- Are you a nice girl?
What are the traits of a nice girl?
Are you doing too much
and actually ruining your relationship?
Let's talk about this in today's video.
Hi ladies,
my name is Ieva Bereisaite,
and I am one of Greta's High Value Women coaches.
And in this video,
I'm gonna be sharing four nice girl habits
that all women must beak.
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The number one habit that you would have to eliminate
is treating a guy like you are his mom.
It's very important not to fall into the trap
of caring for your guy as if you are his mother.
In some cultures,
this is actually quite a normal thing for women to do.
For example,
to do the clothes shopping,
put his clothes on the bed for him
as if he was a child,
and basically treat him
as if he's not capable of taking care of himself.
I have seen it happen very often.
Again, sometimes this is a cultural thing.
The problem with this is it would cause so many arguments
in a relationship
because the woman would simply feel
like she's not being appreciated enough
and she's putting so much work and affection into it.
And at the end of the day,
the man would simply end up expecting
all of these things to be done for him.
We as women are naturally very nurturing and caring
and that is for sure beautiful.
You have to simply remind yourself
that your guy is a grown man
and that you are not his mother.
So don't treat him as if he is your child,
instead treat him like the partner that he is.
Of course it's good and healthy
in a partnership and a relationship
to take care of each other,
but do not go over the top
as if he is not capable of taking care of himself,
and he should be because he is a grown man.
The second thing is making him your world.
It's wonderful and great being in a relationship,
especially when you are really in love.
That of course is a very beautiful thing to have
and should of course be enjoyed.
However, it is very important
to not make him your world
even if you might be head over heels in love with him.
Make sure that you do not neglect your hobbies,
make sure that you do not neglect your friends,
or your career,
because you are n a relationship.
Take time out with other people
to enjoy your life outside of your relationship.
This way, you will feel more fulfilled, balanced,
and actually at ease.
Very often, nice girls actually make their guys
their entire world.
The problem with this is
is that the man will automatically
get so much attention from his girl,
that there will be no mystery anymore
and the interest will simply start disappearing.
And of course,
you do not want that to happen in your relationship.
And the way to do that
is to make sure that you have a world outside of him
and this is really not an option,
this is a must.
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Number three is completely going out of your way for him.
When you are in a devoted relationship
and your guy asks you to simply help him out with something,
of course you help him with that if you can.
That is for sure important,
but it is also very important
not to go out of your way for him.
Let me explain.
You should for example not be driving hours
just to see him
because you guys have a date.
You should not be promising to see him spontaneously
even though you don't have the time to do so.
You should not drive to his house
just because he maybe caught a cold or is sick.
And for sure,
you shouldn't bring him a get well soon gift
like flowers, chocolates, and so on.
The reason behind this is
we as women tend to give what we actually want in return,
but we actually forget that men and women
are very very different.
So, simply because we want to get flowers when we're sick
or we want to get cards and chocolates
and that type of attention, doesn't,
or we want him to drive out his way for us,
it doesn't mean that he wants the flowers, the chocolates,
the get well cards or the teddy bears.
Men will actually be put off by this behavior
more than anything else.
They will feel like you're simply
taking away their masculinity
and they will actually feel
like the girl in the relationship,
and you for sure do not want to do that.
It's actually quite cringey for them,
very cringey actually,
to get flowers or chocolates or any of that stuff.
Remember that going out of your way for someone
is actually a very masculine thing to do
and that should be left for the man.
Number four,
acting like you are the luckiest girl on the planet.
Don't get me wrong,
I totally understand that when you're in a relationship,
you feel like you're on top of the world.
I totally get that.
But you don't want to do act
like you are the luckiest girl in the world,
you actually want him to act
like he is the luckiest guy in the world to be with you.
So, take him off of that pedestal,
he should not be there in the first place.
You should definitely enjoy your relationship,
but don't say things like,
I'm the luckiest person ever to be with you.
Or things like, I don't deserve you,
or what did I do to deserve a man like you.
So, make sure that you're very aware of what you say.
If you want to be nice to him,
you can say something like
I appreciated the date today,
it was lovely.
Or if he does something nice for you,
you can simply say that was so sweet, thank you.
That will totally enough for him in most cases.
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