Love actually never fails. Somewhere along
we have misunderstood that it was love. But in true love, there is no failure.
It is all about how to deal with abuses. Well, it is tough
It is difficult to forget. You can easily forgive individuals
but difficult to forget all those things that have really trapped you made you
lose your real freedom, made you feel awkward made you feel ashamed at times
So we will have to develop a bigger heart, I think,
and let go of all that. How long would you want to carry this toxin in your heart?
If you have an opportunity to not meet this individual ever again in your life, be happy
But that is also not going to solve the problem,
because the scar is in your heart. No matter where you go, it will be there
Do you want to walk around forever,
showing everybody how you have been treated? That is ugly
Pray to God. Seek His help and say, “Look, this was beyond my control. I cannot forget it.
But, at least God, help me forgive the individual so that I can heal myself and can move on further.”
Heartfulness Cleaning will certainly help. Try it
Call a preceptor, call one of the trainers, via this HeartsApp and take one or two sessions
and in a short period, you will see that this trauma
is no longer there with you. It will be gone by then, you see. Please try it.
Failure in love
and punishing oneself that, “Oh, I shall never love anyone ever again,”
whom are you punishing? Somebody betrayed you.
But why do you want to punish yourself? It was somebody
who did not behave properly and
you the scapegoat and said, “I am not going to marry you, or our relationship ends.”
But should that stop you, when someone
really, really loving approaches you and you also seem to be loving that person?
But if you remind yourself that, “Oh, I was betrayed once and I should not fall in love again,”
then the love that flows in your heart will remain clogged forever. It is like a flowing river
that is no longer flowing. What will happen to that? The water will start stinking.
The flow of love will also stop from your heart and you will somehow punish yourself forever.
So
Love actually never fails. Somewhere along
we have misunderstood that it was love. But in true love, there is no failure.
Unfortunately, whenever we have this so-called feeling that, “Oh, I love so and so, or so and so loves me so much,”
it blinds us. It blinds us so much that we do not see the very apparent thing, which other people are seeing,
“This boy or this girl is always like this, taking advantage.”
Yet, in that state of so-called love,
one becomes blind That is why it is called blind love; love is blind
All your wisdom disappears. So before falling in love with someone, I think if you are still
alert and awake at that time, analyse
Under most circumstances, I tell you,
be very friendly with your parents especially, and share everything that you have to
Take their guidance
Do not think them to be too orthodox and that they do not know it.
They have led a life.
They have also gone through all this. They can tell you all kinds of things from their experience
They also found failures. They have also found success. They are experienced advisors
They are experienced advisors. Follow their guidance
and ultimately, meditate and follow your heart and see
listen to your voice, the voice of your heart.
Let the heart guide you. After debating with your parents, debating with your friends, debating within yourself,
finally conclude. All the best.