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Okay.
So Valentine's Day is coming up.
I know and when you're dealing with narcissist,
it is not fun that is why I'm on this mission,
that is why I'm on this crusade
because not only have I seen it in my
law practice when I was dealing with them,
I seen it firs thand but I have also
seen it in my personal life not as a husband,
thank goodness
but I've had to deal with it as a business partner.
My husband and I have had to deal with it as a
family member and is not fun.
We had to deal with it as covert narcissist
which personally I kind of think like their
worst one’s because like you cannot spot
those guys like they're awful but I digress.
We're talking about tricks to expect from narssisist
on Valentine's Day.
Supposed to be the love day the day of
love and they kind of resent this day,
sort of like the most in a lot of
ways because they don't want anybody to
love anybody else other than them
they want all of the attention to come this
direction and wanted to go that direction,
you know how it is.
So anyway.
What can you expect from them on Valentine's Day?
Well, it's not fun really.
Hey, if you're lucky enough to be in the early stages of this
whole thing kind of great for you because
you know hey, you can expect like
but even then you kind of have a different idea about
what constitutes like romantic gestures
because like they do like these huge things,
what like even their huge gifts
are really only meant to stroke their own egos,
like they may go out of their way to
like have these massive expensive gifts or do these
elaborate dates or whatever,
but it's really just meant
for show and a lot of times it's like
at their favorite restaurants or do
they are favorite thing or whatever.
I don't know it's like usually night even about
you or what you might like and you might notice
that and that might be little red flag either you know,
so just kind of notice that so that's number one.
It's like a little bit of a trick and
definitely notice that like as a red flag
by the way, it's like not a good thing.
Okay. So number two, this is like
when it gets to be even kind of more
yucky just kind of notice like this
is where they don't like having to do this.
This is where they kind of like resent.
We might have to do something for someone else.
They kind a hate that
They prefer the gifts and attention to be on them
for Valentine's Day and they will resent
having to do something for their quote, unquote
partner for Valentine's Day.
So they're going to expect special treatment on Valentine's Day.
They want to be made the center of attention that day,
so they'll expect the special treatment.
They'll expect you to do something for them.
You know, even if it's the guy just saying.
You know, they'll expect you to do,
you know, maybe make the special meal do the thing,
whatever it is and I actually have
a whole video on narcissistic gift-giving
and why they're they just don't like
having to do this kind of thing in general,
and its really so gross
you should definitely check out my video
on narcissistic gift-giving. If you think it is so gross
just give me a so gross in the comments below
and I'd love to hear your thoughts on this whole thing
and what you guys are doing and I would just say,
you know, take care of yourself on this day,
you know, make it a day of just self-care make it a day of clearing that this is a day
for yourself on being powerful
and being a day of your own declaration,
of your own self care, of your own mindset
and just say I create my freedom
and I create myself and that is who I am and
not having this be a day of expectation of that,
you know.
Anyway, moving on to number three,
on Valentine's Day.
So that's another trick that you can expect from them on Valentine's Day.
They want that attention on them.
They will make you feel guilty.
If you try to spend time with anyone or have a
tension on anyone other than them on Valentine's Day.
So that is another thing that you
can expect from them on Valentine's Day
because they want all of the attention to be on them.
So it really is not it's not necessarily a fun day.
If you have a narcissist for a Valentine,
you know, they use it as an opportunity to devalue you.
They use it as an opportunity to make you feel less, you know as
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I got your back and I will definitely see you in the next video.