Ladies, if you hear these from your man, run!
Because the chances are high that this cheapskate or slash freeloader is just here
for his own benefit. My dear elegant ladies,
welcome back to another video. Ladies,
today I really need to warn you for these top 10 cliches that
I know many cheap men out there tend to use to manipulate women.
And I don't want my dear elegant ladies to be manipulated. So in today's video,
I'm going to give you some things that you can tell these men when they come
with these cheap cliches. Let's start with number one.
I love independent woman.
You know what I love? I love strong masculine men.
I love men who look after their women and treat their woman like a goddess.
There is nothing more attractive than when a man steps into his masculinity and
really looks after his woman like a true gentleman.
Ah, that's what I love.
My ex girlfriend only used me for my money.
Then, you know how it feels for us women when men only use us for sex
without committing to us and without ever taking full responsibility
by providing for us like a true gentleman would do.
This is how we women feel used.
If I paid for today's date, would you pay the next?
What?
Oh, if I have to pay for a date, there won't be a next.
I don't like materialistic woman.
Well, I don't like cheap man. You see,
women are gatherers from an evolutionary psychology take. Men are hunters.
Women are gatherers.
This has been part of our genetic programming for millions of years.
Now, men are being celebrated for being hunters,
but women are continuously shamed by our society for having this
instinct of wanting to own things.
They call us materialistic and they shame us for it. And in my opinion,
this is sexist.
If you want the equality, why should we be paying a hundred percent of the time?
We want equal rights, but that doesn't mean that we are equal.
We are not biologically equal. Men and women are built differently.
So let's not pretend that we are equal because that's just the manipulation
men use, the society use for the men's benefit.
Women have far more disadvantages financially in society,
but also biologically.
This is why we need to stop talking about being equal and instead,
focus on what's fair. And what's fair is actually,
if the man takes some form of responsibility,
provides for his woman and like this,
we would be able to at least balance out some of the unfairnesses that
happened between the sexist because of biological reasons,
and because how our society is built.
I want to be with a woman who doesn't depend on me.
Well,
that I believe is a responsibility to both the man and the woman to make sure
that that doesn't happen in the relationship.
From the man's side,
he has to truly offer her an allowance so that she contains
her independence.
She doesn't have to ask him for money every time she wants something.
And so that she actually can have some form of savings in case she would need it
for a rainy day. Now, with regards to the woman,
she has to take her responsibility. She needs to have an education.
She needs to have work experience. And of course, she needs to have savings.
Like this, she will always be independent no matter what happens.
Plus this way,
a man will never be able to use that against a woman in order to kind of lock
her down in a relationship. However,
I am aware that there is a small percentage of women
who are just too lazy to
work and believe that staying with a man,
even if they don't like him is better than going and work full-time in some job
that they hate. Now, I don't support that type of behavior.
But unfortunately, there will always be
people out there who just do things like this.
However,
I don't think it's fair for the rest of the female population to be judged
and categorize as these type of women,
just because a small percentage does it.
Most women are not like this. Most women are intelligent and smart,
and will want to keep their independence as much as possible.
So let's not generalize everybody and just focus on what's fair
for the women.
So you want me to pay your salary for being with me?
This is not a job. This is not a salary.
This is a very skewed way of looking at it.
It's like as if you are literally, possibly aggressively calling a woman to be a
prostitute, only very defensive men would say such a thing.
And they would use it as a manipulation strategy in order to shame her.
It is a true gentleman who takes full ownership of his masculinity would
actually feel honored to be able to support the woman that he has by
his side and that he truly cares for.
He will want to offload her shoulders with some of the burden.
So it's all about, from what perspective you look at it.
What do you bring to the table?
Are you seriously asking me this?
It's like, you're only with me because of the money.
Well, do you know us women,
we have to constantly wonder and worry about is he with me because
of the sex or because of the looks,
or because I cook so well or clean so well, or does his dirty laundry?
I don't know.
You're acting entitled.
You know that men act entitled on a daily basis and it's fully normal.
They act entitled when every day they are in bed, humping your leg,
wanting sex from you, wanting this from you.
And they don't feel shy when they want you to cook something,
to clean something, to run an errand, to look after the kids, to do this,
to do that. Now that's okay.
But as soon as a woman is asking for this one thing,
then we are these entitled gold diggers. Do you see the unfairness?
Now, ladies, not all men are of course like this,
there are good men and there are bad men. But in this video,
I'm targeting specifically the cheapskates. And truly,
some of the things that I've mentioned today,
they really do use that as part of their manipulation strategy.
And my work here with School Of Affluence is to make you become more aware of
these manipulation tactics. But also,
I want to empower you so that you can set stronger boundaries because
our society today is not built in favor for women to actually set boundaries.
Our society is built around shaming women and make women actually
hop onto the team of these cheapskates. Now we're not going to do that anymore.
Now in my program, Secrets Of The Elite Woman,
I do teach more in depth about setting strong boundaries.
Enrollment is currently closed, but you can visit
www.SchoolOfAffluence.com
So put yourself on the wait list.
Now, ladies, I have a fantastic video for you up next is called,
Why Men Should Pay.
And you should definitely watch this video if you want to go a little bit deeper
on this fun subject.
I will see you in that video.