How’s it going, everyone?
It’s Brad Browning here with another breakup video.
I’m a relationship coach with over a decade’s worth of experience…
and I’ve also written two best-selling e-books on the subjects of breakups and marriage.
And today, I’m going to talk about what to do if your ex wants to have sex with you.
Now, I’m going to be talking to you as if you want your ex back… and that you’re
not sure if you should sleep with your ex if you still want a relationship with him
or her.
Right off the bat, I have to say that if you your ex does want to sleep with you, it’s
a great sign.
A huge part of getting your ex to pursue a relationship with you is attraction – regardless
of whether it’s emotional or physical attraction.
If your ex is implying that he or she wants to sleep with you, then you can confidently
be sure that your ex still has some level of physical or emotional attraction for you,
and you can use this as an advantage if you want to get into a relationship with him or
her again.
Another thing that I have to note right off the bat is that the strategies for men and
women are different.
As you already know, men and women do think of sex differently.
Men are biologically prone to sleeping around with as many women as they can, whereas women
are generally more selective of their sexual partners.
Of course, this is a generalization, but it’s important to note this distinction.
So for this video, I’ll be splitting it up into two parts.
The first part of this video is going to talk about what to do if you’re a woman trying
to get an ex boyfriend back.
And obviously, the latter half of this video will address the men that are watching.
So men, if you want to skip ahead to part 2, then just click on the annotation right
now.
So if you’re a woman and you want to get your ex back, but you’re not sure whether
to sleep with your ex or not, then I have 5 very important pieces of advice that you
should follow.
1.)
Do not have a fling with your ex.
As tempting as it is, simply sleeping with your ex without establishing a strong relationship
will decrease your value in his eyes.
You simply can’t be available to him whenever he wants.
So let him know that you have absolutely no interest in becoming “friends with benefits”
with him.
If you want your ex back and you want to pursue another relationship, then you must make your
ex “work for it” and become invested in you.
Simply giving your body up whenever he wants won’t accomplish this goal.
I’ll give you more on how to get him invested later…
2.)
Reject him for now, but continue flirting.
Just because you shouldn’t sleep with him right now doesn’t mean that you have to
turn into a prude.
If you’re in constant contact with your ex, then flirt.
Don’t be afraid to give him those bedroom eyes and definitely don’t be afraid of looking
your best.
Creating ridiculous amounts of sexual chemistry between you two will not only make him more
attracted to you, but you’ll have a better chance of reeling him back into a long term,
monogamous relationship when the time is right.
3.)
If he gets angry or upset, don’t make it a big deal.
If your ex boyfriend begins expressing frustration over you holding out, don’t turn things
sour.
Just ignore it and change the subject but remain positive.
The last thing you need is to start another fight.
4.)
Show him that other men are dying to have you.
You need to subtly show him that other men are dying to sleep with you.
Human beings, by the nature, are possessive creatures.
We generally don’t like to share.
So if you show him that other men are chasing after you, he’ll become jealous… and he’ll
be more inclined to re-enter a monogamous relationship with you.
At that point, all you have to do is just press what I call his “Emotional Hot Buttons”
to make him want a relationship with you again… for more information on what these “Emotional
Hot Buttons” are, then I encourage you to visit my website, BreakupBrad.com, and watch
the free video presentation on my website.
Again, that URL is BreakupBrad.com. 5.)
Get him to invest in you before sleeping with him.
Again, you need to make him work for you.
Get him to invest time and effort into you.
Show him that you’re of extremely high value and that your time, love, and intimacy don’t
come cheap.
Now is the time to regain the control that you may have lost during your breakup.
By showing him that you aren’t “just a piece of meat”, you’re sending a strong
message that you’re girlfriend material and not just another girl he can sleep with
whenever he wants.
So let him do things for you, let him buy you gifts, and let him say the things he needs
to say to earn your love back!
Of course, this isn’t an exhaustive list of tips and advice for a situation like this,
but it’s a good start.
So for those women who need more of my advice, you can look into my personal coaching program.
For more information on how to hire me as your personal relationship coach, just simply
go to www.BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
Again, that’s BreakupBrad.com/coaching.
Now for part 2 which is for the men out there.
Don’t worry, I haven’t forgotten about you guys.
Fortunately for men, the strategy is much, much easier.
There are only two tips that you have to know…
1.)
Sleep with your ex girlfriend.
Easy, right?
Again, women think of sex much differently than men do, and women react differently to
sex than men do.
You know the old stereotype of how women always want to cuddle after sex and men don’t?
Well, it turns out that there’s scientific reasons why each gender reacts differently
to sex.
See, women tend to feel more vulnerable after sex.
They crave attention, intimacy, cuddling, and “pillow talk” after sex to validate
that their sexual partner actually values them (and isn’t just using them for sex).
By having sex with your ex girlfriend and showing her how connected you two can be after
sex, you’re giving her something so incredibly valuable, and you’ll cause her to release
all the “feel good” hormones that are associated with monogamy and relationships
as well.
2.)
Show her that other women are throwing themselves at you.
Just like how I explained in the first part of the video, human beings are generally selfish
animals.
We don’t like to share.
By showing your ex girlfriend that you have women wanting to sleep with you left and right,
you’re sub-communicating to her that you’re a high value male.
If she’s sleeping with you, she’s going to want to keep you all to herself and she’ll
get extremely jealous at the thought of you with another woman.
This is just one of the many “Emotional Hot Buttons” that you can press to make
sure your ex girlfriend comes running back to you.
If you want to learn more about these “Emotional Hot Buttons”, then simply head over to my
website, BreakupBrad.com.
Again, that URL is BreakupBrad.com.
Again, I know this advice doesn’t cover every single possible situation out there,
but it’s a great start.
If you guys have any questions for me, feel free to leave them in the comments section
below and I’ll be sure to get back to as many people as I can.
Thanks and see you soon!