Jazze you are inappropriate in such in such a way your guidance is telling you this thought
is not good for you and you say well whether the thoughts good for me or not should I marry this
person and we say we want you to ask different questions rather than what should I do we want
you to follow the thought of your source and the thought of that source within you is looking for
things to appreciate we know that guidance always sounds like should I go this way or should I go
this way when you understand that the guidance is about the direction of your thought and you
deliberately choose the better feeling thought the better feeling thought the better feeling
thought that what begins to happen is that you get going with the flow so well that questions about
what to do answer themselves easily because it is so very obvious what to do and there was when you
get out of the Maelstrom and you begin going with the flow the flow carries you in such a way that
you would say to us something more like Abraham I really don't give a rip what you think this is
what I'm gonna do the confusion goes away when the resistance goes away and so did you get that it's
really an important thing when you say we'll never mind what I'm gonna do how am I gonna think about
this and you choose a better feeling thought and you do it consistently about any subject
especially this subject as you do that more and more consistently what happens is the stream is
flowing so smoothly and you are so well placed within it that all of the chaos and confusion
from your life lifts from you and you have clarity about what to do give us an example of some of
the thoughts that go through your mind relative to this relationship okay I would like to buy a house
and financially he's not in that position so I don't feel he's my financial equal so I get caught
up in thinking but maybe that I'm settling I'm not proud of these thoughts but this is what I think I
should have a partner that I can have a dream with which would be to buy a home which I really would
like all right so let's dissect this a little bit so you're saying through my life experience
I've lived in a lot of places and having done so I've given birth through a series of rockets and
desires to a dream life and a dream house and as I hold that vision and I look at you you don't match
and so you may not be the one and I'm not proud of this you say and we want to say to you that
anytime you say things like I'm not proud of me I know I shouldn't be thinking these thoughts you're
also not a match to the way source feels about you who always loves you no matter what thoughts might
be crossing your mind in other words there are all kinds of levels of discord in a situation like
this so let's start it out so potential husband of mine I see you as financially irresponsible and I
see myself as financially responsible so you need to change so that I can see you the way I need to
see you so that I can feel better and we say oh this is just the beginning of your trouble because
when you see anything that needs to be different so that you can feel different and then you
compound that still further by saying not only do I see you as you are I didn't make it up I see you
as you are and you're not financially a match to what I want but you may very well keep me from my
dream so you really need to be different because I'm not about to let you as much as I love you on
some fronts I'm not about to let you keep me from my dream and we say never mind him you're keeping
yourself from your dream because you've got a dream and you are contradicting it so you say well
but wait I'm not contradicting it I'm pointing out that he's contradicting it we say but you're
the one doing it but wait if he were different I wouldn't do it and we say you don't have to do it
whether he's different or not and their words just don't contradict your own dream so Abraham are you
saying that I've got this dream house over here in vibrational escrow and if I don't if I just don't
look at him and say you're keeping me from it that I'll turn and go in the direction of it no matter
how he is financially we say yes your dream is not contingent upon him your dream is contingent upon
your alignment with your dream and when you use his current financial status as a reason to give
yourself worry and contradict your own dream about your own house well you're contradicting your own
dream you're not keeping up with the house that you have created but it's not his fault it's yours
yeah I hear you now here's the most important question relative to this specific issue that
we want to put to you just relax it will be clarifying do you believe that with or without
this person you have the ability to reach your dreams and goals now the reason we asked this is
because if you believe that with or without anyone that life caused you to put it there and that you
have the ability to turn and flow to it so your success is not contingent upon what anybody else
does that's a very powerful thing to know but if you believe that you don't have the ability to get
it by yourself and you're looking for somebody else to fill in those missing pieces this is
interesting isn't it and then you say oh yeah I need somebody that does this this and this and you
don't do those things so you may not be the right one are you getting what we're getting at when
you are so self empowered that you know hey I'm Source Energy in a physical body life caused me
to put all kinds of things in vibrational escrow the stream is carrying me to those things I cannot
not succeed in other words it's not possible for me to not get what I want I'm get what I
want it's setup for my success and now I know that so now you and your financial situation you're a
non-issue so what you want to say to your lover face it I'm gonna be wealthy I'm gonna live in
beautiful places this is what I've got lined up so if you're alright with that come on but that's not
what you're saying what you're saying is I have dreams that I can't achieve without your support
and your hard work and effort and since I see your hard work missing then you are probably not the
one and we say under those conditions we would agree but when that's your criteria when you're
saying to your future mates I've got dreams and I need you to do certain things in order to help
me accomplish my dreams we just want to say it bluntly and boldly those dreams have got to be
pretty minuscule poultry and puny because that's all action can yield you but if you've got big
dreams and you've got alignment then you could made up with someone who had zero ambition and
your dreams would all come true anyway because your dreams aren't contingent on what anybody
else does only what you do with your vibration how about that so you wanna want to say to everybody
who's in your life I'm a happy person deal with it I'm a successful person deal with it what I
want always comes to be I don't stand in my own way anymore and you never could so everything's
good with me and then you start making your love decisions on the things that really matter like
are you easy to love do I love you do you make my heart sting do you match the criteria that I've
launched into vibrational escrow about that are you kind are you clear minded do you have a zest
for life do you smile easily do you laugh easily do you want to love does loving come easily to you
and we got to tell you every person on the planet is that person if they're not bucking the current
and going upstream so when you stop bucking the current and begin going downstream then through
the clarity of your example you can teach anyone to go with the flow so we think that may be what
you're grappling with here more than anything is does this person feel like someone who's likely
to start going with the flow anytime soon or does this person feel like someone who's going
to be really resistant to that and we say time will tell you don't have to make this decision
today just play with it you go with the flow and you know we've noticed the more you go with the
flow the faster your stream flows the more you flow with it the more those who are going with
you have to stay up with you going with your flow so there's really not anything for you to worry
about you don't have to worry about breaking up because if you're going with the flow and
the other one isn't there's distance going between you in other words isn't that nice to know I don't
have to issue a warning you're not going with the flow I'm 27 miles downstream I don't know how much
longer we can maintain this relationship I can hardly see you anymore law of attraction takes
care of it you see but most of you don't play it that way most of you go with the flow and then
you look back and you say wait a minute you're not going with the flow and then you know what
you're not either so now because you're not going with the flow I'm not going with the flow and I'm
pretty irritated about that I've got to tell you you're keeping me from going with the flow you're
holding me back from everything that I have become and we say no he isn't just go with the flow and
when you get going with the flow we promise you you'll bump into others who are going with
the flow and you won't have this issue but what about and who knows when you get going the flow
he might - if he were sitting here he might tell us I'd go with the flow if it weren't for her I
think we'd be having the identical conversation with him that's why our work is easy and I only
have one answer and we tell it to everyone but to answer your question do I think I can make it on
my own I think I could make a mistake and mess it up honestly but we think you could make a mistake
we think you could make a million mistakes we think you already have if you're alive in other
words that's what the contrast is about but in everything that you do that makes you go
ah shouldn't have done that you launch greater clarity about what you want and the larger part
of you becomes clearer so we always say you can't get it wrong so there can't really be a
mistake you can't get it wrong and you never get it done and the reason you can't get it wrong is
because it's never done so as far as we would go along with human idea of mistake is you can hold
yourself temporarily out of the flow but in the moment you stop doing that you go with the flow
so no harm done no harm done because the flow doesn't say we've been flowing and flowing and
flowing and you haven't been going and now frankly we're tired of you so we're going to flow around
you the flow just flows and never stops flowing and never stops flowing in the direction of what
you want and you put your boat in any place but the thing that is important you put your boat
in where you are you put your boat in where you are and that's enough we want to say this in a
way that you'll really hear it it's enough that you're putting your boat in right where you are
and you know why it's enough because you don't have a choice it's got to be enough because you
can't put your boat in anywhere then other where you are can you you can't you are where you are
so right now you don't have as much money as you want and you've got dreams about a house
but you're not able to manifest them and you've got a partner who's so lovely on so many fronts
and not so good on some fronts but you are where you are you are where you are you are where you
are so you're putting your boat in you have no choice so not only is it enough it's got to be
enough because it's all you can do but you do have a choice about whether you complain or expect good
things you do have a choice about whether you worry about the future or look forward toward
the future you do have a choice about whether you beat up on yourself or praise yourself or
beat up on your partner or praise your partner there's that's the choice you've got upstream
or downstream that's the only choice you've got and when you consistently begin to make
more and more downstream choices that means life gets funner life gets fuller life gets
better you feel better oh you see these guys in these canoes with the oars and they're in those
raging rivers and they're just going with the flow it's not beating them up in other words it's like
they can't find a river that's too fast for them and you're that way too you cannot find a string
that's too fast for you when you learn to let go of resistance and just let the stream carry
you oh what a ride that is that's what you came for you came for that ride you see and so many
of you say oh I know I came for the ride but I came for the manifestation at the end of the
ride and we say first of all there's no end of the ride the ride is it there is no end of the river