- Heya playa, if you're a guy that wants to be
way more likable with girls, at school, at work,
or just in life, I brought my friend Layan Bubbly
to talk to you guys, to share her expertise on what it takes
to be a likable person.
Stay tuned.
- Hello everybody, my name is Layan, and I have been voted
as one of the top 10 dating experts in the USA.
Today, Josh invited me to speak to you about
the three changes you can make in order to be more likable.
Hope you enjoy this video, and stay tuned until the end,
because I have a special free gift for you guys.
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Number one, when you do see someone
that you are attracted to, that you consider beautiful
and of quality, you feel frozen with your speech,
you second-guess yourself a lot, you don't know what to say
in order to open the conversation and engage her further.
You sweat through your palms, you sweat through your back,
you break eye contact, you aren't able to
actually make eye contact in order to tell her
that you are attracted to her.
A lot of times, you also feel a little pressure
on the heart, your heart will beat faster,
and you need to be aware of those symptoms,
because your body is telling you that you
are not feeling confident in your own value.
Now, why is that important, and why is it important
to have true, authentic self-confidence in order for you
to attract quality, beautiful women into your life?
Well, the number one reason is, women have this sixth sense,
and every single woman has that.
The more guys she has after her, the more beautiful she is,
the more she will have an in-tune sense of whether a man
is confident or not.
And the number one thing that attracts women to men
is authentic confidence.
Now, you might have sometimes seen someone
that is not necessarily very attractive,
but you see him yet walking with such a beautiful,
quality woman, and you wonder why.
Sometimes, the minor reasons might be that he is rich
or he is famous.
Most men that can keep a woman attached to them
without showing off that they have money
or that they have status do it because they understand
the psychology of human behavior,
and also, they have confidence in their own value
without hiding behind flashy cars, flashy jewelry,
or flashy houses.
And I'm gonna tell you how to attain that confidence
throughout this video.
Now, one of the second factors that I wanna discuss with you
today is the power of communication.
And that's often something that men and women
completely forget about, and yet it's one of
the most important factors to success in
relationship, life, and business.
When it comes to the power of communication, you have to
look at your body language, your vocal communication,
your facial expressions, and the choice of your words,
which compose 100% of your communication skills.
And why is it so important?
Well, communication is the way we express our ideas,
our desires, our needs to one person or more.
And the foundation of communication is one of the most
essential
rules of success when it comes to attracting
the life you want, because without a mean,
without success in communicating what you want,
you will not be able to attract what you want.
It is as simple as that.
And trust me when I say, I have coached men
that had a lot of money, a lot of status, a lot of fame,
and yet, they were unable of communicating their needs
and their desires to women they were attracted to.
Therefore, the woman would be charmed by someone else
who has ability to do so.
If you look at any book that has been written on
The Art of Seduction, let's talk a little bit about
Robert Greene, here.
One of the first chapters he introduces to men
is how Cleopatra was seduced by Caesar by the fact that
Caesar was able to use his words, his communication,
his expressions, his emotions, in order to attract
one of the most beautiful, notoriously famous women
in the entire world.
That tells you a lot about The Art of Seduction.
Nonverbal communication makes up 93% of your
communication skills, so that means that
only 7% makes up your words.
About 30% of the nonverbal communication
is made up of your voice, so in order to
attract beautiful women into your life, you need to know
how to communicate not only what you want and need
very efficiently and clearly,
but you also need to do it with confidence.
See how every single thing is interconnected?
And those three foundations will help you define success.
That being said, let's talk about the third thing
that is lacking for you to find success
with quality, beautiful women.
Number three, now what is lacking,
what is that secret ingredient
that will get a woman to love you more than other men?
How can you be unlimited with your power of attraction,
seduction, and engagement?
Well, over the years, what has been lacking in my coaching,
and what I am giving to you for free today,
is the power of personality.
What does personality mean?
Well, personality, put simple, is the combination of your
qualities and characteristics expressed well enough
through your emotions and actions which, in return,
will pique the interest of women.
Personality is built through your passions,
your hobbies, your goals.
This is why we say the art of seduction, it's because
you learn not only about yourself, but you learn how
to communicate yourself to others confidently.
Bottom point
is that humans are emotional beings,
and women are attracted to a man who can make them
feel something different.
You might be a spiritual man, or you might consider yourself
to be naturally introverted.
I want you to accept your nature, and use it
to empower yourself in the dating world.
See, where most pickup artists and dating coaches fail
is when they teach you to be someone you are not.
Openers, stories, all of these techniques
do not work long term.
Actually, their results are pretty short-term
and self-limiting.
I believe that each one of you has stories worth sharing,
and in order to find long-lasting and life-changing results,
we must first start by working on your unique strengths
and build them towards mastery.
I really hope you enjoyed this video.
If you would like to ask me questions about a specific
love or dating issue that you have in your life,
you can find me on Instagram
@layanbubbly, and of course, I promised you,
I have a free gift
for you.
As one of the things that I mentioned in the three ways
that you can make yourself more likable is
learning about communication, well, my gift to you is a
secret, exclusive body language playlist.
You wanna learn if she likes you without having to
even say a word to her or ask her?
Well, her body language will tell you, and much, much more.
So, if you would like to access this one-time opportunity,
you can find the link down below
or by clicking on the screen right here.
Josh, please make it happen, and allow these guys
to learn more about the power of body language.
Really, you will thank me for it.
And until next time, I wish you all a bubbly day on purpose,
and you stay bubbly, my friends. (lips smack)
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and make sure to check out the resources that she shared
with you, I'm gonna put them in the description below.
And also, tap on the playlist right there on your screen
to learn how to be a more likable person.
Thank you again, Layan, for all your help
and all your advice.
I'll catch you guys next time.
As always, love and peace.