Unknown Speaker 0:07 We recently released what very quickly turned
into one of our most popular videos ever.
Yeah.
Which is all about face sitting.
Who knows you guys loved it.
So we got a lot of questions.
After that video, we heard from a lot of women and vulva owners saying like, really is this
really a thing my partner really wants me to do it.
And we also heard from a lot of the partners of women saying like, I really want my partner
to do this, but she still doesn't get it, she still thinks it's a joke, or she's worried
she's gonna hurt me.
So we thought we had to make a follow up video.
And we wanted to focus this video specifically on what to do if you really want your partner
to sit on your face.
And your partner is still just like not sure what this whole thing is, this is a joke or
not.
So before we get into it, we just want to hear from you.
Do you want your partner to sit on your face?
Yeah, let us know down
Unknown Speaker 1:00 below.
Alright, first of all, though, if you're brand new to our channel, we just want to say hi,
we're Vanessa and Zander Moran.
Vanessa here is a sex therapist.
We've been together for 14 years, and these cute little faces behind us to the side of
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Unknown Speaker 1:29 Alright, so let's get into the face sitting
right.
So if you need a primer on what face sitting actually is you should check out that video
that Vanessa was mentioning, you can find that right here or the link will be in the
description as well.
First of all we want to say is it is totally normal and healthy to want to try face it
in there is nothing wrong with it is a perfectly normal sexual act.
However, we want to recognize sometimes it can feel daunting to talk about your desires
and your fantasies, it can feel really vulnerable.
And maybe you're worried what your partner is going to say or how they're going to react.
Or maybe they said something in the past that was you know, felt like oh, they are not into
this.
But we just want to say you can do it, it's important, it's important to be able to talk
about your, your desires and your fantasies, and this is a great opportunity to, you know,
lead into that.
Unknown Speaker 2:22 Alright, so now let's talk about like, how
do you actually talk to your partner about the fact that you want to try this.
So our first tip here is to clearly ask for what you want.
So don't make a joke out of it.
Because it's very likely that your vulva owner thinks that this is a joke and is like, really
people like this?
I don't
Unknown Speaker 2:41 know about that.
Oh, yeah, we've heard we heard from one couple, for example, where you know, the guy in the
partnership had been making a joke about facing almost every day like, Oh, why don't you just
come over here and sit on my face.
And she was like, I didn't realize for the last 10 years, he was actually serious, it
was just in a joking way.
And eventually, I just tuned it out, because he said it all the time.
Yeah.
Unknown Speaker 3:04 So if your partner you already know your partner's
on the shy side, and you're worried that you know, you're not quite sure how they're going
to react, then we would recommend not making the request in the moment during sags, you're
just likely to catch them off guard.
So this is something that would be better to talk about at a separate moment.
Definitely let your partner know how sexy you think they are.
And that you've always wanted to do this because it feels like something really sexy that you
could get to experience with your partner.
So just making it feel really personal, like you want to do this with them, that's going
to get them excited about it.
You can also talk to your partner about how to get into position.
So sometimes, like we were mentioning, a lot of women in particular think that facesitting
is like a joke, they think that they're gonna crush you or suffocate you that kind of talking
about that in a minute.
So, you know, she may not fully understand like, how does this work?
And what you know, what is it that you're really wanting me to do?
So again, that video that Xander mentioned our primer on face setting that will really
walk you through like the logistics and the step by step.
So watch that video together that can get the conversation going and give you lots of
practical tips for how to actually do
Unknown Speaker 4:09 it.
Alright, so what happens if she says that she's worried about smothering you or crushing
you?
Here's what you can do.
So first of all, tell her that you can use your hands to guide her hips.
So that's one thing, it's not like you're totally out of control, to like regulate Exactly,
yeah, you'll regulate where she is.
And then you can also set up a signal that you can use.
If you need a break and somehow you're unable to use your words.
The reality is you will be able to use your words but you could set up some kind of tapping
thing or something like that, just in case however, I just want to make it really clear
the reality is the way that you get into this position.
The majority of her weight is going to be like on her knees and her legs.
It is not going to be on your face.
But you know you may need to do a little convincing of just trying out this position.
Until she really trusts that that's how it will actually be.
Unknown Speaker 5:03 We have though heard from a lot of men and
women who are like, if I go out and having my face set upon, then I will go out doing
something that I
Unknown Speaker 5:11 love and what's wrong?
Unknown Speaker 5:13 Alright, let's quickly talk about like, what
do you do then while your partner is sitting on your face.
So we just wanted to mention that we have our ultimate foreplay guides that really walk
you through step by step exactly how to finger of all the go down on a vulva.
So if you want more techniques for exactly what to do while you're down there, it's like,
Okay, we got the sitting part.
Now, we will put a link to those guides in the description box down below.
They're really really awesome and just going to give you so many next level expert tips.
Unknown Speaker 5:43 Alright, so when your partner does sit on
your face, congratulations.
Congratulations to you.
But some things to follow up with, definitely let your partner know how much you enjoyed
it because if your partner's already a little hesitant to do it, it can feel really good
to give some compliments and just really, you know, drive home the fact that you loved
it and then try to give some specific compliments about what you really liked about it that's
going to boost their confidence for future face sitting sessions, which hopefully will
be a bonus for you.
Unknown Speaker 6:17 Alright, so that wraps up our video all about
face dating.
So again in the description box below we will have a link to our facing primer video and
also to those ultimate foreplay guides and also some links to some of our other most
popular videos.
Unknown Speaker 6:31 And if you liked this video, you can give
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