- The empirical data clearly correlates to an
undeniable sense of spectrum of artificial intelligence.
- Yes.
Yes? I, I agree?
- Have you ever been talking to a guy
and had no idea how to actually keep the conversation going?
In this video right now, I'm going to be teaching you
how to keep a conversation going with a guy
even if he's kind of a douche.
Like that guy clearly was. Keep Watching.
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- Hey there, Adam LoDolce, from SexyConfidence.com,
where I help the 21st Century Woman
create a love life that she absolutely freaking loves.
And in this video, I'm going to be talking about
exactly what you can do to keep
that conversation going with a guy.
Cause sometimes, even if you're not necessarily interested
in a guy, but you just want to keep a conversation going,
just so its not awkward.
Sometimes, it just happens when
you're going out and meeting people.
But of course, if you are attracted to a guy,
and you're trying to flirt with him,
and keep that conversation going
and keep it engaging, these tips are going
to be incredibly useful for you.
And also, if you do find it interesting,
I recommend you head on over to FlirtingConfidence.com
which is a secret URL, where I have a free training
that's going to give you a lot more depth on
how to have these conversations,
and how to engage with a guy.
So let's just jump right into it.
Number one is just remember that sometimes
there just isn't any conversational chemistry.
Don't let it kill your confidence.
I remember back when I was single, back in the day.
I used to always go out meeting women.
I'd always try to focus on improving my ability
to talk to any woman whenever I'm going out.
I used to feel like a total failure
if I went up and talked to someone,
or talked to a woman that I was physically attracted to.
I used to feel like a failure, if I couldn't keep
the conversation going, or if it
got really awkward between the two of us.
And then I suddenly realized,
many years ago, that this was across the board.
25% of the people that I meet,
it's just going to be horribly awkward conversation.
There's no conversational chemistry.
And then about 50% of people that I meet,
women I meet, it would be about like,
meh conversation, it would be going on,
but it would be meh.
And then, finally, there's about 25% of women
that I would meet, where you just
completely click conversationally.
It just flows, and you don't have to try too hard.
And when I finally had this light bulb moment,
which you're probably going to have in a moment,
which is I stopped stressing so much
about those 75% of people that I was meeting,
and stopped thinking that there's just something
wrong with me, and instead I just kept focusing
on those 25% of people that I would meet,
who I would have a lot of really good chemistry with.
And instead of getting really down on yourself
when you're going out and meeting people,
and you try to keep a conversation going.
Instead of being harsh on yourself,
and thinking that there's something
wrong with you, just realize that it's pretty natural.
To some people you're going to meet,
it's just not going to work too well with.
Now, the rest of the tips in this video, of course,
will help you with the other people that you meet,
so you can have even better conversation
with the right types of guys.
Now, tip number two is something that I think
a lot of people get wrong, which is that
most of conversation is just simply listening.
And so often when I coach women on
how to talk to men, how to flirt, how to get out there,
a lot of women focus on like, what do I say?
what do I talk about with guys?,
and I think it's much more important
to think about what questions to ask someone
rather than actual words you should say
or what topics you should talk about.
And I have a few really good examples
that you can use when you do head on over to
FlirtingConfidence.com so make sure you check that out.
Next, number three is a very simple technique,
but it's really powerful, which is when you're talking
to someone and you really don't know where
to take the conversation, just simply repeat
the last statement that he made.
Because really, if you struggle
to keep a conversation going, many times just by
saying the last phrase of what someone says,
especially when it's a very talkative person,
will just make them want to continue the conversation.
For example, let's go back to that douchey guy
in the opening of this video.
- The empirical data clearly correlates to an
undeniable sense of spectrum of artificial intelligence.
- The spectrum of artificial intelligence?
- Yes, exactly the full spectrum of artificial intelligence.
- There you have it.
Number four, make conversation, just like a fun little game.
And that's why I love things like
hypothetical conversations, and you don't need them
to feel forced, but like asking someone, for example,
If they could live anywhere in the world,
and they didn't need any money, where would they live?
You're going to get some really interesting questions,
responses from that person, and
it's going to allow you to kinda bond a little bit,
and it's a great way, you can just have a couple
in your back pocket to be able to ask a guy
whenever you're going out on a first or second date.
So now you know the basics of
how to have a conversation, how to keep a conversation
going with a guy, but again, I'd love to dive deeper
with you on this topic, so make sure
you head on over to that FlirtingConfidence.com
We'll leave the URL right here,
we'll also leave a link in the description,
and I will be able to dive into detail
about how it is you can flirt with a guy,
what body language to use, how to talk to him,
and all that good stuff.
Again, it's completely free, so
make sure you sign up over there.
And also, if you enjoyed this video,
please give it a like on YouTube,
and also subscribe on YouTube, and finally,
make sure you leave a comment right there below.
And asking me, what are some of
the challenges you've had when you go out
and have conversations with the guys.
Maybe I'll be able to use that for future videos.
And finally, on top of all this,
if you're not watching this on SexyConfidence.com,
make sure you head on over there,
click that link right over there,
and you can head on over to SexyConfidence.com.
Where I have a ton of amazing resources
that will help you through every single stage
of dating, relationships, and finding love.
Thank you so much for watching, and I'll speak
to you, you sexy, single lady, next Sunday. Bye-Bye.