Did you know your negative dating beliefs could be sabotaging your ability
to manifest your soulmate when this video I want to talk to you
about three negative beliefs and the categories they fall in to help you
become more aware of these negative dating beliefs absolutely tell the world
that you're not really interested in having a relationship and you may not
even know or realize that you're sending out that vibration hi for those of you
who don't know me I'm Jaki Sabourin an executive love coach and CEO of
engaged at any age a company that helps women deliberately date and consciously
create the man of their dreams. I met and married my own soulmate match husband
Michael after being single for eight years and I'm still on the honeymoon and
passionate about helping you get engaged in any age and today I want to talk to
you about three negative beliefs that sabotage you in dating and relationships
and so when you're not conscious especially when you're not conscious of
these negative beliefs they really do slow you down in relationships and you
know what happens is you unconsciously involuntarily end up replicating
assertive relationships in order to uncover these unconscious beliefs and
that's what helped you to become more aware of them because more
self-awareness will help you to prevent and avoid this from happening to you so
you can stop asking yourself that question why is this happening to me
again alright let's look at the first negative dating belief that you may be
resonating so the first category is beliefs about yourself
and so beliefs about yourself could include like I don't deserve happiness
I'm not good enough I am better off on my own I always screw things up those
are like negative dating beliefs about yourself that will definitely undermine
any relationship that you get into so you really need to to explore if you're
resonating any of these that fall into this category about beliefs about
yourself so the second category I want to share
with you is beliefs about men and you know I used to have
this belief that all men cheat or all men leave all men abandoned me and that
was just a way for me to avoid coping with painful experiences that I've been
with that's that's my that's my excuse right so I want you to ask yourself you
know what unconscious or conscious beliefs about men are you resonating
they may be sabotaging your effort because if you have those beliefs
resonating you're definitely gonna have trust issues
you definitely have abandonment issues and challenges around you know trusting
and and maybe some behavior that would accompany that like you'll lead before
you get last you know thinking like that trying to avoid that ultimate pain
because you believe he's going to leave or he's going to cheat and so it's a
self-fulfilling prophecy and you end up sabotaging it because you have this
belief that's undermining your ability to really connect on a deeper level all
right the the final category I want to share with you three negative beliefs
and dating is beliefs about relationships and you know sometimes
this can happen too even when you're conscious you might be thinking maybe
something better it's gonna come along or maybe maybe everybody ends up in
divorce so it's not even worth trying you know something that that's just
really unconscious or I don't have time for a relationship there's a faults
believe as soon as you get into relationship that can surface like oh I
don't really have time for this and that could cause you to you know sabotage the
relationship with the dating experience because you believe in the back your
mind that you don't have time for a relationship so you want to really
examine what your unconscious negative dating beliefs are and even the
conscious ones because they certainly do slow you down they cause you to attract
like situations in an attempt to heal those beliefs so in other words you
attract what you are not what you want so if you have a belief that all men
cheats you may end up dating men that you can't trust and then therefore that
just confirms your belief that you can't just a man so
really important to do that deep inner work that you need to do so that you can
uncover you can bring the invisible to the concrete these negative beliefs that
are sabotaging you so that you can clear out those beliefs those negative beliefs
are like the wall between you and everything you want so it really is
important that you do that deep work so that you can get to the other side of
that and clear out that that's negative you know vibrations so that you can
start to manifest a relationship that you really want and deserve by the way
you just have to be happy now to help you even further on this journey I want
to give you access to my soulmate assessment all you have to do is go to
soulmate iq.com and take my short quiz and what I'll do is explain to you the
frequency they're vibrating at and until you worse you know in that frequency you
might be sabotaging yourself and then send you your assessment along with the
feminine exercise to help you shift further into alignments you can fast
track your ability to manifest your soul mates so just go to soul mate IQ calm
right now take the quick quiz and I'll send you your assessment your feminine
exercise so I hope this video was helpful and just know that I'm always
sending you so much love never give up you can't fail if you never give up but
the love to you bye bye