hey what's going on my beautiful people this is certified life and relationship coach coach court
in today's video i'm going to give you five ways to tell that
your ex is in a rebound relationship guaranteed
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is in a rebound relationship guaranteed the very first sign is the relationship moves really fast
if this person has moved on to someone and they were with you for a really long time
and within the first i would say month they're already meeting the family members
they're getting posted on social media they are doing things that you guys used to do you know
they're going to places that you guys used to eat i don't know how you would know that
but i know how people are and i'm pretty sure you have some people doing some recon for you
so if they're doing all those things and it seems like they're basically trying to replace you
then most likely it's a rebound relationship because they have not taken the time to heal and
what they're doing is they are subbing this person in just like in the basketball game literally
that's why they call it a rebound like which person shoots a shot comes off the hoop another
person comes up and grabs the rebound it's just like that in real life so if you weren't doing
things correctly if you were becoming uncentered or becoming just just a really toxic person to be
around most likely they were already thinking about you know rebounding with someone else
and they probably had someone else in their sights and when you guys broke up they decided
to go ahead and give this other person a chance it's like literally the coach went over to the
bench was like hey get ready take your warm-up off you're about to go in that's usually how rebounds
work the second way you can tell if this person has been with this person for a little bit of time
now it may have moved fast in the beginning but that next stage they're going to it's going to
stagnate really quickly where it's just going to hit a wall where all the trips they were taking
all the food they were going out to eat all the movies they were going to everything that they did
while the relationship was pretty much fresh that's going to all come to a screeching halt
they're going to stop doing those things they may you know it's winter season too if you guys are
experiencing this right now it's going into the winter time like all those things that they were
doing they're not even going to be able to do anymore so this is when the relationship
is actually going to get tested the most because they're going to have to find new ways to connect
instead of all the escapism activities that they were doing before because when people
go into these relationships like i said before and the relationship goes really fast it's most
likely that they're trying to forget something they're trying to replace you and keep their mind
occupied so they don't have to feel it but the relationship usually starts to stagnate you know
the pictures will stop being posted online um they they may even start to change their stat if they
switch to in a relationship right away or if they're whatever they did to show that hey i'm
happy and i've moved on from this past person all those things will stop you won't see that anymore
and that's when you start to see the reboundee start to become a little bit suspicious and ask
questions like hey what happened to what we had before like we connected really well we
were uh you know a match made in heaven now all of a sudden we're not doing any of that anymore
so i'm a little bit concerned and that's when your ex who's the rebounder is going to start feeling a
little bit of pressure to make the relationship more than what they actually intended for it to
be another sign that this relationship is a rebound is they start to show obvious signs
that they still care about what their ex is doing if you catch them checking their so their ex's
social media account if they're talking about oh well so and so and so her got into a relationship
with this person or um i heard through the grapevine that this person got a new job or he may
have lost his job or she lost her job then that's a sign that this person is still really committed
to this other person emotionally they still care about them and we all do care about our exes but
when you get into a rebound relationship and you haven't processed it and you haven't healed
then you still feel like you're in the front seat riding shotgun in that person's life and you may
even start expressing these things to the person that you're currently with so that's another sign
that this relationship most likely is a rebound the fourth sign that this is guaranteed a rebound
which i think is probably the most important one is if they were in a relationship with you for a
substantial amount of time six months a year six years whatever and the person that they
decided to get into a relationship with now is a complete opposite of you they're just nothing
like you and everybody knows that people are talking about it people are confused they're
wondering what in the world went on here how did this person go from this person to this person
it's most likely a rebound because they start to long for something that they don't have and
that's that 80 20 rule you may have 80 percent you know grasses greener syndrome which you guys heard
me talk about on my channel all the time the 80 20 rule where they have that 80 percent and they like
ah this isn't enough like i i really want a whole hundred percent person when you can't you can
never find a hundred percent person but they're really longing for the other twenty percent so
that person that they go to will be that twenty percent and it could it could you know at some
point progress into a whole 80 percent relationship but for the most part they're
leaving that 80 percent behind because they're longing for what they don't have you know they're
thinking that the grass is greener and the last sign that this is a rebound relationship now if
you have all five of these i say it's a really strong sign now if it's one or two of them you
know it it could potentially just be coincidental but you know if you have all five of these then
it's most likely a rebound the fifth one is they fail to open up to this person emotionally
now if you still haven't met this person's family yet or vice versa if you haven't met their family
or they haven't met your family then most likely they're thinking like oh we're just going to
live in the moment right now we don't want this thing to go too too committal or too extreme so
they're just living in the moment they're trying to heal from this other person while they're with
you and honestly they're most likely using you as that scapegoat they're pretty much using you for
emotional support and you know most of the time these relationships turn really intimate fast
you know they'll they'll purely be about you know let's not talk about anything let's just
do our thing and and you know call it a night so i hope you found this video
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