The internet is full of neckbeards and scrawny guys in their mom’s
basements complaining that girls don’t like them.
It’s like geez, who would’ve thought girls don’t like a guy who weighs less than her
and can barely do 20 pushups.
And yet, these guys still swing for the fences and try their luck with the ladies, as they
should. But inevitably, they end up failing miserably and getting rejection after rejection.
Followed by their keyboard warrior rant on their favorite subreddit R
slash insells, saying that girls only like chads.
Well lucky for you nerds, the God Based Zeus is here to save you with
3 of the most common reasons women reject you.
And make sure you stick around to the end because #3 is perhaps the most important one!
#1 Being afraid to make your intentions clear
This is something i see more and more from guys on dating apps and over text.
Guys will just chat and chat all day, and pussyfoot around
asking for the date or making their flirty intentions clear.
Or sometimes even worse, they waste too much time flirting and ‘gaming’
the girl but never follow through and move it to asking for the date.
So it frustrates and confuses the girl because you’re sending mixed signals and before you know
it she’s already decided you’re weird and a waste of time and now she’s on a date with
the straightforward and direct guy she matched with on Tinder the night before
AKA you just fucked up.
#2 Not understanding how escalation works.
Escalation in romantic relationships is an art form. Yet so many guys screw it
up because the only time they escalate and make a move on a girl is when they’re drunk
and dont’ even remember what they said or did to make the move on the girl in the first place!
You want to escalate the relationship and interactions gradually. You move from small talk,
to teasing, from teasing to flirty talk, from flirting to physical touch, then physical
touch all the way until you’ve arrived at pound town, population 2, sometimes 3 if you’re lucky.
When you escalate on a girl you want to make sure it’s calibrated and comfortable for her.
Instead of just going straight for a kiss before ever even touching her,
you probably want to hold her hand first, or put your arm around her, or lay up close to her.
THis way when you kiss, she’s already comfortable with you touching and used to it.
The easiest way to escalate properly and with low probability of rejection is to:
Escalate verbally, THEN physically.
For example you can make a flirty comment then right afterwards put your arm around her,
grab her hand and lead her somewhere, or just pull her closer to you)..
The classic example is push pull.
Let’s say you tease her or lightly make fun of her and then right afterwards you
assure her you’re only kidding and pull her in close to you for a hug
or simply to get closer to her to show affection.
The tease is the push, the physical hug or pulling her closer to you is the pull.
You always want to escalate verbally to gauge her reaction,
then escalate physically when you get a positive response.
Gauge her response, then act accordingly
If she seems a bit uncomfortable or thrown off then back off a bit,
read what seems to be making her uncomfortable then solve the objection
#3 Pussying out when she checks your frame
Women will often do something known as a “shit test”, you’ve heard this all before.
A shit test is simply when a girl is testing your frame and confidence.
She’s seeing if your words match your actions… so how does she do it?
She’ll tease you about something or purposely say something that puts pressure on,
or tests your frame to see how you react.
Here’s an example of a conversation where my manager Benjamin was tested
almost immediately during his Tinder conversation.
Here you’ll see he matched with a russian girl,
and opened the convo by asking her how thick her accent was.
Now Benjamin has a very dominant and high-value bio that stands out,
so She responded by immediately saying “Thicker than your little eggplant”
i’m sure you can guess what she means by eggplant haha.
When she tests your frame like this, your best bet is to double down on what she said
and exaggerate it, or simply brush it off and move the convo in another direction.
Here, you’ll see Benjamin throws it right back at her and says
“1 message in and you’re already thinking about my little eggplant? Buy me dinner first”
Boom. He passed this wonderfully.
He kept his frame intact AND made the convo sexual by calling out the fact that she’s
already making sexual implications so early on… then he goes on to set the frame that she’s the
one being sexual and too forward and that she needs to buy him dinner before they get there.
This is how you pass a test, my disciple.
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Zeus out.