Hey welcome back. I get people all the time that are trying to reach out to me.
They're there frankly... you're tracking me down on Instagram or Facebook or direct
messaging me, emailing me and trying to find a way to get in contact because
you're hoping that some closer proximity to me will provide the mentorship that
can help you change your life. And you know what? I answer every single person
that reaches out to me through email for a reason. One of the reasons why is
because I love the tenacity. In fact I want to honor, I want to reward the
tenacity for someone that will go outside of their comfort zone and say,
"Kris, let me introduce myself to you and I want to work with you." But for today's
video, I want to share with you something a little different. I want to share with
you the people that I do not want to work with and there's a couple of
reasons why. So in my world who do I say no to.
Friends, say no is one of the hardest things for me because I've gotten where
I am because I learned how to say yes when it was too easy to want to say no.
And the reality is there are people that I want to say no to and there's people
that I love to say yes to. So what I want to do today is I want to share with you
the kind of people that will reach out to me or ask to work with me where it's
always going to be a heck no. There's no way on planet earth we are ever going to do
something together. And there are 4 dominant personality characteristics
that for me if you've got any of these and if you got all four of them, there's
no way we're really going to do anything together and also are not going to make
any time for you. I want you to understand this because it's not just me
talking about me today. I want to ask you what your standards are. Because your
standards will determine where you actually arrive in life. Now check it out.
Okay, check it out. These are the 4 characteristics.
These are my standards that I'm sharing with you. You can try them on
for you. Standard number 1 - crotchety. I do not do crotchety. Curmudgeons. Old,
nasty, barnacly, crotchety. Crotchety this like individuals that everything
that kind of comes out of their mouth, it's like urine water. It's
just no good. Number 2 - negative. I will not take time to work with negative
people. The world is filled with negative people. Why would I let more of them into
my life? I only interact with those that I need to and by the way I like working
with negative people if I can help them. In fact I always tell negative people
come to my event. 3 days is going to change life you're never going to be the
same again. But who do I really want on my team like? If I were partnered with
you, if I was mentoring you. What I would want to work with a negative person? No.
And I want to share with you why? Negative people, their mind is programmed
to say no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, so when the right opportunity runs along, it
doesn't matter what it is, no. And it's already dead before it could actually
you know you could breathe any kind of life into it. So negativity for me that's
a no. That's why I put on entire events teaching you how to have the ultimate
mindset of the millionaire, the billionaire and the successful. Number
3 - mistrusting. Now, I think every human being to some extent knows what
it's like to trust somebody and then have that person betray their trust.
But what they walk away from is this notion that they can't trust people
anymore. The reality is the person that you really don't trust is who? It's
yourself. You're the one that went into business with that person, you're married
that person, you relationship with that person, you chose to spend time with that
person. Any time on this planet you're ever mad at another human being, the
person you need to get mad at is you. You probably chose to be in their airspace.
Now, that doesn't mean that a stranger can't come in your life and wreak havoc
and hell on you, that can happen too. But look for taking accountability wherever
you can because usually, we're off the mark and we're not taking enough
accountability. Mistrusting at some point you have to learn how to trust again but
not trust others. You really need to learn who to trust. You need to learn how
to trust yourself again, you need to restore that trust. When you don't trust
yourself, you doubt yourself. When you doubt yourself, you can't stick with anything
too long. When you can't stick with anything too long, it's a guarantee that
you'll never be successful. You can't afford to be a skeptical, mistrusting
person that says, "I can't, I can't, I can't trust you, I can't trust you." The reality
is you can trust people to be who they are and they're going to make mistakes and
they're not always going to meet your expectations. And so you need to be
careful where you bestow expectation and then also where it's not that important.
It might actually come down more to you know preference as opposed to necessity.
This last one - disbelieving. I do not make time for the disbeliever and the reason
why is because for anything new to be created that hasn't been before, it's
something that you've got to believe in before it's actually ever going to turn
into reality. Listen very, very carefully. I'm speaking to you. I want you
understand this. Is that everything that doesn't exist, the only way it will ever
come into existence is if you're willing to believe in it first. So everything new
that ever came about. Every invention, every new word, every new building,
everything was dreamed first by an individual. And for you you're trying to
figure out how to accomplish your goals and dreams. Maybe it's you who need to be a
client of mine and I can impart my wisdom and my resources and help you
succeed or maybe it's someone else's product. But whoever it is, you need to
bring other people and resources in your life to help you and I'm just telling
you right now these 4 are absolute no. And if you put all four of them together,
I'm running for the hills. I'm not even going to give you the time of day and it's
not because I'm not nice or it's because I mean. It's because I value my life
force and my life energy and these people are vampires. They will sink their teeth
into your neck and they will suck your life out. So I don't do barnacles,
aka crotchety. I don't do negative because these people say no to the right
opportunities. I don't do mistrusting because these
individuals don't trust themselves hence doubt who they are and I don't do
disbelieving because we can't go anywhere if you can't believe in the
thing that you want to create. Those are the 4 absolute no ways. Now, as a bonus,
just real quick. If you're self-motivated, if you're a self-starter, if you're
committed, if you're persistent, if you're a no matter what kind of individual when
you have that kind of energy and you're willing to act, you are a yes all day
long. In fact, the people that I say yes to those are the people I say. So the
people that will go out of their way to message me or find me,
you know I actually respect that they'll the hop on a plane, getting a car, come
out to my event and they'll tell me their story. I had this one guy come to
my last event he quit his job drove across the country and came to the event
says I got no job, this is my last stop and he said, "what do I do?" And I said,
"you're in the right place." The next 3 days we're going to take care of you and I
promise you you will have a life-changing experience and this young
man did. So I just want to share with you that I admire that so much and those are
the people I want to give my life force to and I want to give my opportunities
to. You got to have standards. So I'm asking you, I'm telling you these are
mine and I'm asking you what are your standards? Do you know when to say no? Do
you know when to say yes? Now you better understand what it looks like for my
side. I hope it'll help you figure out yours. Hey, thank you so much for taking
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