You said nobody listens to you
about this molestation.
Well I listen to you.
Would you agree?
I hope so.
Well do you agree I listen to you very carefully?
I ask you questions about it,
didn't interrupt you,
I listened to you very carefully.
And you know I spend
a lot of my time listening to what isn't said
as much as I do to what is said.
And sometimes it comes down to definitions
of what people consider appropriate or inappropriate,
how they label things in their mind.
I don't know but
I've been doing this for 45 years
and I've talked to
a lot of young women,
children that have been molested,
it's a very tragic thing.
When I asked them
about when it's happened,
specifically about the first time it ever happened,
that's not something that's vague in their mind.
I mean that's that doesn't blur
with the rest of their life.
They remember that.
I'm not sure how you frame
these things up
in your mind
but I can tell you that
there are allegations
that you can make
that 'cause you to be dangerous
to be around.
I mean you're dad
assuming that he hasn't done this.
Let's go that hypothetical road for a minute.
He could wind up
on the national register for sex offenders.
He could go to the penitentiary
for 25 years.
Because you're upset.
You can make an allegation
against Anthony that he threatened you.
He did.
What's the threshold for telling
a smart mouthed teenager to zip it
versus the terroristic threat
that cost a man his career?
You're a very explosive person to interact with
because it can go nuclear in a matter
of having a heated exchange
and you take it
to a litigation arena.
Do you think
what you did was appropriate
to put this man's carer in jeopardy?
The way that he acted, yes.
Okay that's all I wanted to know.
He never really speaks to me.
Even when I.
If I say anything,
just like he said,
you're going to twist it.
But whenever I. And you're going
to hold that against me.
And tell someone else
that I've said something that I didn't say.
Act a way that I didn't act,
behave a way that I didn't.
I mean you come through there like
a Tasmanian devil and you just do things.
You throw trash on the ground.
You don't pick it up.
You won't contribute
to the household. I went to my room every day.
You've got,
you've got pen containers of food
and things like that all
over your room and why?
Why are you trying to get back at me?
What did I do?
You're saying that I left the whole house a mess
I would go home every day
and go straight
into my room. All I do is put
a roof over your head,
food in your mouth and clothes on your back.
Do you remember the time when I taught you
how to ride a bike during the summer?
That was the only good memory
that we've ever had.
Do you remember
it was in the summer in Arizona,
it's 118.
I'm running up and down the sidewalk
next to you teaching you how to ride a bike.
Do you remember me toting you
on the bike to Starbucks in the mornings?
We've got video of that.
The only times
that we've ever had decent exchanges
are when I was little.
But then something happened don't you admit?
And you don't remember.
Something happened,
something changed that and what was it
because I don't know.
I don't know either.
I don't remember.
Because I've been the same person
from the day that you met me.
I told my mom
when you first came into our house
I said why is he in our house?
You were sleeping on our couch
and I was sleeping in the room
with my mom and my sister.
We slept in the bed
with my mom when we stayed at her house.
And I said why is he here?
I don't like.
The divorce wasn't even final yet
and he was already there
and I wasn't comfortable with that
and I told you.
And you basically told me it was none of your business.
And then you got married to him
and I was just expected to go with the flow
and then when all this stuff happens,
and he never talks to me and then
when he does talk to me he's rude.
I always told you why doesn't ever talk
to me I'll say hi to him
and he'll walk past me and hi.
And walk past me
and just leave. That's not true.