Hey there, viewers!
Do you have a crush on a guy?
Are you tired of all the suspense?
When someone is into you, they make it evident in subtle ways.
It’s the same for when they don’t like you.
In today’s video, we will be talking about 11 definite signs he doesn’t like you.
Does he treat you like everyone else?
Who does he look at while you all are laughing in a group?
Does he talk about other women in front of you?
Let’s begin...
He treats you the same as everyone else
If the guy you like treats you the way he treats everyone else, I have a bit of bad
news for you.
He isn’t into you.
Pay more attention to his tone when you’re around him.
Or when he directly talks to you.
Does he act differently around you?
Does he pay attention to you when you’re talking?
If the answer is no, you know what I’m about to say.
But the thing is we often change our behavior when we want to impress someone.
Our attitude and mannerisms change.
Even our tone.
We try to show our best side in order to make a lasting impression.
So if he isn’t doing any of these things, he probably doesn’t care if you notice him.
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Did you notice any change in yourself when you’re around them?
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He doesn’t initiate contact
When the two of you are texting, who starts the conversation?
If it's always you, he’s not the one.
He may reply to your text in a pleasant or flirty way once in a while.
But he will eventually ghost you.
When a man’s into you, no matter how busy his life is, he will always spare time for
your calls and texts.
Even if it’s just a simple goodbye text!
He will always find a way to see you.
He flirts with you, but also everyone else
This one’s an eye-opener!
We all get so excited when the person we like flirts back with us.
Just make sure he’s not flirting with other women.
He might just be flirtatious by nature.
If this is the case, I would skip dating him altogether.
You don’t want to be in the middle of a date and have him flirting with a female server.
He isn’t interested in learning about you
If you like someone, you want to find out as much about them as possible.
What they do for a living, future goals, the food they enjoy.
Everything.
If he’s interested in you, he’ll be doing the same.
He will make an effort to know everything about you.
He will pay attention to your likes and dislikes.
Look out for questions like what your favorite restaurant is.
He may be interested in asking you out.
If he’s not asking you anything, he’s not into you.
He’s not around you
This is another tell-tale sign of whether he likes you or not.
If you’re together in a group of people, pay attention to where he’s positioned.
You should also pay attention to how he reacts when you’re talking to others.
Does he get jealous?
Does he make plans to meet you?
Does he call when he hasn’t seen you in a while?
A lot of times, absence is the strongest tool to make your presence felt.
If someone is into you, they will strongly feel your absence.
Men try to keep things simple.
They focus on what they want.
If your guy wants to spend time with you he will cross all bridges for that.
You will notice him everywhere.
Every social event.
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Now back to our discussion on 11 signs he doesn’t like you...
He doesn’t care who else you are hanging out with
Suppose you have a crush on someone.
How would you feel if they were hanging out with another woman?
Wouldn’t you be jealous?
It’s perfectly normal.
A little envy is expected when the person you like spends time with someone else.
If a guy likes you, he won’t like another guy coming in between you too.
They get jealous easily.
Try mentioning other men you hang out with in front of him.
See how he reacts.
Does his voice change?
Did he look a little tense?
Did his face fall?
If he is absolutely unaffected, he isn’t into you.
He talks to you about other women
This is a big one.
If he likes you, he will not be talking about other women.
At least not in a romantic sort of way.
In a lot of ways, this is just common courtesy.
Did he mention another woman's name?
Was it just once or does he do this regularly?
Some people might think he’s doing this just to get your attention.
To be honest, that’s pretty valid.
But if he’s doing this, he will just mention her once or twice to see how you react.
It won’t be happening often.
If it does, he doesn’t like you in a romantic way.
And here’s something else…
Did he share his feelings for another woman with you?
Well that’s him declaring straight-up he’s not into you.
Don’t take this as an insult.
This means he cares about your feelings and wants to be honest.
This brings me to my next point.
He doesn’t open up to you
When you like someone, you want to be open with them.
And you want them to do the same.
If he’s not opening up to you, it’s a sign he doesn’t like you that much.
In fact, it’s challenging being around this person even if you do manage to date him.
Imagine being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t share his emotions and feelings.
It can be a nightmare I tell you.
Don’t mistake it for being introverted behavior.
Introverted people are also emotional.
It takes time for them to trust someone.
And when they do trust that person, they open up.
In my experience, introverted people are the most emotional.
They try to protect their feelings by hiding in their shell.
He doesn’t remember what you tell him
You told him you’re into a certain show.
Then the next week, he sees you watching it and is surprised you watch it?
This is a sign he wasn’t paying attention to your interest.
Maybe you told him you’re lactose intolerant, but he’s suggested you’d try a certain
ice cream.
As sad as it is, this is just another way of him telling you he doesn’t like you like
that.
He doesn’t look at you when you are in a group
Psychology says when you like someone, you look at them for comfort while you’re around
other people.
Looking at that person relaxes you and makes you feel pleasant.
There’s another similar concept, but very effective.
Experts say when a group of people laugh together, people will instinctively look at those they
like.
If he doesn’t do this, he isn’t into you.
You just know
Trust your instincts ladies.
Your gut knows exactly what’s happening.
If you feel somewhere inside that he isn’t into you, he probably isn’t!
End of story!
Isn’t it interesting how subtle things can reveal so much about people?
What if there were ways to decipher more about a partner.
Like body signs for how they’re feeling.
Or questions you could ask to know if it's worth taking things further.
Awesome, right?
Here’s how you can do all of this...
Watch our video on how Body Language Can Reveal a Lot About Relationships
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