﻿10 DETAILS A Woman Notices In The First TEN Seconds
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Within seconds of meeting a woman for the first time, she’s
already made a judgment about you. In fact, I would argue within the first 10 seconds,
she’s already sized you up in 10 different ways. And to be fair, she’s only human. And like any
other human being on this planet, she relies on heuristics. Basically, mental shortcuts
to be able to make sense of all this information she’s being bombarded with.
So, what are these shortcuts and how can you use them to put your best foot forward? Gents,
find out in today’s video. [Music]
First up on the list, gentlemen, body language. Fight or flight. This makes a lot of sense,
go back thousands of generations, women have had to deal with overly aggressive males.
We see this across the animal kingdom. Women are going to be more selective. The female of the
species has to contend with males and in general are going to be larger, going to be dangerous to
her, so she’s going to be more cautious. Gents, if you want a woman to approach you,
if you’re going to approach a woman, make sure your stance is open. Your hands are
shown. You don’t want to hide them, you don’t want to put them behind you.
You want to make sure that your shoulders are squared. Don’t take a step back like this. This
shows you could be throwing a punch. You also don’t want to cross those arms up. This says
I’m closed for business and I’m not interested. Now, the second thing a woman is going to notice
is your posture. So, you want to make sure to stand straight. Roll the shoulders back,
put the chest out. Why? Because when you put that chest out, you roll those shoulders back, you’re
showing strong posture, that you are a masculine male that got a healthy dose of testosterone.
And, yeah, you have no problems sticking that chest out like we see across the animal kingdom.
Men, whenever they know they’re being looked at by women, what do they do? They stick
that chest out and they strut those shoulders. Now, gents, if you enjoy these types of videos,
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comments saying, “first”, I appreciate you. All right. So now, let’s talk about height.
A lot of guys have a hang up with this because there are so many women out there and they could
see it in their dating profiles that they are looking for taller men. So, guys that are under
the average height or guys that are even under 6 foot, oftentimes feel disadvantaged.
The reality though and study after study shows this is that women are more interested in height
relative to themselves. They’re looking for guys that are a bit taller than them
in general. So, if she’s 5’1”, you’re 5’4”, you guys are good to go.
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first few seconds, gents, your shoes. And, women have paid attention to shoes for a long time. But,
it makes sense when you look at the human body and how we look each other up and down.
The shoes are an end point, the face is an end point. But, those shoes right there,
why do they get more attention? Well, for hundreds if not thousands of years,
human beings had to have money, they had to have means to have nice shoes.
Nowadays, I think you need to know a little bit about style and I think a lot of women just look
at a man’s shoes and they instantly can tell this guy gets it or this guy is clueless.
Now, if you really want to score quick an easy wins, go for boots. I’ve talked about the power of
good-looking boots. You wear a pair of boots like this, she’s going to instantly know that you’ve
got style that you pay attention to the details. Now, if that last pair is too flashy too much,
well, consider going with a solid color, but maybe go with suede. Why suede? It’s going to
bring a bit of texture, it’s going to stand out, and, again, she’s going to notice that
small style detail. [0:05:03]
And, I get it, some of you guys are saying, “Come on, Antonio. I’m casual.” Well, casual
doesn’t mean sloppy. There is a lot of style you can bring to casual sneakers.
The point I’m trying to make, gents, pay attention to your footwear, because the women around you,
they’re using it as a shortcut to make a quick judgment about who you are.
Now, as a woman gets closer, she no longer has to rely just on her vision, all of a sudden,
her sense of smell. And women have in general a stronger sense of smell than men.
Now, I know a lot of you guys are saying, “Well, hey, I play defense,
I shower, I’m clean.” But, are you playing any offense? And, guys, remember, a balanced team
offense and defense is what wins championships. So, if you want to win hearts, guess what? Master
your fragrance game. I would highly recommend you start with something simple, a designer,
something that is a crowd pleaser. Why? Well, okay, you’re not going to win any awards,
but you know what? She’s going to like it. And these are pretty much guaranteed that 95%
of women are going to like this right here, the parfum. It’s got a little bit of apple top,
just a really simple clean fragrance. Over here, Bleu de Chanel, any of them.
You can go with the parfum, you can go with the EDT, you can go with the EDP. It doesn’t
matter. All of the Bleu fragrances are the women just absolutely love them.
Acqua di Gio, if you want something clean. If you want something a little bit heavier,
I’ve got some great designer fragrances up here, I would highly recommend. Point being is understand
the situation, you don’t want to necessarily wear this at work. These would be great for
work. These are going to be more for the club. But, if you want something that women are going
to like, clean, maybe go with a little bit intoxicating if that’s, you know, her thing.
It’s really going to depend on the woman. But, what I would say is it’s better than wearing
nothing, wear less, you want to be discovered, not announced yourself when you walk into a room.
But, don’t underestimate the power of fragrance. So now, let’s talk specifically about clothing.
Women notice clothing because in general they understand it more. They are oftentimes judged
based on appearances. So, when they look at a man, they’re oftentimes looking at
and they’re trying to make an evaluation a quick judgment of who this guy is.
I’ll tell you, if you’re wearing a sports jacket, you’re wearing a suit, you’re wearing a blazer
jacket, you come off as a man in charge, a man going places. The same thing with dress shirts.
Why do dress shirts work? Well, over hundreds of years, these have been designed to actually
give a more masculine look. The collar going around the face, what does this do? It frames
the face. It actually makes the neck look a little bit longer, a little bit better, more elegant.
These small details when mixed in with the jacket -- when you think about the jacket,
what does it do? It slims up the waist, it builds up the shoulders, makes the chest look a little
bit larger. Again, all of these things make you look stronger, make you look more masculine,
make you look like a success. Now, what about jewelry? Yeah,
it’s definitely something the ladies look at and historically, jewelry has been an
indicator of status and wealth. Does it still have a place in today’s society? I would argue,
yes, that women still use jewelry to make a quick decision about a guy and what he has to offer.
And, I’m curious, gents, what’s your opinion? Down in the comments,
watches, are they jewelry or something different? The next two things a woman notices, your smile
and your eyes. So, I’m putting this together because there’s a combination here called
the smeyes and the smeyes, did you see it? That is where you give a genuine smile.
The way I do it, I think of happy thought and I actually laugh. And when you really laugh,
your eyes, they do a little bit of wrinkling on the sides. Very difficult to fake and so
many guys out there are just smiling when they’re shaking their hands,
they’re talking to people and it’s not real. Most women have a pretty good BS detector and
they’re trying to pick up on, okay, is this guy being honest? Does he really
like me? Are we having a good conversation? Make sure that you look them in the eye.
One trick I used to do is just simply try to figure out what color are her eyes,
so that I can maybe compliment her on the color of her eyes. That is making good eye contact
there. Make sure to smile to actually, yeah, enjoy the conversation. Think happy thoughts,
because if you’re not having happy thoughts, then probably it shouldn’t go nowhere. Point being,
gentlemen, is genuine smiles genuine eye contact go a long way with a woman.
All right, gents, so what video to watch next? How about ten signs you are more attractive than
you think? Seriously, you’re a handsome dude and find out why in this video right here.
Did you see it? I smeyesed. [0:09:15] End of audio