You have your daughter right now,
and where do you live?
We don't really live anywhere.
We've been waiting for my settlement
from C.J. to get our new place,
and so now we've just been with different friends,
waiting for that to happen.
You smoke marijuana with her.
I do now, yeah.
We smoke before we meditate.
We meditate together.
Okay, where do you get the, you have a marijuana card?
Medical marijuana card.
I do, yeah.
So, can I just explain that,
at her age, she had started smoking marijuana before,
I don't know when, couple years ago at least.
And I could see that she was smoking marijuana,
I could smell that she was smoking marijuana,
and she would smoke until she was just worthless,
like she couldn't walk around or do anything.
Another one of her friends at the same time
had smoked something he'd gotten from some random guy,
and sat on the sofa for three days,
because it'd been laced with acid or something.
And that really frightens me.
That really frightens me that
she could get something horrible,
or that she's just gonna smoke and smoke and smoke
until she's blue, which is not the point, you know?
If I were talking about these things,
if I wanna be like what the status quo is,
and la la la, and pretend like that's not happening,
and let her lie to me, then she can do
all kinds of horrible crazy things
that don't need to happen.
So you give it to her because it's controlled,
you know what's in it.
I know what's in it, I know how much she has,
I know when she gets it.
You pretend like your kids aren't doing things,
you tell yourself that you're a good parent,
and you're just lying to yourself.
It's just not true.
You give it to her for two reasons,
one is you know that it's not laced
with something on the street.
That's the first thing.
'Cause it's medical
Yeah.
So you give it to her for quality control,
and two, you do it before you meditate,
and it's...
She's not just going nuts with it.
It's a common knowledge that Eastern culture
would use those sorts of things
for meditation purposes and things like that.
Well, because I've looked at the pictures
that she's put up, and the videos...
That she's put up with you.
Where has this taken place?
That's at a concert.
Yeah.
Now, she's 14.
Agreed, and...
I tried to find a way to talk to her where she'll hear me,
and tried to get on board with me,
because even if I tell her, listen,
I don't want a video of that,
I don't want you posting that,
well she'll do it behind my back.
She'll do it behind my back.
But you're smoking dope with your daughter at a concert.
I wasn't smoking there.
You're with your daughter smoking dope at a concert.
Yeah, she was smoking, yeah, yeah.
I can conjugate verbs however you need 'em conjugated.
You're at a concert with your daughter smoking dope.
Yes.
That she got from you.
Yeah, that one's from me, yeah.
Yeah, that's from me.
Does that seem appropriate?
[Woman In Audience] No.
Oh, not to her, not to her.
No I'm asking you.
It does, it does, it feels, it feels...
Comfortable.
I'm asking, I just wanna know.
It feels like a place where she...
Can be herself.
And you're okay with her being sexually active at 14?
She would have been sexually active a year prior
if I hadn't dragged it out a bit.
She was looking at things when she was 11
that would make you and I, make our toes curl.
Well you showed them to her.
I did not show them to her, I did not.
She showed me 11 videos--
She said those she found on your phone.
She is manipulative, and smart,
and if I try to hide things from her,
there's still things I don't show her,
or talk about, 'cause I'm not comfortable
talking about them with her.
But she is in your face, and honestly, she's...
Yeah, she's...
A force.