What if I told you that there's a technique you can use to make your
orgasms 10 times stronger every time. And that
you can use it both on yourself and on your partner
in order to give them mind-blowing experiences in the bedroom.
If that sounds good, please stick around because I'm going to tell you how to do
exactly that. My name is Helena Nista and I am a sex therapist and a Tantra
practitioner. I make videos about great sex, legendary
pleasure, about Tantra and passionate
relationships. So if you're interested in these topics,
please make sure to subscribe to my channel and also hit that bell icon to
be notified whenever I post. I first heard of edging
many years ago when I started studying Tantra and great sex. Back then I was still
struggling to have orgasms and when i did manage to have them,
it was by placing a vibrator on my clitoris.
Because of the high intensity of stimulation that the vibrators provide
I would usually come pretty quickly but the orgasms themselves were always
quite disappointing, almost non-existent. I had no idea back then what a
difference slowing down would make. It turns out that the best
orgasms aren't the ones that we reach quickly
but the ones where a lot of time is taken to build up
enough arousal and sexual energy. In the mainstream world, we tend to think
that the best lover is the one who takes their partner
to orgasm quickly. But in Tantra it's quite the opposite.
The best lover is the one who teases their partner and who
stimulates them pleasurably for a long time, and who
drives them mad with desire before they finally let them reach that orgasmic
peak. These tantric lovers all use a
technique called edging. And the way edging works is quite simple:
you come to the edge of orgasm and then you back away, so you don't let
yourself or your partner orgasm and you keep
coming to that edge before you finally climax.
So I'm going to tell you first how to do that alone
and then how to do it with a partner. Just before I do that, I would truly
appreciate it if you could give this video a "like".
The more "likes" my videos get, the more YouTube will be showing them to others,
meaning that more people can learn about fantastic sex
and amazing pleasure. Please also comment below to let me know if you've ever
heard of edging before. When you're masturbating, make sure to
pleasurably stimulate yourself until you come close to the orgasm.
Do not orgasm yet though! When you're close,
take your hands away, relax your entire body
and take at least 10 deep abdominal breaths,
while touching and caressing the rest of your body.
When you're breathing deeply, the sexual energy is being pulled
out of your genital area and distributed throughout your body.
This means that the intensity of the arousal will reduce
but the lovely sensations will start to spread out.
At that point, after 10 breaths, you can start stimulating your genital area
again. Keep going until you get close to your
edge again. And then stop, take your hands away and
breathe. Again about 10 breaths should do it.
Once your arousal reduces. resume genital stimulation. So what
you're doing here is you're coming up to a high level of arousal and
then coming back down again. And then going up and back down again.
Try to do this up-and-down about five times, at least five times, before you
reach climax. And when you do, prepare for a
mind-blowing, expanded, blissful experience.
When you take the time to build up enough sexual energy,
the resulting orgasm will be much stronger than
if you were to only stimulate yourself for a few minutes.
When you're playing with your partner and you want to use edging on them,
it's going to be a little bit more tricky because you won't always know how
close to the orgasm they are. This is why it's going to be helpful to
ask them to communicate with you and to let you know
where they're at. I find that simply raising their
hand when they're close to the edge is enough for me to know
when I should stop stimulating their genitalia.
So once your partner is highly aroused, it's time to start spreading out their
sexual energy. So instruct them to breathe deeply
while you're massaging and stroking their chest, their
arms, their belly, their legs... And after they've taken
10 breaths, you can resume the stimulation of their genitals.
Keep going until you bring them up to the edge
at least five times. This technique is truly mind-blowing and
particularly when I use it with a new lover,
it completely blows their socks off. Most people have no idea
how amazing, powerful and satisfying their orgasms can be. But the big secret
is taking your time, using the edging and stimulating as much sexual energy
and arousal in their body as possible. Then you're pretty much guaranteed to
rock their world when you let them reach that climax.
If you like this video, please give it a "like" and a comment.
I would love to know if you're already familiar with edging or if you're going
to give it a go. And what kind of results you get with it.
I always respond personally to all of the comments and I cannot wait
to read yours. Thank you so much for watching
and see you in my next video!