You yourself was a graduate of…
you were doing some other kind of work.
Yes. I have...
aerospace engineering, which we call rocket science.
You know that saying that...
even a rocket scientist…
Are you a rocket scientist?
Yes.
I am an aerospace engineer
by training and I did subcontract work for NASA, air force
the various defense contractors.
I’ve done air force and NASA, spacecraft.
worked in mission control centers.
Really?
I came from a totally different field.
Is there more of a financial independence doing this or the other one?
Well there’s much more independence here.
I think one of the things we want to realize, what I realize, what everybody...
wants to realize
is it’s great to get a college degree
build a nest egg
but true wealth is built through owning your own business
working for yourself.
Exactly.
That I believe.
No employees can become wealthy.
Yeah, you’re making someone else money and
if you’re here on America, you want to own your own business.
You want to earn real estate.
And that’s how you become rich, powerful and influential.
It’s great that with our parents
emphasized that we want to get a degree and get a job because they want us to be safe.
They want us to be properly prepared.
No risk, no glory.
I really like your mental attitude, not only...
your physical look
Mr. Asian Playboy
Mr. Jerry Tran
Okay Jerry, one last word for our viewer.
What advice can you give them
when they go out there
not even enrolling in your school...
of development, right?
personal development.
The ABCs of Attraction.
ABCs of Attraction.
Word of advice is...
with every girl out there
when she goes to a bar or a club
she’s willing to talk to guys. That’s why she’s there.
You just need to make yourself presentable
and when you go up and talk to a girl, make strong solid eye contact
smile and shake hands.
One of the social obligations in our culture, in any culture is...
when you say “hi! My name is JT”
you shake, they have to shake back.
When you’re at a bar or at a club setting and you have a drink
and this girl she has a drink, you can simply go “cheers”
and she is socially obligated to return “cheers”
and then you start talking like “hi! My name is JT”
and you want to know a little bit about here.
One of the rules of thumb is in the beginning
I know if you’re shy or you’re the strong silent type
one rule in the beginning is you want to be able
to direct the conversation for about 80%.
You’re talking about 80% and she’s talking about 20%
but you don’t want to be someone that talks too much but you want to direct it
until she starts to invest into you.
She starts to go “okay, this guy's is interesting”
and she’ll start asking you questions and you can ask questions back.
So it goes from 80-20
to about 60-40
then 50-50
and then a really good sign is when you can just lay back
and just let her talk and talk and talk
and that’s a good sign that she likes you
is when she’s showing to you that she’s talking her ear out.
At that point, you don’t have to do any work.
Wasn’t it because she was drunk?
No, no. One of the rules…
one of our rules is we do not buy girls a drink.
We don’t play that card
because the truth is alcohol does not make you more attractive as a person.
It doesn’t.
You just want to be social.
Is the ultimate goal to take her to bed?
It all depends with each individual guy.
I have to admit when I was younger, yes I wanted to play that role.
Nowadays, now I’m looking for something. I’m looking to get settled
but I do look for a little bit more than just
wham bam thank you ma’am
and my students, when they come to me, to be honest
a lot of them come to me because they just want...
options and choice in their dating lifestyle.
For example, one of my more successful students
he was 22 years old.
He was a Korean FOB, fresh off the boat
and he was a virgin at the age of 22
and after taking my program
he actually met and started dating a beautiful black woman
and they became engaged.
I've had students who have gotten married
and that’s what they want and some guys they don’t.
I do not judge. I do not put my life out as standard.
I only want to give them options.
I only give them the tools to be successful.
Do you find more girls going after you for doing what you’re doing?
Sort of, yeah. A lot of women are intrigued by this
because they want cool confident man to come up to them.
Yes you’re cool.
Yeah, they don’t want the creepy shy guy.
They wanted someone that’s confident
someone that’s suave, someone that can hold an interesting conversation.
When I tell girls about this, they’re very intrigued.
I’ve had female assistants in my programs
the 3-day and 3-night program.
I have female assistants come into our classroom portion
as well as go out with us in the field, the bars and clubs
and they find it fascinating.
They think it really helps not only guys to be confident but also shatter stereotypes about Asian men.
So don’t you find it to be a problem?
What is?
Girls running after you.
Not yet, not yet.
Well we’re running out of time.
This is really very, very interesting.
You’re a very interesting personality to talk with
and our topic is also very, very interesting
and I guess many singles...
out there, particularly the men
would really learn a lot from you.
Yes. It’s about confidence. Yes it’s about...
it's about dating women but also about...
confidence with everyone, everyone you associate with
whether it’s your family
or whether it’s your workplace
being confident translates into success in all areas of your life.
Jerry, tell our viewers where to find you.
You can find us at our website www.abcsofattraction.com.
With the ABCs of Attraction, my name is JT Asian Playboy
and you can also give us a call at our toll-free number
1-888-689-GAME
that’s 1-888-689-4263.
Again, JT Asian Playboy with the ABCs of Attraction.
Okay
JT, ABCs of Attraction.
Game.
Are you game?
Well anyway...
thank you for gracing our show today, JT.
Maraming, maraming salamat po sa inyong panunuod ngayon
at I hope you learn something from JT
that self confidence that many of you don’t have
in meeting the girls, right?
Yes
Thank you for gracing our show.
Enjoy.