Hey everyone, and welcome to TopThink. Today, we will learn about ten habits that attract
people the most. Now, let’s begin
Do you have the power to make yourself more attractive? Thankfully, the answer is yes.
You can make yourself more attractive, and you do it almost every day. You might style your hair or
wear flattering clothes. You might spend an hour at the gym to shed a few pounds or lay out on the
beach to get a nice tan. In one way or another, all of these things can improve your appearance
and make you a more attractive individual. But here’s something you probably didn’t
know. While most people know these popular tricks, not many people understand which
of these habits are the most compelling and attractive. For example, you might
think that getting a tan will make you much more appealing to potential partners, but habits like
these aren’t nearly as noticeable as you think. So, if getting a tan isn’t the answer, what is?
The habits that attract people the most aren’t always what you expect. The most
attractive habits tend to be small, subtle changes anyone can make to naturally increase
their attractiveness. By incorporating these ten very attractive habits into your life,
you can control the way other people see you and draw more attention from potential partners. And
you can do all these things without sacrificing large amounts of time, energy, and resources.
This may sound too good to be true, but the simple truth is that most people
misunderstand what attracts us the most. For example, you might buy an expensive sports car
to attract a beautiful woman, but instead of drawing the attention of potential partners,
the only people that care about your fancy car are other men. In other words, you might not
understand what potential partners are looking for and, as a result, you may invest too much time and
energy into things nobody really cares about. You might be surprised to learn that the most
attractive habits aren’t as difficult, exclusive, or expensive as you think. Whether you’re trying
to attract a potential partner or just turn a few heads when you walk into the room,
these are the ten simple habits that real people find irresistible.
1. Alpha Posture Many people don’t think
about how their posture affects their overall appearance. Most of the time,
you sit and stand in whatever way is comfortable, but relaxing too much can send the wrong message.
If you want to be more attractive, use a more dominant posture called
“alpha posture.” Alpha posture draws upon the confident and assertive natures of
alpha personalities. These individuals command attention and respect with everything they do,
and that dominance is reflected in their posture. Alphas typically stand tall with their heads held
high. They take up space and aren’t afraid to spread out, but they never take up more
space than any one person should. The key is to relax and stay calm without allowing your body to
slouch or fold. This dramatically increases your perceived confidence and desirability.
You look more self-assured, and that makes you more attractive to everyone you meet.
2. Voice Optimization Do people find some
voices more attractive than others? Everyone has slightly different vocal preferences,
but studies have shown that certain voices are, on average, more attractive.
In men, deeper, slower voices tend to command more respect and attention. On the other hand,
the most attractive female voices tend to be high and airy, a tone most people,
associate with traditional feminine beauty. If you want to make yourself distinctly more
attractive, try to slightly alter your voice so that others are drawn to your
specific vocal tones. Whatever impression you want to leave, your voice plays a significant
role. Certain pitches and timbres make you seem irresistible, so don’t be afraid to make a change.
3. Absolute Confidence We all look and feel the most attractive when
we’re brimming with absolute confidence. In those moments, you are secure in who you are. You aren’t
afraid to express your emotions, and no matter what anyone says, you stay true to your genuine
self. Like the most attractive people, absolute confidence encourages you to face your fears and
show the world exactly what is so great about you. Naturally, people are drawn to this kind of
self-assurance. They find absolute confidence irresistible because
it brings out a more confident side of themselves. When you hold your head high,
other people gain confidence when they stand by your side. So, be confident. Hold your head high
because nothing attracts romantic attention like absolute confidence and a strong sense of self.
4. Physical Development Attractive people regularly improve
their physique. They make physical development a consistent priority in their lives. As a result,
they work hard to keep their bodies in good shape. But physical development doesn’t mean lifting the
most weight or growing the largest muscles. Instead, your goal is to feel comfortable in
your skin. Every day, the most attractive people look and feel like the best version of themselves.
They work hard and make sacrifices to improve their bodies because each workout gradually
molds them into the person they want to be. Whatever kind of fitness you enjoy, make
physical development a consistent priority in your life. Nothing boosts your self-esteem and physical
appeal like feeling strong and healthy. 5. Kind and Focused Eyes
The way you look at people has a massive impact on your physical and emotional
attractiveness. The wrong kind of attention can sour someone’s mood or scare them away.
But the right kind of attention can leave them thinking about you for hours afterward.
That’s why the most attractive people are especially mindful of the attention
and focus they give to the people around them. They look at everyone with a kind,
compassionate gaze, and they devote 100% of their attention to the people they meet.
If you want to be a more attractive person, send this message with your eyes:
“I want to know more about you.” Use your body language to let everyone know exactly
how interested and engaged you are because that special attention makes you impossible to resist.
6. Laser Focus and Ambition Beyond physical characteristics,
attractive people draw attention from others by setting lofty goals… and working hard to achieve
them. There’s something irresistible about a person who knows what they want and works
every day to make it a reality. If you're going to be more attractive, find something that drives
you. Let your ambitions guide your lifestyle and show other people exactly what you can do.
7. Truly Attractive Styling Many people worry about how
they dress and what clothes other people find attractive. So, they rely on popular trends
and expensive brands. You may copy the style of someone famous to convince other people
that you are beautiful and exciting. But the truth is… the most attractive people take an
entirely different approach to personal styling. Instead of wearing what others find attractive,
wear clothing that represents who you are as a person. The most beautiful people cultivate a
unique sense of style by picking clothes that are personal and expressive. In other words,
wear your favorite colors. Experiment with new styles and shapes. Find clothes that
make you feel like you because those are the styles other people find irresistible.
8. Irresistible Maturity Attractive people are mindful of their impact
on others. In moments of drama or conflict, they demonstrate an irresistible calm and maturity.
When others lose their cool, they control their emotions and prioritize the bigger picture. They
don’t get defensive. They don’t play the victim. Instead, they work toward a mutually beneficial
solution while keeping their emotions under wraps. It’s this calm and confident maturity that others
find so incredibly attractive. We’re naturally drawn to natural leaders and good communicators,
people who carefully and respectfully navigate difficult situations. So, if you want to be more
attractive, keep your emotions under control. When you feel like exploding, take a breath, count to
ten, and remind yourself what is important. If you can do that, you will become the kind of person
others are attracted to the most. 9. Frequent Smiling
We have a lot of different smiles. We smile with our teeth for pictures. We
smile politely when someone makes a joke or says something clever. But how often do you
smile because you’re feeling genuinely happy? Attractive people always have something to smile
about. They smile wide and often, and they want other people to smile in their company. When you
genuinely smile, you look and act like the best version of yourself. You radiate positive energy,
and that energy encourages others to spend more time around you.
So, show the world that you’re happy and expressive. Smile because you’re genuinely
excited about what life has to offer. If you can do that, you’ll find people
gravitating toward you in no time. 10. Genuine Socialization
The most attractive people are true to themselves in every context. Whether they’re meeting a
stranger or spending time with old friends, they let their honest personalities show instead of
pretending to be someone they’re not. This is a more common problem than most
people realize. In social settings, very few people act like their authentic selves, because
they’re more worried about fitting into a role or social group. They alter their personalities,
adopt unwanted hobbies, and reject their passions to be liked or respected by others.
Truly attractive people are unwilling to be anyone but themselves. They take off their masks,
lower their walls, and interact with others without fear of being judged or criticized.
In other words, the most attractive people are genuine people whose honesty and authenticity
make them attractive to everyone they meet. Thank you for watching TopThink and
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