If you're one of those guys and you see a cute girl at your gym, maybe your local grocery
store and you walk up to her and you just give her a short, sweet little compliment,
you don't even ask for her number and you just walk away... and you think that's gonna work?
You're absolutely right. That shit works 90% of the time. And let me tell you why.
It's because you will have been in the back of her head, maybe not consciously,
but in the back of her head the whole time. And by the next time you see her,
she's gonna be into it most likely. What's going on? Tripp Kramer here from trippadvice.com, doing
another response video to something that I found on TikTok. If you want to follow me on TikTok,
I'll put a link down below and you can check out all the things I'm doing there. But right now,
let's talk about that video. It pains me to see that women are giving advice like this.
This is why I think that it is hard for a woman to give advice to men. That's because she's
giving advice from a few of her experiences, but I don't think she understands as a whole
how attraction works. In fact, I don't think even guys know how attraction works. That's
why this whole channel exists, by the way. We think we do from our personal experiences,
but really not. I'm sure that one time, maybe even a few times, a guy came up to her,
gave her a compliment, she was super physically attracted to that guy, or maybe even
attracted to a little bit of his confidence... and she was attracted to the guy enough where,
she ended up maybe seeing him again and I guess she ended up giving him her number. Or maybe this
never even happened. She doesn't even tell a story of a time it happened to her. Maybe
she just wishes this would happen, but in reality, if it did happen, it wouldn't work. My point here
is I want to make this video to tell you that this does not work. And this is the absolute worst way
that you could ever try to approach a woman. What we're saying here is you're going to go
over to her, you're going to validate her, which by the way, if she doesn't find you physically
attractive at first, it's going to come off as creepy, and then hope that maybe you'll end up
seeing her again. I guess she said at the gym. But she also said at a grocery store. So you're
just like hoping okay, I'm going to give this woman a compliment and then maybe I'll see her
the next time I'm at the grocery store? I guess you're relying on a huge chance to see her again.
That's the biggest reason why this is bad advice. Also, you're sitting here thinking that if you
just go over, say one line, she's going to be attracted to you. No, women are attracted to
men based off of their behavior as well as their looks. I'll say this again... their behavior as
well as their looks. I'm not saying that this couldn't work. It's a small chance if you're a
very good looking guy, you go over and give her a compliment and she finds you physically attractive
and then maybe you see her again, maybe this would work. Again, still a very small chance. I still
think it could come off of creepy. The idea here is, you never want to be doing this because you're
putting on a pedestal but also she has no way of seeing your behavior. So if you're a guy who's not
a typical very attractive guy, then she has no way of seeing your behavior. You look like a simp
and then it doesn't work. Let's just assume that maybe you do see her again. Maybe you see her at
the gym again. She's gonna think, this guy was creepy and gave me this compliment, here is again,
this is awkward. Instead, the solution is you need to be going over to women and starting
conversations with them. They have to be able to experience your personality and your behavior.
By the way, I talk all about this in my program called Hooked. You can check it out down below
on teaching you how to use your personality and use your behavior to become a more attractive
guy with my TED formula. The point here is that if she's not experiencing your personality and your
behavior through a conversation that lasts longer than five seconds, then nothing's going to happen.
Most likely .00001% chance anything is going to happen with you and that woman.
It's funny too... I remember I did this a long time ago and it obviously didn't work. I did it in
a way worse way. This is before I knew anything about meeting women, anything about attraction.
I was at a restaurant and there was a hostess that I thought was attractive. And I went up to
her and I said "hey something." I don't remember the exact words but some sort of compliment like
"hey, I think you're cute." And I gave her my business card. I was like here, here's my number.
And of course I never heard from her again because well maybe I wasn't physically attractive to her.
Also, I put her in the lead. This is a different story than what the girl in the Tiktok was saying.
But I put her in the lead like "you call me" so now I'm putting her in the masculine role.
And my main point here is she doesn't know anything about me. She's not a man. As a man,
if a very pretty girl came up to you and said "hey, I gotta go right now but here's my card,
call me some time" you'd probably do it. You don't need to see much of her behavior because you're
first attracted to her looks and the physical part. For a woman, it's going to be more of the
behavior. She needs more time. So back to the story, never heard from her. And later on,
I learned why. And this is the reason why – because it's all about the way that you act. It's
all about the way that she experiences you because she needs to see that you're a confident man,
a man that can be a guy who can protect her, take care of her, all those things. It's all about
your behavior. Are you charismatic? Are you a guy who's able to talk to her in a way that's smooth?
Another quick story – I'm sure you guys have seen this movie. It's one of the most popular movies of
all time, Titanic. You got to check out the scene where Jack Dawson, Leonardo DiCaprio's character,
he goes to dinner, he's invited to dinner because he saved the life of Rose. That's
the female lead in the movie. And what happens is, he saves her life, he gets invited to dinner,
and he is the most charismatic guy at that table. Leading the conversation, cracking a few jokes,
acting super confident. If you want to learn what charisma is,
and I know this is a movie and I know it's it's fake, and it's a guy who wrote a script.
Still, this is a great example of what it looks like to be charismatic and completely
run the room. Anyways, check that out. I think it's on Netflix right now. If you're watching
this in real time. The point is, you want to build attraction, do it with your behavior. Not
just going up to her and throwing a compliment her way. That's old school tactics. That stuff doesn't
work. Do not listen to this advice. Hope that helps. If it does, like the video. Leave a comment
down below and check out the Hooked program, which teaches you everything that you need to know
about how to build attraction and how to do it from steps A to Z. Talk to you on the next video.