Today, we're telling you how to spot the signs that your guy's cheating. Hey girls, I'm Mark
from Make Him Yours. Stay tuned.
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All right ladies, today, we're going to discuss a topic that a lot of you have been
asking about and if you're watching this video, it's probably something that you worry about.
How to tell if your guy's cheating. So look, maybe you sense something and that's the reason
you're watching this video. Maybe you've seen one of these signs, but as a guy, I'm going
to run through the signs that I know of today to be the most common that a guy's cheating
on you. Now, the important thing to remember with this is these are just signs of a possibility.
So they increase your level of suspicion unless he's admitted it to you, or unless you've
actually caught him. None of these on their own are a slam dunk. You know you don't want
to jump to conclusions if something else is wrong, if he's on the stress at work, or if
your guy has something going on that he wants to deal with on his own but has nothing to
do with cheating.
There are other reasons, so keep that in mind as you watch this video. But these 10 are
the biggest indicators that I've seen. Number one, and this is probably the biggest one
of all. He's dodgy with his phone where he never used to be. Did you used to know the
access code to his phone and now it's changed? Does he hide it from you where he never used
to? Does he not let you check his messages anymore where maybe you used to. If he's dodgy
with his phone then he has something to hide. So why does he have something to hide with
his phone? Number two, he's often back late from work, but he has limited explanations
as to why, or his explanation is vague or they just don't quite make sense when he's
late back from work. You do have to wonder why it's going to increase your level of suspicion.
Number three is he suddenly a jealous guy where he never used to be? I mean, cheaters
know cheaters and when a guy starts cheating, he's often suspicious that you're potentially
doing the same to him. If he's manipulating, then you could well be too. He's going to
be scared of that. So a guy that's never traditionally been jealous could suddenly become jealous,
you know, on it's own, that's not a slam dunk. He could be insecure for other reasons. There
could be stuff going on that's making them feel funny outside that in his life, but it
does raise your level of suspicion. Number four is suddenly suspicious with finances.
Did you used to know all the bills and all the money outlay or the account details and
now he wants to do it all and he's kind of fobbing you off. No honey, I can do it. It's
fine.
If he's suddenly suspicious with money where he never used to be, you have to wonder why,
and where that money could be going. Could it be to know the girl? Could it be to something
else, but he doesn't want you to know about. Number five, he is evasive or defensive or has
mood swings where he never used to be. So a guy who's cheating is often having a lot
of emotional turmoil about it. You'll find he'll snap where he never used to. You'll
find he's randomly stressed. He's evasive about things. Now again, these on their own,
there could be something else. So you have to take it in context with the whole picture,
but a guy who suddenly experiencing emotional turmoil from cheating will display these signs.
Number six, there's a change in the frequency of how often you guys are having sex, but
this is important without his acknowledgement.
So is he suddenly having sex with you a lot less and he hasn't explained himself why or
it's vague. Well, sometimes the opposite can happen. Maybe he's having sex with you a lot
more, but he hasn't mentioned that, honey, I'd like to sleep together more or we'll work
on this. Sometimes the guy who's cheating suddenly feels more validated again and it
feels like more of a man and he'll want to dominate you a lot more. So this can go either
way. The most important thing is he can't explain as to why or doesn't offer an explanation
as to why the physical intimacy has changed. Number seven, there's hair on his clothes
that isn't yours. Now again, it's not a slam dunk, but it's a bad one. I suppose he could
have sat in the chair and someone else sat in at work. There's a few other explanations
for it, but you've got to worry.
Number eight, he smells of odd fragrances at times, this is a big one cause guys are
useless. We have no sense of smell. We can't pick it up. This is one you're going to pick
up. So does he come home with a fragrance you don't recognize, something that you just,
you know it's not yours, but you can't quite identify? It could be a bad sign. Number nine,
has he suddenly taking massive care of his appearance where he never used to. So is his
standard grooming suddenly gone way up without him saying, look honey, I want to change this.
The biggest thing here is acknowledgement. If he's acknowledged that he's making changes,
then you don't have to be so worried, but if these things happen suddenly and there's no or very
vague explanations, that's not a good sign coming from a guy, but finally number 10 you've
cheated on him and if this is you, it's time to rethink what's going on.
You're going to be more suspicious. There's obviously problems in the relationship. If
you cheated on him, reconsider the whole relationship because he could well be cheating on you.
He could have sensed it, but there's much more fundamental things going on if this is
the case. But ladies, I hope everything here today has kind of decreased your level of
suspicion of your guy, and that there's a reasonable explanation. But if not, I want
to give you something more. I'm going to post another video after this and this is an important
one. What to do if you think your guy's cheating, so make sure you don't jump to conclusions.
Accusations are never good, innocent until proven guilty always applies. So make sure
you check out the next video of this one has got your worried. It's right here or I think
at this side and this side.
It's right over there. What to do if you think your guy's cheating, I'm going to run you
through an exact guide how you can handle it, getting your aims out without accusing
him of anything. Ladies, I hope you enjoyed the video. Do you have other signs? Have you
or your friend or someone experienced cheating and you you have some good ideas about how
you can help other girls. Let's build up the ideas together. Post them down in the comments,
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