and really think and anywhere was by death by
an era stressor identified
a really important point
and one that for many people particularly many men may be a wake up
and that is that there is no
equivalent to the word slot
or at least two thirty his it's obscure
it's rarely use
machine
for example
i remember back in
mehendi year ninety nine
mourned a police are looking for money one day of in fact scheme
through fax machine that was this this three page fax it was uh... a formal
invitation to come to home
and have a personal audience with pope john paul the second
and i've been at first i thought it was a practical joke and then i responded
and discovered that now i was actually being invited to rome for a personal
audience with pope john paul the second
and so course i said sure
no up on my way
uh... can i bring my wife in can she meet the pope to
and they sent back eighty fax most discreet issues by fax back then
and they sent back affects a non she can come she can be in the room
he probably will not speak to her or torture or a large touch him
and uh...
and then me and she s dress a certain way in the attached this long you know
in my work in my memory it's like five six pages of might actually just in two
or three
on but this long to list of the things that louise was allowed to wear or not
where in the presence
of the top
and their head there wasn't a single word about what i was to wear
now maybe that's because in our society
we ought to put the very best possible interpretation
it's because in our society
men basically where sits in size
and will just said
for formal occasions iming yet
or my dad to show up in a in a third uh... hawaiian shirts took lots of in it
gave the there's not even and uh... you know it's not is siding achievable
whereas for women there's a wide variety of things that are considered formal
wear
me just watch the carrier warts
every single man there is wearing black and white
you know they all look like then once
and yet then the women girl dressed ifill iso it could be that the
that the that dictate the
the vatican felt it was necessary to say okay out of the hundreds of writings of
things that
you can wear hears it
the essence of what was that she had to cover her shoulder shed to cover her
arms should cover her legs
uh... to a certain
blanks
nagesh
enough for to be proper so in other words there's period
e to made not be taluk like a slot
there's no male equivalent word for this
idea edges are fine the entire thing uh... fascinating
julliard
uh... you are you are a retired teacher who had a dress code for both genders in
your school
yesterday
but was that dress code i remember dress 'cause i was a kid it was like boys
can't wear shorts girls camp you know we have to wear dresses are supplied the
dialing i was a long time ago
but it wasn't
uh... for girls it might have been do not sexualized yourself it wasn't for
boys for boys was don't be too casual
guys
it's vastly different bummed but eurasian vastly different from when we
were not
but uh... with the passion with the boys to uh... pack their pants but the uh...
vernacular yeah and where you know they put
han solo top otherwise joint exploding a lot of plea to come back
but and
you know i albert turnpike everyday
and beckman work environment animated you know an effort to re-conquer develop
a professional environment
and uh... him
really extremely low cut uh... pop are integral to
beautiful woman
distrust of corporate
and i think you'd distraction not i'm a prude
it really wanna do my job and i don't want to be looking over their gone what
why is it that
that uh... ideal for for small businesses wid u suggests that the
sagging pants they're showing some guys but crack here at the top of the spot
but that is somehow sexual it doesn't seem to me like that sexual
uh... well
busy day like that's a that's a tend to be sexually attractive it seems to me
that that's more of an intent to be
to to starts
you know membership in opinion a particular community of people
uh... military they were trying to be factual with a girl provide
but an epidural report with a bit like about it
so
their he's so we're back to this thing of
of there he's
no
well quinlan tues slot for men
they're they're right
yeah right on job at his unfortunately
the cadence address cuts so dress codes around
always
are not about being sexual there about bean
proper
whereas dress codes for girls are around beans sexual because they will distract
always
and that you've got women like guinea roseanne immortal words your mouth but
yeah you've got women
suggesting
and and i agree with her on this
that that really shouldn't
the somethin that the women have to worry about
or is it just really that's biology get used to it having everyone would boats
words and worst reality
well i i i think is still but being propped appropriate for that environment
and i think the boy so dress appropriately in the group dress
appropriately an optical citing pamper appropriate non-opec a low-cut popular
pro prefer a female
very interesting
okay joe thank you very much for the call barbara and assigned to a half
away live twenty four seconds robert you want to hold on a naal while picking up
after the break
i yeah ok what when and how
out are this a m an hour as the word is the bailey can help
manhole
how interesting and women use that word
you know i didn't get all the time
that when i'd come and minist
is intricate gary
billy
so
but it's not a system as widely amounts of more obscure we thank you barbara
thank you for the compass china