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- uh why do nice guys finish last I
wanted to discuss my reference or people
who choose to make decisions that are
more so socially acceptable tend to win
or prosper well I want you chooses to
move in a way more proper or nice more
politely lose or fail I like that
question that's a good one well there's
a hell of a lot of different answers
that I could get for this and any given
situation
but a lot of it has to do with where
energy moves one of the most unfortunate
thing is honestly about this time-space
reality that we live in is that it's
designed as a mirror environment that
means if the person feels no guilt
they don't manifest being in trouble so
a lot of the sociopaths on the planet
know the people who are in charge of our
world unfortunately they operate through
a loophole in the law of attraction if I
don't feel like I'm a bad person
it doesn't matter what I'm lining up
with I never am able to associate that
thing with me being in trouble now for
you it may seem this way you know and
primarily it's because of the fact that
those people don't register themselves
as losing in any way and if let's say
that you've got somebody who prioritizes
finances and I pour all of their energy
to finances I just had two conversations
you about commitment if there's no split
in the energy field you will manifest it
no matter what and sometimes the people
who are able to disconnect themselves
from social norms disconnect themselves
from the brakes that are inherent with
morality they're the people who are able
to commit the most and by virtue of
putting all of their energy into one
basket it manifests like this now that's
the universal reason nice guys finish
last is usually an issue that a lot of
guys have relative to women and I'm
going to tell you right now it's because
no woman wants a weak male it is this
gusting I'm gonna just be honest with
you because like most women aren't
honest because we're like oh my god you
know it's okay to be there what no hell
no but this is what you got to
understand we don't want women don't
want an there is a difference
between somebody who pours themselves
into something and who will commit and
use like non apologetic and somebody
who's a complete
no woman wants an it's just that
a lot of the men who who have ignored
the you know social moral standards and
who aren't really let's say captive from
the web of how I must behave in order to
you know be perceived by other people
these are the kind of guys who move
forward despite how other people feel so
a lot of the people who who are who do
have that forward moving energy who you
are you know equating to it not a nice
guy they are the ones who are able to
put all of their energy into something
and move completely forward and what we
know about masculine energy especially
is it is a forward moving energy first
and foremost it is the energy of
encouragement it is the energy of
providing it is literally forward moving
like crazy it's the it's a you know
femininity tends to be more receptive
open the opposite type of movement
within this universe and when it comes
to polarity no woman is attracted to a
receptive type of individual and
receptivity in a male doesn't feel like
oh I'm open to what you think no I mean
what I'm talking about to being male in
the negative sense its passivity and
that makes a female turned off there's
no polarity and it makes us feel
unprotected and as if there is not going
to be anything that this male can do in
our lives or for us yeah basically these
you know nice men meander that are
considering themselves nice often have
zero ownership whatsoever and that is
never going to turn a woman on what I
mean by ownership is if you guys can
watch this video if you haven't already
I did it I did a whole video called own
people and in that I explained this
whole dynamic with men it's very
important for the Ford women energy
one body and embodiment to take
ownership of the people in their lives
now when they do that it's almost like
they put a container and it's a safe
container around the people in their
lives this is different than control so
for those of you women that are watching
this feeling yourselves get triggered I
am NOT talking about control I'm talking
about ownership to really genuinely own
something you have to take it as part of
yourself now I know that you all know
the you know who's like horrible
in relationships but he takes completely
perfect care of his mint-condition
Ferrari right that is the degree to
which taking something as part of
yourself has to happen but within the
context of relationships for a guy to be
a good guy but also super forward moving
go-getter type of guy so what I mean
really what we're looking at here and
it's why I'm frustrated I can't answer
this question in like two point five
seconds is because we're the masculine
is so out of the land right now I have
no words for you like it's literally
what we're looking at is masculinity in
and of itself femininity too but
honestly femininity will come into the
language with masculinity coming into
alignment so what we're doing with
masculinity is literally masculinity
might as well be in the ICU on the
planet today with how much is wrong with
it how much we have destroyed it and how
much Society has gone against it so
that's my little piece on that but
usually the nice guys don't know how to
be nice and move forward at the same
time they don't know how to be nice and
actually they might their masculinity at
the same time and I we have to take
responsibility as women when men started
to go into shadow masculinity what we
did is we killed the masculine because
we had sons I know that some of you
heard this some of you haven't but I'm
just going to go over it again this is
what happens in history men who are you
know primarily out of alignment because
of the things they're starting to do
they started to take that energy that is
very much in controlling and ownership
type of energy and they started to go to
the shadow with it when men go to the
shadow with it you're looking at forms
of manipulative control you're looking
at outright violence and you're looking
at all the things that which women of
course you have been oppressed by for
thousands of years now what women did
because physically we are not actually
capable of coming up against that
thousands of years ago is we took
revenge on our sons we basically raised
them to not be men and that's that's
where we went completely out of
alignment
we actually got rid of a male and we
raised you know little boys essentially
who were who had the brakes on to such a
degree that they couldn't be men anymore
and now we've lost attraction for them
completely and to be honest we got to
come out of this because right now we're
headed towards a world where men have no
value that should scare the crap out of
everybody including women we're actually
headed towards a world where women do
everything and the only reason for a
menace it's like sperm donation now this
is not truth this is I mean it's not a
good thing that we're headed in this
direction because it's we're taking for
granted the valuable things that we
desperately need out of masculine energy
but we have to be aware that we we've
all headed there and so both men and
women played a part in the destruction
of masculinity and thus the destruction
of femininity along with it came as a
natural one-two step but I'm going to
contradict you even though it seems like
these men who are you know kind of not
good guys who are forward moving get
everything and get the girls too it's
not accurate it's just the normal it is
fully possible for a guy who's genuinely
a good guy
to move completely forward with his
energy take complete ownership and be
fully in the masculine he would be the
hottest man on the face of this earth
could get as much sex as he wanted but
he probably wouldn't want just sex woody
if he was in alignment masculine okay
that's my face I want to be
poor orphans oh my god you guys know
about that already I told you I watched
like one of the best documentaries that
I've watched in years yesterday it was
called liberated the sexual revolution I
was so mad oh my god
after watching that and so inspired to
be teaching about it I feel like this is
critical we got to come into alignment
with our masculinity and femininity I'm
gonna be teaching about this in the
future you can guarantee it next
question cute by the way I have known as
a woman I'm just gonna do an honesty
as a woman I have known some of
the nicest guys that are just sweeter
than hell and that you know would never
hurt a fly and yet as a woman you know
in their sweetness and their morality
and liking the fact that they would
never do whatever it is there is a
weakness which has nothing to do with
being sweet it has to do with the way
that they behave in general whether they
step up and take that you know actually
breathe in their masculinity how they
are in the sexual experience it is
impossible to be able to be turned on by
this man it's impossible to feel matched
by these men and what's very important
for a female is the B is the capacity to
be led now this is really important for
something like me to be saying this
because here I am I got like a huge
international career and companies know
I'm not going to come to you from the
standpoint of like this bigshot CEO
woman who's like you can take all the
power of it that's totally out of
alignment
I'm telling you literally to be in
alignment as a female you have got to
let yourself be led by someone and so
these types of men who are super super
sweet they can't frequently do they
can't do it and when push comes to shove
and it's a difficult situation that
suckers gonna let you be the one in
charge that is scary as hell as a female
so that is the main reason why as a
female there's no way in hell I would go
for a sweet guy over a guy who's
aggressive regardless of whether or not
we would rather have both yeah
hey maybe neetha per source to you it's
the container yeah you want to continue
oh yeah by the way I should explain this
cuz it's a really beautiful sari
when a man is able to create that
containment meaning with his strength
and his forward-moving energy he's able
to create a safe space for a female
hopefully not where he's tormenting her
inside of that what are the labels a
female to do is to go into receptivity
that energy is a bit like a flower
blooming inside of a box it is one of
the healthiest vibrations to see in a
relationship and when I'm teaching
relationship workshops you can bet that
that's this was a big energy that I'm
going to be going through and going for
if we're in a male-female dynamic
relationship
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