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so we're here today at British Vogue to
answer all your relationship questions
okay
I'm gonna begin I'm given D and Apps ago
what treating should make me swipe left
okay I've never been on a date an app so
I'm thinking this is tinder or something
and do you need advice that I could give
is I mean if he gives you Fanny floors
swipe left that's really all I swipe
left not bad oh it's wipe left bad Oh
swipe right when you like them swipe not
treating should make me swipe left I
mean if there's pictures of girls on the
for you don't want that - yeah because
you don't know what's going on there and
if there's too many people obviously you
don't know which guy it is like what
another thing I mean if he's ugly I'm
going for a drink with someone I met on
tinder I can't decide what to wear how
sexy is too sexy for the first date okay
no more please now I think first
impressions mean a lot and obviously is
up to you but just remember his first
impression with you on the date what
you're wearing
is gonna let him know we're four he's
coming today someone for the night or
in a potential wife what's the best
first question to ask can I date you
know I think the most serious question
you should ask um that is what they're
actually looking for what they're
looking for long-term short-term you
know so you can progress I mean that is
more like a tenth date question I mean
probably not yet
I've just had a magical summer romance
but I don't think things are going to go
the distance how do I break it off just
tell him to jog on what are you gonna
say to him like if it's not going to
work out just or just say and just block
no you tease - I'm like it was a holiday
romance you've probably seen him what
once or twice this is a much more summer
romance it means the whole summer so
someone's basically like loved Ivan
basically oh okay very bad advice my
boyfriend has never seen me without
makeup on it's been six months and now
I'm too nervous him to see what shall I
do
okay I'm joking
no but in six months I think if
someone's been around you got long they
clearly like you for more than like
however you look anyway do you know I
mean so I don't think it's something to
be nervous about
I love heels but my boyfriend is shorter
than me in them what do I do
digital boyfriend did you get a
boyfriend holiday not not nor no cuz I'm
I think I'm a bit taller than Craig when
I've got a high
to your file but like just where well
I've been going out with my girlfriend
for 14 months but we've only got to the
first base do you think I should finish
with it persevere I thought you should
finish with exercise a bit hasty because
the freaker's you know sex isn't
everything
listen sex is not every friendly
relationship so maybe don't get me wrong
everyone likes to be satisfied force and
what maybe should you know have a seat
down and talk about these sort of things
you know and talk about why it's not
happening and get to the bottom of the
hole yeah I saw yes I would say
persevere do do not finish that's my
phone I'm very sorry being set up on a
blind date if I can't stand the guy
what's the best escape route alright
yeah yeah so there's a couple of options
and go to the toilet contact your friend
to ring yeah when you come out to the
tailor said cinema rats and me I'm
serious from your mom's yeah it's gone
wrong aha
you don't have to take that one you can
just communicate with the person sitting
right from you look it's not really
working for me yeah do you know I mean
ah thank you very much sometimes it's
hard for a girl to say that oh wait like
it's very very hard to say that is it
hard for you to say that well no not me
but um some girls would find it very
hard to say it out so you know just
escape right I keep having sex dreams
about my boyfriend's best friend what
does that mean I mean it's only a dream
bit weird go but it's a dream if she's
fantasize you can't have what you dream
about
I dreamt I got chased by a giant tomato
does that mean something tomato okay
just flip the script if your boyfriend's
having dreams about your best friend I
haven't said to your best friend is that
bad or not I don't want to know about
that
what is the best way to get over someone
yeah under no I think time is a great
healer poppy around people that you love
and you will get over you will get over
yes then you can over they even though
when your mommy says you know what you
will get home you're like oh yeah you
will yeah
everything happens but it does I don't
like my boyfriend skinny jeans they are
so tight these days and it's a bit of a
turn-off how do I break you to buy some
nice jeans I know you might be able to
persuade him into wearing them but don't
definitely say right don't let them take
off cuz I'll just go or else I've just
come out with eternia relationship and
things seem to have changed a lot
what are the new rules for modern day I
mean I'm not sure
Monday's ever the modern Dayton's are
free for all you know it's just -
whatever all I know is you're not
supposed to double text my partner has a
sexual fetish that weirds me out what
should I do if this is something that he
needs then he's not the guy for you
because if you're feeling uncomfortable
I'm feeling weird about it then I mean
you don't want that and a boyfriend yeah
yeah I definitely speak to him about
that because you can't carry on if it
wears you out some of the hustles
because they might you know if it's hot
sauce you got you know I got lucky
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this P is my turn yeah
literally don't tweet here between you
better fluid yeah that's all I was going
out I want to slide into a guy's DMS
what's the best opening line I like it
and I want you oh I know why don't you
just like a couple of his pictures and
then he might message and that's that
I've noticed my boyfriend it's been
texting a girl from his office all the
time he says it's about work but I feel
suspicious should I go through his form
yes 100% got charlie
I find that low that you shouldn't do
that you know if your if your feet if
your gut is telling you that something's
going on your true that man up on why
he's asleep oh and another thing to do
when you go true is foreign and find
something you need to photograph all the
evidence because he'd probably lie about
it you should I am a serious private
detective yeah are you yes I don't think
that's enough grounds obviously if if
there's something behind it where
someone not if there's someone every
single day but if it's someone you work
with say it's your management and it's a
man and he's messenger you can't say
because he's messing with you every day
all of a sudden he should go free from
bar it's just not on I mean it's not
really not the right approach for shame
what I would do and I'd got she was fun
my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex
with me what should I do to spice things
up yeah but why does she have to try and
spice things up why is an e doing it no
well that should be something uh sort of
naturally my girlfriend Oh God
my girlfriend poses very provocatively
on Instagram and the male attention and
she gets drives me mad how can I ask you
to tone it down what does that mean
provocative so you're like am i some
great
so provocative please like like maybe
like right like anything yeah I just
think I just think that you don't ask
get it on it down like it should be a
compliment to you that you know what
that guys are interested in you go
hunting this country she's not doing
anything to make you feel insecure then
why is it an issue I've been single for
years tried apps and websites but never
found anyone decent where it's best to
find someone there to meet someone more
organically it's not yes yeah but you
can t meet someone in a filling station
like yeah petrol station and you do you
and some be right will come along yeah
but you can't be sitting in the house
all the time like when Jenna something
you got some hobbies yeah what they said
how do you know when you're falling for
someone
well I can only speak from my history
yeah when I was a full of Molly
basically it hits you when you feel like
you can't you know he can you need to be
around that person every single moment I
tell you he spent every single second
with that person you just love
everything about them and you just
literally it will do anything anything
for every time you see it more you speak
to just get bullet flies yeah they feel
nervous and you literally just it's just
if it's a feeling that you never get
before like it's not I know it is it's
very hard so when you know you know
about those who could make everything
alright