What's going on man? Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. If you're watching
this right now, that means that you're trying to get your ex back. If you're not
well you're in a good hands here because I'm gonna be giving some really good
information, whether or not you're trying to get your ex back, whether or not it's
going to work. Stuff that is gonna help you permanently for the rest of your
life, so hang on tight, let's go for a ride. One thing I need to say here is I
really don't believe in the idea of trying to get your ex back. I really
don't like the idea and the reason is is because I'm under the belief that if
something didn't work out with your ex then it's probably a good idea for you
to move on and meet someone else where things will be easier. Of course,
there are exceptions you know I don't know maybe you've been married for a
long time and you got divorced and maybe there's some way to work it
out or maybe you guys have been together for ten years and there is a way to work
it out and I'll give you some tips on how to do that. But at the end of the day,
it's really important for you to know that you don't want your ex back.
Let's look at the few different scenarios here. Either you broke up with
her and you want to get her back or she broke up with you. Well in the first
scenario, if you broke up with her what this means is that there was something
that wasn't working out between you two. Something deep down inside of you in
your intuition said this woman, this girl is not right for me. Unless you can
give yourself a really good reason why you should have her back, you should
really second-guess that because you initially broke up with her or maybe
you're giving her a second chance. You broke up with her because she cheated on
you or did something wrong and now you're giving her this second chance here when you
shouldn't be giving her that second chance because she messed up and you can find
someone better. Now I don't really believe in this idea of constantly finding
someone better all the time until you get to this point where you're
in too much of abundance and you just keep swiping or keep approaching.
Eventually, I believe you can find someone who's going to
amazing for you and is good enough. I don't say that in the settling good
enough, but good enough where she meets most of the criteria and you guys have an
amazing relationship. The other situation you might be in is if she broke up with
you and this is the case or a hundred percent, a hundred percent you should not
be trying to get her back. Again I have some information here for the for
the exceptions where maybe you guys were in such a long relationship and
you want to work it out. But either way you don't want to be going after the
girl that dumped you, that broke up with you.
I know it's painful and you want her back and you miss the memories.
Believe me, believe me, I've been through the experience, I've coached many guys through this
experience that there's someone else out there that's better for you. That wants
and desires you. You want someone that wants and desires you. You do not want to
try to trick or get back with a girl who doesn't want you. That is the
bottom line. There are 4 things that you can work on areas of personal
development that are going to help you either go through this breakup, help you
become a better person if you're just here for more information and don't
really care about getting your ex back or help you in this specific case and that
exception where there is a situation where it is appropriate to try and
rekindle things with your ex and the four things and I'm going to be talking
about today are health, wealth, appearance and lifestyle. I call this the 4-step
attraction amplifier because these are the outer qualities that will help
amplify your attraction towards the opposite sex or the same sex if you're
watching. But it will help you amplify your attraction in ways that will
potentially get your ex to notice you or like I said, just in general be able to
attract more people and I'm not going to be doing a deep dive into all 4 of
these. If you want a super deep dive, I talk all about this in my program
called Hooked which you can check out at www.getherhooked.com. I'll put a link to
that below this video. I have a whole video with Wade alters, formerly known as
RSD Brad, and we go we dive super deep into health, wealth, appearance and
style for you to be able to amplify attraction but I still have some great
information for you here in this video right now. First one, be focusing on your
health. Here is a tip if anything prioritize eating green vegetables all
the time. Vegetables, vegetables, vegetables. Pretty much the healthiest
thing above all things you could ever eat, green leafy vegetables. I don't
know if that's going to be you making smoothies all the time or eating
more salads, whatever it is. And the reason why you want to focus on this is
because when you're eating more vegetables and taking in more nutrients
and focusing on your health and of course going along with this could be
working out, but when you're focusing on your health you're gonna be able to be
in a better emotional state and make better decisions for yourself. You'll
actually be in better moods. That's right you're gonna be in better moods when
you're eating healthier because what you eat, what you put in your body affects
what's going on up here. If I have one tip to give you with health, start eating
more green leafy vegetables. Next is wealth. This is the idea that you're gonna be
working on your money. Why is money important? No, money is not the thing
that attracts women, although it doesn't hurt. But it allows you more resources
and allows you access to new things. Because you have money, you can go to new
places, meet different types of people, have new opportunities. Super
important there. And being able to have wealth allows you the type of lifestyle
that you want to live and depending on what kind of girl you want, you're gonna
attract that type of girl depending on the lifestyle. Again not because of how
much money you have but the access to the type of lifestyle that you want.
So definitely wealth helps and my tip for that is this, spend less then you earn
which is gonna allow you to save and use a portion of your savings to invest.
You can be learning about how to invest into stocks, into bonds, into
ETFs. I highly recommend looking into ETFs. That's one of the safest ways to go
to invest money and still make money back. Again my biggest tip here is
spending less than you earn and then taking that money
and investing some of it and saving some of it for the future. Third is
appearance. Now, I have said on this channel appearance is not the thing that
is gonna help you attract women like some of the inner qualities like your
courage, like dominance and your personality. But appearance does help, why?
Honestly it gives you a superficial confidence, it makes you feel better and
of course it doesn't hurt to look better so you're kind of hitting up another
notch like another 5% notch making you just a little bit more attractive, that
helps. So focusing on what you look like, your grooming and your clothes.
Very simple tips here, all you got to do is wear clothes that fit and don't get
too caught up in colors. It can be very confusing, black white and gray.
A mixture of those colors, wearing those are gonna help tremendously. All right
so we went through health, through wealth, through appearance and now the
fourth one is lifestyle. And this is gonna be really important because
lifestyle is all about the way in which you network, the way in which you make
friends and have a social circle and also part of that is traveling.
Traveling allows you to have experiences that's gonna help you grow as a person.
Learning about other cultures, having more gratitude about the way that you
live versus maybe the way someone else lives. I've always known that whenever I
go and travel, I always come back with a lot more gratitude and just a
worldly experience that makes me feel better about the position that I might
be in and just having fun stories to share with people and fun experiences
because this is your life and you should be having fun experiences. This is
what I call the 4 step attraction amplifier and what happens here in terms
of maybe getting your ex back is that if you're working on these areas, you're
gonna become more attractive, you're gonna help yourself be
building a life that is more fruitful, that's more enjoyable, that is more
well-rounded working on all 4 of these areas which a lot of people do
not do. And I gave you some quick tips to do that so if you're working on all
these areas and you eventually come back to your ex and she sees that you're a
more attractive version of yourself well there's a better chance of you guys
getting back together. But remember, probably not a good idea to do that in
the first place. Like I said, if you want to dive deeper into all 4 of these
areas wealth, health, appearance and lifestyle I talk about it in my
program called Hooked. I'm gonna put a link below in the description at
www.getherhooked.com which is going to teach you all about that plus my whole
system in order to meet and attract new women so you can get an amazing
girlfriend. Go check that out, good luck and hopefully you can follow some
of these tips and see some amazing results. Talk to you soon.