Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Today we're talking
about how to make a great first impression. Those 20 to
40 seconds when you first go up to a girl, when you first approach her, when you
first talk to her or even if you are approaching a stranger. A guy, you're in a
networking event, wherever you are. How do you make a killer first impression?
I'm gonna break it down for you and make this really easy for you and just
understand that everything I'm saying here is gonna be the most beneficial to
you in terms of making that great first impression. There's a million
things that you could do to make a great first impression but these are the
things that matter the most. I'm gonna go over 3 different sections.
The first section is how are you communicating with your body language,
the second is how are you communicating with your appearance, and the third is
how are you communicating verbally to the person? Let's go over the
first one which is your body language. One of the best things that you can do
especially when talking to a girl is being able to project your voice like
the way I'm talking to you right now so she can hear you clearly.
And giving her really good eye contact. Things I've talked about my
channel quite a bit that matter the most in terms of the first impression.
Obviously good things to be doing throughout the interaction but
especially in those first couple minutes. You want to be giving her good eye
contact cause it's gonna show her that you're not nervous, that you're
confident, that you're fearless, that you're a normal dude. Because guys
who are not able to look at someone in the eye, it's kind of weird.
Like they're shy. It's like why aren't they looking at me? Something
must be wrong. Giving them eye contact more than 90% of the time.
Especially when you're talking to them. A lot of guys will be able to look at
someone in the eye when they're listening but when they talk they
tend to look around a little bit. It's better to be looking at her in the eye.
It's very seductive too because you're making that connection. People connect
with their eyes. And project your voice. Talk like I'm talking right now.
Talk in this very dominant downward inflection which I'm talking to you.
Almost like a commanding tone.
Go over to her and whatever you're gonna say, your opening line, talk in
this voice. That is the body language aspect. Make sure you're doing that.
Next, let's talk about appearance. Let me give you the quick 1-2
punch in terms of your physical appearance in terms of what
you're wearing and how you're looking. First of all, quick tip on what you're
wearing. It doesn't matter. Don't think too hard
about whether you should be wearing something formal or informal. Just make sure
everything fits. Go to a store, talk to the
stylist there whoever is working there.
there and get clothes that fits you because that's gonna look the best.
Fitted clothes always look the best. Tt's been looking that way for decades.
Anyone who's ever looked good, whatever the style is (it doesn't matter
what the style is) wearing things that fit look better. When it's too loose or
too baggy or too tight it just doesn't look good. Why? Because that's the thing
she's looking at. She's gonna take a quick look at you as a person,
what you're wearing and then she's gonna be looking at your face. Here's the
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Next we're going into verbal. What are you saying to her? How you are gonna make a
good first impression with what you say? Here's what I want you to do. I want
you to focus on one thing. I told you. I'm gonna make
that's easy for you. Really simple things you could do. One thing is focus
on not asking too many questions. You're not gonna make a good first impression
and you won't be memorable if you're asking a lot of questions. Instead what
you want to be doing is making more statements. A lot of guys will go into an
interaction, talk to a girl and they're just asking a ton of questions,
making her do all the work cuz it's easy. It's easy to ask a question and let them
just do everything. Where do you live, where are you from, what do you do?
Instead focus hard on how can you make statements? How can you talk about
yourself or how can you say something in statement form instead of asking a
question? Here's a little tip for you I like to give. I talk about this in my
program Hooked. It's a little tip where you're going to guess something about
her which is more of like a statement/question but it comes more in the
form of a statement. Instead of asking her where do you live, say let me guess,
you're probably from right outside of Boston. Something like that.
You play the "let me guess game". Use that a few times in interaction. Make sure
that you're working on all these things. This is gonna make the biggest
difference for you when you're trying to make that first impression with the girl
that you're talking to. Focus on all that, make it simple for yourself and you're
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