I did a video just recently... you might have seen it. My last video where I talked about the
behaviors that make a girl chase you. And as I was writing these down and figuring out some
things to tell you, I was thinking about, there's all these behaviors that are very unattractive.
And I started listing those and I was like, this is a whole separate video. Check out that video
if you want. It's not necessarily connected to the other one, but both of them go very well together.
So you might want to check that out. I have here 7 behaviors that make her instantly reject you.
That means that you're going to be talking to a girl and if you display this behavior, it's going
to be unattractive to her. She's not going to want to be with you. I just want to be clear here...
there are two main ones that I'm not going to be talking about here today. But they are
synonymous and go along with these 7 and I talked about them in my Hooked program,
which if you have the Hooked program then you'll know what I'm talking about already. If you have
my book, you know what I'm talking about. And that's neediness and predictability. Those are
the two main ones. And I feel like as much as I'm not going to necessarily diving into those today,
these are like a sub category of those two. Neediness which is unattractive and being
predictable. Predictable, meaning that you are always available, always around,
and you are a guy who she just knows what to expect. That's boring, that's not going to
trigger her emotions, and not going to get her interested, attracted or chasing you.
Just a little bit of info there. By the way, if you want to check out the Hooked program,
there's a link down below and you can get that program. It will teach you all about
that and the behaviors that women are attracted to. First one, by the way,
a lot of these, you're going to be a little bit shocked because you're going to be like wait, I
thought this was the thing that actually attracts women, but it's not. The first one is attentive,
being very attentive to her. If you are a guy who is very attentive all the time... of course,
you have to be somewhat attentive. I'm not talking about the idea of not being attentive at all,
but just giving too much attention all the time. That's what women and people expect. We expect
to get attention all the time or to get attention when we want attention and when we don't get that
attention, what happens? We want that attention. So do not be over attentive. That's not gonna make
her want you. Pushing too much, wanting too much, texting her too much, asking her out,
even if she rejected you. I'm not going to keep going further because there's some here that are
connected to that. Let's go the next one, giving. Which is a form of being over attentive.
A lot of guys want to give, they want to buy things for her, they want to give her flowers,
they want to do some of these what they think are old school methods and buying their way,
or favoring their way to attraction. Doing favors for someone or acts of service.
Doing that is fine once in a while. But a lot of guys go overboard and think giving
(which again is a form of attention) is going to get them somewhere. No, because it looks weak.
Because she knows that you're only doing that to get her to like you. It's not something that's
true to who you are. That's what she's going to be thinking when you're giving too much,
when you're always there for her, when you answer her text message right away. (again,
over attentive) or just always there to give, give, give. Don't be doing that. A normal person,
a normal attractive guy will never be doing that because he's busy with his life and he's
not gonna be dealing with someone who's gonna be so needy. If there's a woman that's so needy,
he's not gonna want that. Don't think that you're gonna have to give all this attention
or give other things in the form of favors or gifts or things like that.
Here's another one connected to those two. Similar but a little bit different, over caring. This is
when you're showing a lot of care. You're always checking in on her. How are you? How's
it going? How's your day going? And it's kind of like whoa, easy, I'm being suffocated here.
She doesn't need that. You're not her mother. You're not her dad. You're not
her girl best friend. Let them do that. It's okay to do that a little bit. But a lot of guys
go overboard with it. They're over caring. They're showing too much. And again, same idea. It's like,
do you really care? Or are you just doing this because you're wanting to do something nice which
gets me to like you? A lot of these things are, by the way, nice guy qualities. If you're finding
yourself like these sound familiar and you're a nice guy, well that's the whole thing. Nice
guys do that. Okay. All right, let's go into a few more. Those all are clumped together.
The next one is shy. This is not a behavior that women like. They will reject you if you're shy and
this almost relates to a lot of the behaviors that are attractive than I said on the previous video,
which are being gregarious and charismatic and things like that. She doesn't want to be with the
shy guy, because a shy guy is showing a emotional weakness. A woman doesn't want to be with a guy
who is weak in his behavior. And in his mind, she wants a guy who is self-assured, who is confident
in who he is, and is not going to be scared to be talking to her or other people. Simple enough.
Next one is anxious. Similar to shy. I feel like those go hand in hand. There's a lot of guys
who are shy or anxious. Having anxiety is a form of weakness. It just this. Women are not attracted
to that. Is anxiety normal? Yes. Can you have it and deal with it and overcome it? Yes. If you are
showing a lot of anxiety or... and by the way, I'm saying this term loose. I don't necessarily mean
clinical anxiety. But if you're just a guy who worries all the time and you're worried and you're
in fear and you're scared. All these ideas here. It's not attractive. Again, emotional weakness.
She wants a guy who has his life handled, who's effective. Here's another one. Similar to shy,
is reserved. The difference between shy and reserved, in my opinion, is
just a person who keeps to themselves a lot. Like maybe I think you can be a person who's not shy,
but also reserved. It's just like, you're very within. Yeah, you might talk to people,
you might be... I'm using this term lightly, I guess somewhat gregarious,
meaning you can socialize. But there's something about you that's just really reserved, like you're
in your head a lot. You're up here a lot, you don't want to share a lot. You just don't... it's
like you don't feel comfortable with yourself. It's not like you have to be so outgoing and crazy
and share everything about you. That's not what I'm saying here. But a person who's just really
inside or withheld or just always inside of their head, also not attractive. This is... she wants a
functioning member of society. And yes, you can be a functioning member of society in being reserved,
but that's not how it's gonna come across. Being reserved is not very attractive.
Over-thinker, over-thinker. So again, that one, I know somewhat similar to what I was saying before
with anxious. But this is someone specifically who can't make a decision. It's not exactly the
same idea as anxious, which is why I have this on the list. I keep looking over here, by the way,
because I have a list here on my computer and I just want to remember it all. But an over-thinker
is someone who can't make a decision like he's overanalyzing. Should I do this or should I do
this? Or what do you want to do or what should we do here? He's just stuck in limbo and he's never
moving forward and he's always stuck. A woman doesn't want to see that. She wants to be with a
guy who is onward and upward, upward trajectory, doing something, taking care of things, making
things happen. A person who is an over-thinker is not moving forward. I want you to get over
this stuff. By the way, all this stuff... these are behaviors that are attractive to a woman.
But also, they're just great things to tap into so you can get the most out of life. So really,
this is almost like personal development advice if anything. If you aren't too shy, too anxious,
super reserved, overthinking all the time, or being this nice guy, you're going to have a
better life and a more fulfilled life and things are going to start coming to you. And you're not
going to have this tough life where you're always trying to manipulate people and be this nice guy
who always gets stepped on. Some things to think about. Take that in. Let me know what you think.
Write a comment down below. I want to hear from you. Don't forget, if you want to dive deeper
into the idea of attraction and how to implement it with the woman you're talking to and avoid
these behaviors, check out the Hooked program down below in the description. I'll talk to you soon.