Love You.
Now that might sound like a bold claim that there's three magic words that basically unlock
a man's heart and make him love you but follow us here because we're about to share with
you a phrase that is incredibly powerful and we're gonna break down why.
Now maybe you're thinking about what are these three words.
Is it “I love you”?
No.
Is it desire you?
It's not that either.
And many times, when a man hears, I desire you or I love you, it makes him feel good
but at the same time it can also be laced with this feeling of obligation like, well
does that mean that now he has to love you too?
Does that mean that he's trapped?
Does that mean that he has to desire you in the same way or that you are sudden how wanting
something more from him that he can't give you?
All these things bring up kind of a, they're not necessarily pure positive emotions.
And by the way that's because a lot of men will have heard this in a way where there
was actually a sense like, “I'm feeling anxious about the relationship.
I'm saying I love you and really what I'm wanting is the reciprocation.”
So, they have been used in the past as ways to actually temperature check him or pull
him into something that he might already have the brakes on.
Okay so, let's think of a couple others.
Could it be, I RESPECT YOU?
That I think it does impact a man to hear that.
That is important… that's better.
I think we're getting closer.
Men – there's something about the masculine essence that wants to feel respected, that
wants to be seen as somebody who is respectful.
And then we've got maybe I ADMIRE YOU [01:50] and I think that's getting closer.
I like hearing that.
I do too.
It does it makes me feel good, however there's something that hits a little bit deeper.
What is it Clayton?
Why don't you share?
Okay.
So, the three words that we're talking about are these, I trust you.
I trust you.
Now whether you've heard this before or not we're gonna break it down as to why this is
so impactful for a man who is in his masculine essence or a guy who is driven in life and
who really is kind of a man's man.
Why this hits him on such a core.
[02:30] The first one is because when you tell a man that you trust him, what you are
ultimately doing is you are enabling him to actually leave the relationship right.
You're saying, I trust you, and in that you trusting him you are actually validating his
reality.
You are validating him as a leader in some way in his world.
You are respecting his integrity.
You're enabling his integrity because there's almost a certain level of vulnerability that
it takes from your part to say, “I am opening to your world, do with our connection what
you will.”
Right.
I'm with you on this ride and you're in the driver's seat.
I want to do me just share very quick jump personally that you know you know I'm into
like global and civic and political issues, I've had a woman say to me you know when it
comes to these decisions about where we should go globally as a society, there's no one I
would trust more.
And that kind of you know made me a little afraid at one level to hear that because it's
like, “wow that's actually you're inviting me to step into this really like big leadership
where you're saying I trust your decisions and not just for me but for our community.”
So, there's something in this that's really worth exploring.
I love the idea.
So, it sounds like she comes into alignment with your reality and there's no resistance
or struggling or doubting you right.
It's suddenly the brakes are off and it's I am fully – it's almost like saying, “I
am fully enabling you to – I trust in your decisions.
I trust in your behavior and trust in your direction.”
Right.
I trust in your direction.
You're a good guy I trust that you have the integrity where you would do the right thing.
And notice in that is this invitation for him to actually become a better man right.
We look back at that movie I think it's called, As Good As It Gets with Helen Hunt and Jack
Nicholson.
They're having a conversation at dinner and he says, “you make me want to be a better
man.”
And I think that this is a gateway into that it's into inviting him to be a better man
because suddenly there is a certain level of responsibility that you are bestowing upon
him, by validating his perception and by telling him these things – I trust you.
Now notice something this is completely 180 from a lot of what we also hear from women
right.
There are no good men out there right.
This is saying you are a good man or and I trust you to be that.
Or, all men are untrustworthy or they're just untrustworthy men right.
So, this is actually invitation for you to look at what comes up for you around trusting
because there's probably some things that you might want to clean up on your side of
the fence.
And to that end, these this statement is only as powerful as you are a respectable woman
in his life as well.
So, we actually created a webinar may all the Three Keys to Attracting A High-Quality
Man that we want to invite you to.
And the reason why is because it's – we open up some distinctions in some ways for
you to look at yourself, for ways to look at how you are showing up in relationship,
that will allow you to have and feel more power in your dating and relationships, to
feel more confident and to also understand what it takes to set up the dynamic to make
a man want to commit to you, to make a man want to actually hear those words from you
I trust you.
And where those words can actually empower him and inspire him to be somebody that he
could have maybe never been in his life.
Because there's something super powerful when you know you've got someone who sees you and
who is deeply in your corner.
Yes.
Someone whose right by your side, has your back, I'm batting with you we're facing it
together.
So, even if your guy is strong I'm strong and directed and all those things still just
having someone right.
He's still gonna have moments where he might doubt himself.
He still may have difficult days or stressful decisions and I know them.
He might hide them.
He’s knowing that you're there with him will make the difference, potentially.
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Thanks for watching.