Let's start with a story around 10 years ago, maybe just a little bit more than that when
I was learning how to meet women just like you're probably doing right now by watching
these videos, I remember I was getting sort of good at it.
I was getting over my anxiety and starting to meet women and I'd get their numbers and
lo and behold, many of those numbers, nothing ended up happening.
I wasn't able to get them to respond to any text messages, to get them to meet up and
there was even a point where I would be able to get them to meet up with me, get them on
a first date, go hang out whatever and then after that, I wouldn't hear from them again.
If anyone knows what it feels like to be ghosted, to not get that response from a girl, it's
me.
And I figured out what the big problem was.
If you're in a situation right now, where you already have a girl's number and she's
not responding to you, then what I want you to do is check out this free video that teaches
you the 7 deadly text messages that make her want you and make her respond.
You can check that out.
Get that for free and you can use that for getting women to respond to you.
However, if you want to understand the bigger concept and the type of text message that
you want to send to prevent the ghosting, then I'm going to be showing you what to do
on this video.
But the text message that you want to be sending from this guy right here is going to be the
text message for her to meet up with you.
This is how you prevent ghosting.
Let me explain.
If you want to not get ghosted, you need to be able to build attraction with her on the
first meet up.
The reason why you get ghosted, why people get ghosted is because, obviously that person
is not interested anymore.
Common sense.
You get ghosted, they don't want to text you, they don't want to have anything to do with
you, meaning they're not interested, meaning they are not attracted.
What I see happening all the time, especially with my coaching clients is they show me their
text messages, they send me their text messages and what I see is that they're not asking
the girl out.
They're not asking her out.
They're using text messages as this way to communicate with them to build attraction
or get to know them, or flirt with them or just be in communication with them.
Like they're thinking that the interaction is the text messages itself.
However that is far from the case.
You want to use your phone, hear the text messages, as a vessel for you to then get
the girl to meet up with you to then again, prevent ghosting.
You may be thinking, well what if she's ghosting on that meet up text?
What if she's not answering the text message or I've asked her to meet up, what text do
you send after that?
Well then you can go to my 7 deadly text messages I talked about earlier.
But really, what's more important than sending some text message to hopefully get her attention
is to work on building your skill of getting her attracted to you.
If she didn't respond to you, she was never interested.
So what could you have done better in the interaction and get her more interested?
Is it more interesting conversation?
Is it the way that you're flirting, or maybe you're not flirting at all, you're not creating
any sexual tension with her.
This is what's going to prevent ghosting.
The text message that you want to send is to meet up because that's what you should
be doing.
Again, I'm saying here is to avoid ghosting altogether.
You send the text message to meet up with her, she'll start an easy conversation.
You'll just say to her hey, it was great meeting you last night or great meeting you yesterday,
how was the rest of your day?
How was the rest of your night?
Send that because you're trying to start a conversation with her.
You're just getting her to respond.
You're not too intense with the asking her out.
Get her to respond once, maybe you'll go back and forth to the couple text messages, literally
a couple and then you go for it and then you say, well, awesome, hey, what's your schedule
like this week?
We should grab a bite, we should grab a drink coffee, whatever it is.
But again, like I said, you have the option.
If she doesn't respond and you're still working on building your skill of attracting women,
you can still use one of the 7 deadly text messages.
Check that out.
I'll put a link down in the description below.
But again, I hope you really understand the concept that I'm talking about here.
Don't try to fix the symptom.
The symptom here of maybe getting ghosted, prevent the ghosting.
How do you prevent it?
Make sure that you ask her out.
Use that text message so that you can be in person with her and build attraction.
Stop trying to converse with her over text message.
Start doing it in person and you're going to see a big, big change.