a good example of understanding your
mindset is by looking at the actions
that you do and how you describe
yourself with these actions and this is
the part of the book that i really agree
with are you a product of your actions
or are you a process of them that's a
very important distinction here say for
example that your business went bankrupt
or you got an f on your math exam or
that you didn't make the high school
basketball team or that no one is really
watching your youtube videos
which of these statements would you more
likely say i am a failure or i failed at
this this is a very important difference
do you take failures as something that
just happened or do you take them as
something that define you that explain
the kind of person that you are did you
win or are you a winner did you up
or are you a follow up did you make art
or are you an artist did you not do well
at the math test or are you bad at math
did your last relationship not work out
or are you bad at relationships