okay today I want to talk about your own personal power your personal freedom you
know what does that mean welcome to the Dean Graciosa show all
success starts right here what I want to talk about is there are so many
ingredients that do make up you having your own personal power but if I had to
boil it down to the quickest way to get a feeling of what that is
it's your state you know Tony Robbins talks about your state a lot but it's so
important how many times remember when you were a kid you might have not been
in a great mood you an uncle or cousin say something funny or tickle you and in
a second you went from kind of grumpy to happy have you ever haven't been in a
church for maybe a funeral someone you love and you're sad in a minute you
think about something they did or something crazy and you start laughing
that's an instant and that's an exaggeration but that's an instant state
change you know and I know this works because life conditions us to think we
should be sad we should feel tired we should be upset we should think with
scarcity and those things just weigh thousands of pounds but why I know this
works is cuz I do it with my kids I'll have my son who's five or my daughter
who's seven do something and I could see they they're a little grumpy or a little
sad and in a minute I'll do something and I'll change their state and they'll
be laugh and her joking because life didn't beat them up so much like didn't
tell them no life didn't tell them that we should think the glass is half full
or life's not getting better and we get our subconscious conscious and used to a
pattern of handling certain things a certain way and all I know is I've been
obsessed when I see somebody lately especially in the last six to twelve
months of my life when I see them in a certain state I'll do whatever I can
without them knowing to change it in minutes because here's the thing the sad
you or the you overwhelmed or they use stress we have lots of words we use for
it right when you're let's use the word overwhelmed or stressed when you're
stressed are you a good husband or wife or the
best one you could be are you the best mother or father are you the best
co-worker are you the best boss are you the best employer employee you know are
you the best at what you do when you're stressed and you're looking at your
phone or doing something when your kid want to talk to your spouse wants to
talk to you in your distracted but think about when you're in a different state
think about if you're was an extra hundred thousand dollars in your bank
account you didn't know about or it was the perfect fall day with the leaves
turning and you just felt amazing or you're starting to fall in love or
realize you love somebody more than you realized or your kids do something
you're that that make you feel amazing those external things right but they hit
you internally and you're all of a sudden in this moment of a great state
you just feel alive and you're thriving you're like anything it doesn't matter
what's going on I have this or you're grateful to God you know those moments
well that state picture that state and what kind of husband or wife are you or
would you be in that state if you were in it more or parent or boss or employer
or friend or cousin or uncle or whatever it is you know the difference but here's
the thing most of the times we let the outside world dictate that but guess
what we have that inside of us we could decide to be in that great state all the
time or we could decide to be in that funk right and where do you think you'd
get the most results and that's one definition of personal power there are
the things that you can find that light you up because you can't stay in a peak
state all the time Tony you go to Tony Robbins event or come to one of my
events or Brendan bouchard's events and or read a book that and I'm gonna talk
about an amazing book here in a moment you might find this peak state and then
it falls off and then you forget about it but it's like going to the gym you
can't go to the gym once workout and expect your arms to be huge and ripped
forever you got to go to the gym all the time make it a habit and you feel great
it's the same with these states I want to share with you how to get in a peak
State and then maybe you fall and then you get in a little longer and then you
fall a little less and then you get in longer and feel a little fall a little
bit lesson I promise you you can find a place to be in the right state that
doesn't it doesn't matter what goes on around you the world doesn't beat you up
you become the thermostat and not the thermometer don't you want to control
the temperature of you well I'm telling you it's possible that's my message for
today you deserve personal freedom personal power think about your state
when you're having a rough time think about your state think about
something funny listen to something hysterical and
see how you could change it and remember the more you change it it's like going
to the gym the more in shape you get of having a different state I'm Dean grad
COC thanks for watching what's up what's up hey before you go you need to watch
these next few videos they're absolute game changes hurry up and click right
over here and watch them and I'll see you there
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