10 Ways To GRAB Her Attention Without Saying A Word
[0:00:03] Tip #1: Get to know her friends. Her guy friends,
her girlfriends, the people she works with, the people she hangs out with. Here's the
thing. You may not have a class with her, you may not work in the same building, but
most likely you've got friends in common. You want to leverage these relationships to
build up a reputation as a standup guy. And your reputation matters a lot especially when
women are evaluating men because it doesn't matter what you say about yourself. What matters
is how you fit into the group and what other people in the group think of you. The reality
is, gents, fortune favors the bold. There's going to be that day you see her across the
street having lunch with your friends, Mike and Marian. So, guess what? You're gonna walk
across the street, say hi to your friends, and quickly introduce yourself. Now, you can
only hang out for a few minutes. They’re eating lunch. You need to be in an appointment.
You move on. But the thing is, all of a sudden she is asking, “Oh, who was that guy?”
And your friends, they’ve either got great things to say about you or maybe not so great
things. So, that's why having a reputation with her friends is important. Tip #2: Make
the right type of entrance. What's the right type? Well, it depends on the situation. You're
walking into a club. An attractive woman on each arm. Boom! Your status is much higher
than a guy going in by himself. Or you’re walking into class with your two friends who
look to you for leadership. Guess what? Your status is going to be higher than if you just
walked in by yourself. Another trick, know somebody. Because when you show up, you don’t
wanna be standing alone. You want to see someone that recognizes you and gives you a great
greeting and all the sudden sends a signal throughout everyone there in the group, guess
what, this person is good to go. Now, what these first 2 points have in common is what
sociologists call social proof. And this is the idea that, as human beings, we give a
very high rating. It’s very important to us what other people in the group think of
other individuals. That right there, the fact that they've got good social status, puts
us at ease that this person is safe, this person is someone that can be trusted. So,
the girl you’ve been wanting to meet, she's out there in that group. She saw you walk
in with other women. Guess what? She knows it. Other women approve of you. She saw you
walking with your friends. She knows that other guys respect you. All of these things
are being said about you with you not having to say a word. The next 2 points, don't be
afraid to be the best dressed man in the room and don't be afraid of color and texture.
I get it. A lot of guys don't want to stand out, but here's the thing. If you want to
get noticed, you have to by definition stand apart from all the other guys out there. This
jacket does nothing, but making me look better. It builds up the shoulders. It makes me look
taller and slims up the torso. And let's talk about the power of color. Color matters. Color
grabs our attention. Why? It’s a natural phenomenon. We’re look at nature. We look
at flowers. They leverage the power of color. Color draws us in and you better believe women
notice it. Other men notice it. It's just something that grabs attention and help you
stand out from the crowd. And I get it. Sports jackets may not be your thing, but look at
other options. This green suede right here, every time I wear this, I get compliments.
Not versatile enough for you? Then go for a classic men's wear essential that’s never
going to go out of style and pay attention to the fit. Things that fit your body are
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on the list, acknowledge her. So, guess what? You've had that introduction. Yes, it was
brief, but you remember her. Of course, you remember her and you want to show that you
remember her. So, know her name. And whenever you're walking by, say hello. If it's maybe
across the room, you may have to go a little bit out of your way. But you know, try to
make some eye contact. Give her a nod. The point is you want to acknowledge her and let
her know that she is on your radar. And you know, just get her thinking about you. Next
up, gents, smile and make eye contact. The funny thing is, as grown men, so many of us
don't know how to do this anymore. We've grown up and society has told us, “Don't make
eye contact. Be serious.” But if you go back to being a kid, what did you enjoy? I
mean, when you saw somebody, you said hello. You greeted people. People can't help but
feel elated when they smile. You want to get back to that point. And this needs to be genuine.
And you can't just simply say, “Hey, I'm gonna do it when I see her.” If you're not
practicing, then you're not gonna be able to do it when you wanna do it. So, that's
why I highly recommend that you start making more eye contact with just people in general.
[0:05:02] Practice before you need practice it. Practice
just simply giving people smiles. Doesn't cost anything. And you're gonna find that
actually makes other people smile. It's gonna become normal procedure for you. And guess
what? All of a sudden, when you see her, you're going to naturally make eye contact and give
her a smile and that's when the magic's going to happen. Next on the list, don't be afraid
to make a little bit of a fuss. What you want to show is that she's worth it, that you want
to look your best. And it's a small detail, but it's something that women pick up on.
They got great peripheral vision. So, she's walking by. You straighten up your necktie.
Maybe run your fingers through your hair. Right there, you're simply saying, “Hey,
you are someone I want to impress and I wanna look my best.” And she may take notice.
And another quick tip, make sure to stand up straight. Roll those shoulders back. Women
love a man with good posture. Now, what if you’re walking by her? How do you stand
out? An easy way is to develop a signature scent. Here's the thing, is that most women
have a better sense of smell than men in general. They're gonna pick up on things. And if you've
got a scent that is yours, one that separates you from all the other guys out there that
when you wear this and you know it works with your body chemistry, you know how much it’s
gonna project. You know how to wear this thing. Again, think you wanna be discovered. You
don't necessarily want to announce yourself. You don't want to choke out the room. So,
don't wear too much. And don't forget, gents, only you are best suited to discover your
own signature scent because this is something that every time you put it on, you feel better.
You feel a bit elated. It's like liquid courage. This stuff right here is going to become your
calling card. And don't worry if it's a designer fragrance, if it's a relatively common fragrance.
You find the one that works with you, your body chemistry. If you like the smell, then
go for it. Now, if you’ve watched my videos enough, you know I love sports jackets and
their magical properties. And one of those magical properties is that they draw attention
to the shoulder points. Here's the thing, when you're walking past her, you're gonna
be strutting your stuff. Basically, you are gonna move your shoulders more than normal.
This is something almost all men do when they're trying to impress a woman. Women pick up on
this as well. But when you're wearing a jacket, it makes the strut look even better. That's
why I love how the silhouette is cut. It just makes you look stronger, more masculine. So,
if you’re gonna walk by, wear a jacket. Now, what if you get a little bit close, how
can you get her to like you without saying anything? First up, understand the power of
mimic. And this applies to any time you're engaging with somebody. Look at their body
language and don't be afraid to mimic it because what you want to do is send the same signal
that they are. So, if they got an open stance, or if they've got a little bit of a closed
stance, or if their feet are in a certain way, well, if you're listening to them, they’re
doing most of the talking, don't be afraid to mimic their body language. They're not
gonna pick up on it and what's gonna happen is they’re gonna say, “Oh, this person
is like me.” And they’re gonna be more likely to open up and trust you. Next up,
don't back down. And what I mean by this is if she enters your personal space, understand
that's your definition of personal space. Some guys, they, you know, kind of push themselves
back when actually she wasn't really meaning anything by that. She was just simply trying
to get close to show you something. She was simply “Hey, I actually wanna get close
to smell this guy.” If she steps in close, she has made the decision to get in closer.
Don't step back. Instead, just maintain your ground. Now, if you are having a conversation
and it would help to actually get closer, all of a sudden just maybe step in so that
you can see something. Don't overcrowd her. But at the same time, don't be afraid to also
get a little bit closer. And let's not forget the power of laughter. Real laughter. So many
guys suppress this, but if she says something funny, if you're in a group and somebody says
something just, yeah, you have to laugh, let it out because women find this incredibly
attractive. Now, what about particular pieces of clothing that you can wear to be more attracted
to get noticed? Gents, check out this video right here. I break out 10 items that you
can start to wear to become more attractive. Items that women are going to notice that
you are gonna get compliments every time you wear. Check out this video right here, gents.
I will link to it down in the description.
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