- Breadcrumbing, five ways how to deal with it.
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More and more often
I can see ladies questioning if he's breadcrumbing you.
If you're confused,
what exactly it is,
or you don't know how to handle it
then keep on watching.
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And just before I share with you
the five ways guys breadcrumb you
and how to handle it,
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Breadcrumbing is when he's not really interested in you
but he keeps dragging you around.
He keeps you as a plan B and drags you around.
He's seeing other girls
and he keeps you as a back burner.
Also another good indicator
is him never keeping his promises week after week
and not even bothering to spend time with you,
sending you texts for a booty call
and after you meet him last minute,
he disappears for a while.
So firstly, is it a pull away or a breadcrumb?
Sometimes ladies mistake a breadcrumb with a pull away,
and there could be several reasons for a pull away.
Ladies, it is best to make a little mental note
to your guy's pull aways.
For example, majority of time,
a man will pull away
after spending loving time together with you,
after a date or a longer video call.
A man will pull away if something tragic has happened
like a family death or a massive financial loss.
Ladies, please check out my video right here,
why men need to pull away.
Or he may just be a little bit more busy than usual.
So it's important to watch his actions
and notice patterns of his actions.
If he has come back from a pull away
less intense than usual,
it could be because he was just busy,
working extra work,
something happened on the way home,
a phone call, traffic, whatever.
Or he may just feel annoyed for whatever reason,
doesn't feel like speaking to anyone in general that way.
Needs his space more than usual,
but ladies, this is not breadcrumbing.
There is no guy who can non-stop chase you 24/7,
this is just not realistic
and this is something that we as women expect
because of the romantic movies
that are so fake and exaggerated.
But that's a topic for another day.
So please recognize if you're being needy
and don't overreact when it's just a pull away.
Number two, mirror him.
He may be breadcrumbing you
because he wants you to chase him and run after him.
He may be feeling insecure and want an ego stroke,
or his self-esteem is low
because you're practicing being high value.
And the sudden change in your behavior
has made him wonder.
If this is the case,
then you need to mirror him
because you know your worth,
that way he won't be able to get under your skin.
He will realize that you're not a doormat
and you have self-respect.
This is extremely attractive for a guy
and you will turn the tables
and ensure that he is the one pursuing you,
which a man should be doing anyway.
Number three, he is losing interest
or he was not that interested from the beginning.
Ladies, remember how important it is
to watch his actions.
If you are unsure if he is playing a game
or he is just a bit more busy that day,
or he's breadcrumbing,
observe his actions,
as that is the way to tell what is actually happening.
If you're the one chasing by sending a long text message,
the text taking up the whole screen,
but he only answers with one word replies,
you are the one pushing for the dates
or you desperately act out for attention,
then stop running after him.
Mirror him instead or let him go.
Focus on your life and do what makes you happy,
and, darling, your self-worth is not determined by him.
If he's interested,
he will start to wonder
why you are not sending essays anymore
and he will start to pursue you again.
Number four, he prefers face to face and not texts.
Another reason is he may not even like texting
but he will sweep you off your feet on a date.
As soon as the date has finished, he disappears,
some people just keep in touch
with a message or two in between the next date,
and that is totally normal.
If the dates are quite regular,
ladies, when you are not together,
it's completely fine for him to chase his dreams
or follow his interests.
If he is a high value man,
he will look for a high value woman
and will expect you to do the same.
Ladies, I have an awesome texting video
on how to stay attractive via text
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Number five, you meet regularly
but his texts are short and dry.
A lot of you ladies assume it's breadcrumbing
because he isn't obsessively sending you
paragraphs of text messages every hour of the day.
I disagree, it is a normal, healthy relationship
to text a couple of times a day.
If you need attention all day long,
you are being needy,
you're making him into your whole life
and he will get bored
as he can read you as an open book.
If, however, he doesn't call you
or sees you and only texts you max once a week
just for that booty call,
then disappears or sends a like on Insta
and then disappears again, that's breadcrumbing.
Please learn the difference
and you will save yourself a lot of heartache.
So ladies, these are my five tips
of how to establish if it's breadcrumbing
and how to handle it.
Make sure to take notes.
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