Have you ever noticed that once you stop caring,
they start chasing you.
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The problem is when it comes to relationships
is that there is oftentimes a mismatch of
energy. One person is moving this direction.
The other person is moving that direction.
And what happens is the two don't seem to get on a
harmonious path together. That's the key,
a harmonious path together.
But if you let down your power,
if you give up who you are inside you,
if you surrender yourself,
then all of a sudden you'll find yourself more at a state of friction
with your partner or a specific person.
Then in a state of harmonious bliss.
And the key is to stop trying. I didn't say to stop manifesting.
A lot of people get this confused. They they'll call me up and go well, okay,
Robert, I'm taking your advice. I'm not doing any manifestation right now.
I didn't say stop manifesting. I didn't say stop attracting.
I said, stop trying.
You see the more you try,
the more you send out an invisible vibration to the Universe,
a message to the Universe that says I'm trying,
I'm trying.
And the Universe is sending you a message back saying here's some more
trying energy. We're good. You seem to like trying so much.
We'll keep you trying.
You attract what you are,
not what you want. So if you are in a state of trying,
that is exactly what you will attract. It's the same with needing.
I got a phone call or not a phone call, a text message this morning,
before I woke up "Robert, I need him so bad.
Help me." The very fact that you put
"need him so bad" indicates
that you're in a state of neediness and that is attracting the
opposite of what you desire.
You're attracting more of the condition,
the state of neediness in your life. You see,
once you stop caring, they start chasing you.
High Flyers,
the key is to stop caring and focus on
your inward vibration, who you are,
focus on you.
You see the more you focus on them, the more you're in a state of caring,
the more you focus on you, the more you're in a state of growing,
expanding. Now, how do you do that?
You do that through positive beliefs.
You change your beliefs from, I need, I want to,
I have, I am, very important.
Now that changes your affirmations.
So your affirmations are positive and the result is
positive inspired action. You start taking ....
You start taking actions in your life that are essential,
that are positive, that are empowering.
And maybe these actions really don't have anything to do with the other person.
They have to do with yourself and dreams you've all already had,
or always had. You're really putting energy into you.
And that's a sign that you are raising your vibration to your
highest potential.
But it's also a sign that you're not caring as much that you're
not, you're not focusing outward.
You're focusing inward. Oh, you got to hear the rest of this.
This gets really good. You see High Flyers,
we as human beings,
we are attracted to status.
And a lot of people think that status
is a new car or status is a big home
or status is a fat wallet or status is being in the
movies or having hit records.
And while those give a false sense of
status that people can see through after they get to know you,
a true status is a state of
mind. When you meet somebody who knows that they belong here,
who knows that they have value, who knows that they are attractive,
that they are magnetic, that they are worthy, WORTHY.
When you meet someone like that, that person has status.
Whether they are driving a big fancy car,
or whether they're riding a bicycle,
they seem to have an energy that you can see it in their eyes.
You look into their eyes and their eyes take you deep into the
Universe, a trip into the soul.
And you realize that these people are connected.
That they have something that other people don't have it's status.
It's true status based on the power of the Universe,
rather than on outward, fake little things.
Okay. So it's not your clothing. It's not your car. None of that. It's you,
your beliefs determine your status. Change your beliefs,
your status goes up,
your attraction expands and you don't have to care.
And you begin attracting more of what you desire.
They literally can't leave you alone.
Your beliefs, your affirmations,
and your actions. So High Flyers, your beliefs,
your affirmations,
what you say to yourself all day long and the kind of actions you take,
they transform you through status. They raise your status,
but they transform you into a champion.
You are a true winner.
Not because you've won some kind of external contest,
but because you've won an internal contest and people
are attracted to champions. You see High Flyers.
When you're in a state of neediness, when you're in a state of want,
you're telling the Universe, I don't have it.
And the Universe gives you more of the same. Thus, you are not a champion.
But when you say I do have it, I am it,
you create a vortex.
There are two primary kinds of vortexes.
There's the vortex that pushes people away.
It just keeps sending them further and further
away.
This is the vortex of people who live their
life based on lack. They just don't have anything.
They just don't believe in anything. They're always needing.
They're always wanting. They're always trying.
And then there's that vortex that just pulls you in,
pulls you in magnetically. And that's the positive vortex.
That is the vortex of a true champion.
And remember what I said earlier,
a true champion is someone who has overcome limitations
within him or herself. High Flyers,
what people are really attracted to when you
become a champion is your confidence.
They say, the psychologist have done a number of studies,
the number one attractor factor
in relationships is confidence.
Confidence. You know what I'm talking about.
You've met some man and he's just...
I don't care how much money he has or what kind of car he's driving,
he lacks confidence. You see what I'm saying?
Confidence is the, it's the key.
It's the absolute key that makes somebody absolutely
desperate to be with you. And guess what?
That happens when you say "I don't care,
I don't care." Then,
then they are attracted to you. So High Flyers don't stop,
manifesting, keep manifesting,
keep building from the inside out, stop caring,
and they will start chasing you.
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