It's Captain Daniel Hyun from the ABCs Of Attraction. Have you ever felt burned
out from doing something you love you feel so passionate like man I love what
I'm doing but then all of a sudden you hit a plateau and you love anymore you
have this feeling that you're taking a step back when you felt like you're
moving forward so fast so what do you do when you feel like you're taking it step
back and here's the thing I actually been going through this and I feel like
I've been taking a step back especially in my coaching and that's when I'm
literally taking a step back I'm here in Park City Utah which I never thought I
would visit Salt Lake City Utah but I came here because I'm getting visiting
with my best friend's and his family and it was a way for me to kind of take a
step back from coaching so before Utah I was going to Chicago I went to Vegas I
was in New York City I went to Columbia and I was traveling and here's the thing
I loved every minute of it I love seeing the results that my student god I love
when my student was moved to have his first romantic experience in Vegas where
he met this girl and had a genuine conversation with her I loved him when I
saw my student just smiling the next day but oh my god that was crazy I love that
fact I was traveling to Chicago I actually went to Washington DC - and saw
the first time the Vietnam War Memorial when I was a captain in the Air Force
and go to Washington DC and see all the veterans who fought for something bigger
than themselves and I loved it don't get me wrong but for some reason I felt like
I was thinking that back in my coaching and I want to open up about a story of
when I knew I was thinking step back was I was coaching one of my students in
Boston and start the boot camp little bit earlier we started Thursday so I was
gonna just do Thursday Friday Saturday day even just ended but since Saturday
night that's when a lot to go out my student requested hey let's go out
another night are you okay with that and I remember I took a nap after the boot
camp was over I was like you know what sure let me take a nap and I remember I
was just burnt out and I could just feel it I could just feel myself like man
like all these negative things came up like man my parents don't approve of my
coaching I had a very comfortable job and being a captain Air Force and I quit
it and the money's not good as it used to be I was living so comfortably
at home I wasn't this guy who was just traveling constantly to new places and
just being burnt out and always coming home to a place that's not mine and then
knowing that I came and unpacked my bags just the three days in three days out I
leave after the next day and then I have to wake up at 5:00 in the morning 60
more to catch a flight so all these were creeping up but you
know what I promise to date an extra night
so Rinat we went out that Saturday night and I remember like our first or second
set it hooked where one of the girls was very interested in my student and then I
remember I was waiting for him and basically the girls ended up leaving the
set and it was actually my fault because I couldn't hold down the girls friend
where the girl's friend was interested in me and her friend was interested in
my student and I'm the one who messed it up and I took that really hard because I
feel like as a coach that's my job to make sure my student especially if
someone he's attracted to it she's attracted to him I'm supposed to make it
work so I remember I felt pretty bad and I actually opened up to my student and
he's like it's okay and my student and I kind of talked about this I think we
were just both we were both talking about how we didn't want to go out that
night and I realized that's the moment when I was like man I'm burned out as
much as I love what I do I just felt like sometimes it became a chore not
coaching my students but making sure I did the coaching right or I wanted to do
everything so perfectly so that's why I'm here right now I'm not focused on my
job for two weeks I'm taking a break from coaching and I'm just spending time
with one of my best friends and his family it's been amazing I mean look at
this view right Park City is just an amazing place to be especially because
more about nature all the big places I've been going to where cities now I
feel like I'm part of the nature and I'm not focused on what's going out I just
found out on Instagram everyone's at Coachella and yeah it's like fun but at
the same time sometimes just the best way to take a break is to actually take
a step back so when you're feeling like you're
taking a step back actually take a step backward I got off my computer I got my
emails I did a little bit coaching - here and there where they're just like
phone coaching but most of the time I just stay at home watch the movie now
exploring Park City doing what I love eating being a foodie just doing things
that doesn't stress me out because as much as you love what you do sometimes
you realize you have that pressure to produce results to get shit done for
your students and everything and it was just a lot of pressure but after now
what am I gonna do now that I'm taking a 2-week step back so right after is I'm
actually going to South America tour with ABCs and I'll be coaching hard for
two weeks so I want to talk about that is once you take a step back use that
step back just bring you up two sets forward so now that I took a step back
for two two weeks I'm gonna use this momentum to push me forward for full-out
all energy coaching for South America for my students who really want to
understand that culture blare and meet amazing beautiful women and just have a
great time and I'm gonna go all out on that coaching because now I took my
break now it's the time for the students to get that benefit of meeting and step
back so I really want to harp on that look if you take a step back it's not
really a step back if you actually come back stronger and you take two steps
forward and then lastly when you truly love something right and I actually
listen to this quote today by Tony Robbins he said that pain is a sign for
you to take action not for you to suffer right I want to drop another quote it's
about Bob Marley said there's some people in the world or something's in
the world that is always gonna hurt you actually everything in life is gonna
hurt you people will hurt you just other things in life will hurt you but it's to
find the things that worth suffering so it's kind of like a paradoxical thing
where I said Tony Robbins says pain is a sign for you take action not to suffer
but Bob Marley's saying that there's things that you're gonna always get hurt
by but it's worth doing that and that's I think that's your life passion
whatever you love either your woman whether its family members or so job the
career I think everything in life will bring you pain but it's just embracing
that and knowing that you will burn out you will go through struggle and I think
one of the best ways to taking a step back it's putting that in perspective
that pain is not a bad thing when you when you feel like you're burnt out or
oh my gosh I failed this I felt that if I truly loved this why is it easy it's
not supposed to be easy I don't think anything you love the fact
that you love it means that you get hurt deeply by it and I think when I really
thought into coaching I was like wow I love what I do but I felt so lonely at
night and I wonder why it's cause like you can't have the good without the bad
you need to get in the yang I think when you love something you also feel you
also feel some kind of emptiness at times right but then you also get that
feel that many people think that you find your true happiness to find true
fulfillment and your Cup's always full know you gotta empty that cup to see
what it feels to see that cup full it's like you need to know thirst to really
drink that water and feel like oh my god that was the best cup of water I ever
had and I think can't forget that that you need to be tert thirsty
you need to be in pain you need to know how to like peak and plateau be like
wise in my life progressing so you realize I would take a step back really
put my life into perspective be grateful that I am I'm trying I'm in Park City
Utah I would never have been here unless the airports that come to Utah to serve
and now I'm here with my best friends and his family members and I'm in Park
City enjoying where they filmed some danced here this is where the big
Sundance Film Festival happens right and I'm sure I went to Columbia for the
first time because I coach I want to watch the DC so I want to just talk
about that guy so any when you truly love something remember
it comes with a good amazing fulfillment boats always comes with the bag where
you feel you step back and you will feel feet taking a step back to take two
steps forward is the best way to achieve happiness in life we need again in the
yang guys so I'm gonna be in Park City I'm gonna enjoy this
I'm taking my step back two weeks I'm just gonna be putting my life research
perspective go hiking go snowboarding do whatever I love to do and then I'm gonna
next week when I actually go coach my students in South America might kill it
because I step back now enjoy my life and I'm so grateful to be me in this
place right now it's only now is the only thing to have at this polling guys
captain Daniel hung out thanks for watching our video I hope you liked it
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