Women... they will fall in love with you.
They will be so attracted to you when you reveal that you don't give a shit.
It is one of the most attractive traits ever.
You want to know why the asshole, the bad boy gets the girl over you, the nice guy, the
good guy?
It's because they're showing that they don't give a shit.
We're gonna dissect this for a second.
First I'm gonna tell a little story.
I have a friend.
And he might be watching this right now.
We talk all the time.
He's a friend, he's a mentor.
And we always talk about this idea of attraction and vulnerability and caring too much versus
caring too little.
And if you show too much that you care, then it's gonna be unattractive.
That's what I say.
And he says no, you got to be vulnerable.
You got to tell the girl how you feel.
And I say no, here's the deal.
When it comes to liking a girl or getting into a relationship with a girl and they do
something where they disrespect you or there's something that they do that is disrespectful
to the relationship or showing you that you're someone who can be stepped on, that's a different
story.
That's when you do want to show that you care because you're sticking up for yourself.
When you don't show you care in that situation, they do something that's rude or they put
you down in front of their friends or they're late all the time.
They do something that disrespects you or your time.
That's different.
Speak up, say your words and say them confidently.
Don't sit there being like I don't know.
You're like always late and you said that one thing and it kind of hurt my feelings.
No, you say to her in a normal way, in a confident way, hey you know that thing you did?
That was not cool.
I don't like that.
I don't like when people are like that or they do this.
They do that.
Whatever it may be.
But then there's everything else.
Where guys show they care way too much.
When it shows that they're jealous, when it shows that they're really needy.
When a girl does anything and the guy gets upset with it mainly because he has low self-esteem
and is extremely needy for the woman.
If a girl doesn't text you back right away... big deal.
Don't send a second text.
If a girl reschedules plans with you, but it's within enough notice.
It's not like she flakes on you but a couple days before she's like oh, I can't do it but
let's do it another time and you guys schedule another date.
Whatever, fine.
No big deal.
If a girl wants to go have a little girls' night with her friends, okay.
Let her go do that.
No big deal.
Don't start acting jealous.
Don't start acting needy.
Don't be texting her every 10 minutes to see how she's doing or where she is.
Okay, so you don't hear from a girl all day.
No big deal.
You're busy, you got a life too.
Don't be needy.
Don't be sitting there caring too much.
Showing that you care too much, overly caring is showing that you're needy.
This is a big sign that you don't have things going on in your life.
It shows that you're not busy.
You're not on your path and your purpose.
You're not doing the things that you need to be doing to have an awesome life and you
care way too much about her.
This is the dangerous territory.
Again, there's a fine line and I drew that just a few minutes ago when I talked about
the fact that there's a fine line between is she disrespecting you or is it no big deal?
Another example might be she flakes on you five minutes before.
That's not cool.
If a girl flakes on you, by the way, and it's the first date or the second date and she
flakes on you, that's not cool.
I probably wouldn't ever talk to that girl.
There's way too many more women out there that I'd want to be with that have a higher
level of interest that are not going to flake five minutes before.
But again, if she was reschedules like two days before the date, different story.
That's very respectful.
She's letting you know.
That's totally fine.
You really got to figure out where is she disrespecting you?
Where is she not disrespecting you?
What's the fine line between those two?
And then realizing that when she's not disrespecting you, don't care.
Don't show that care.
And then she's gonna see wow, this guy is emotionally strong.
It's a funny way of putting it.
She's not going to say that.
She's not going to go in her head and tell her friends wow Tripp, he's really emotionally
strong.
This is all happening on a subconscious level.
This is all happening on a biological level.
She's just gonna notice.
She's gonna notice that you're not needy.
And that is sexy and that's more attractive because she's gonna be wondering why isn't
he needy?
What's going on in his life?
What's happening with him?
And then that is going to get her to chase you more.
And yes, eventually fall in love with you because you have your own shit going on and
you're not always worried about her.