This video is about= "This is Better than The Red Pill!"
I will teach you, and educate you things (I believe) to be FAR better than the Red Pill
philosophy to self-improvement and so on. To find out more please stay tuned to this video...
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This is NOT a hate piece. I'm NOT singling out any content creators who discuss The Red Pill etc...
This is just my opinion I want to share. The following are definitions from Wikipedia =
"The term 'Red Pill' and the term 'Blue Pill' refer to a choice between the willingness to learn
a potentially unsettling or life-changing truth by taking the Red Pill or remaining in
contented ignorance with the Blue Pill. This term comes from a scene in the 1999 film 'The Matrix.'"
For the sake of this video, I'll be mainly talking about the "manosphere" when referring
to the Red Pill. The "manosphere" is a collection of websites, YouTube channels, blogs
that promote masculinity, and have a strong opposition to Feminist ideals. Accepting
the manosphere's ideology is equated to taking the Red Pill, and those who don't are seen as Blue Pill.
Now here in my opinion is what's good about the Red Pill = whilst often seen as quite extreme
misogynist etc, if there is ONE fundamentally good and effective thing about the ideology
is it encourages "self-respect and improvement" for men. Maybe for those who lacked good father
figures, who had socially awkward upbringings, who had no idea how women act and think,
who have no confidence, or feel completely lost in their lives and have no purpose....
Certain aspects of the ideology encourage men to take Personal Responsibility, something that
I repeat constantly in my videos, but after diving deeper into this and although extreme
and controversial, I believe there are certain things even BETTER than taking a metaphorical
pill, and that is going deeper on ourselves rather than pointing the blame on others and constantly
binging on this content to make you feel better about your life circumstances. Now again
I'm NOT hating on people who are Red Pill, but I believe at the core of every man here is one that
is in pain and looking for answers, and hence why I wanted to offer my two cents on the ideology. Let's continue...
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ONE potential problem of consuming TOO MUCH Red Pill content is that you can find yourself dealing
in All or Nothing Thinking. You start pointing the finger at those around you = "he's red pill, he's blue
pill, he's a beta male, he's an alpha male, she is this, she is that, this is this, that is that," and yes
while signs and evidence may very well conclude another guy to be more "alpha" or "beta" than others
life on the surface and beyond really doesn't work that way. Instead the focus should be
MORE ON OURSELVES first rather than the entire world around us, because there are so many ways
and signs to pick holes in other people and other things. Thus making it easier to point the finger
then have the finger pointed on us! Do not forget if you're consuming content online
especially YouTube (just like myself) creators are trying to make money = through Ad Revenue,
Courses and Affiliates. We will (well I try not to) say MORE controversial things, and more of what
you want to hear to keep you hooked, like a drug. And then there is clickbait and so on,
and as a former addict myself, I can see how some young men can become obsessed with Red
Pill content to the point that that is ALL they watch, because in a weird way it reinforces their
circumstances, negative thinking, it comforts them in the face of adversity, it gives them answers
when they feel hard done by and so on. Remember you are what you attract, if you genuinely believe you
are a "beta or alpha male" you'll get what you attract. But even if you go Full Blown Alpha
it comes with a lot of pain and suffering too. You could find yourself isolated from a lot of people.
You may be without realizing it treating people badly, and going from the nice guy you were
before (which don't be too much of a nice guy) to a complete jerk on the other spectrum! So try and
check yourself = see the patterns, behaviors, question your thinking, always but try and be self-aware...
e.g. = "Okay how can I interpret this in a more healthier, psychological, and mature manner?"
Now typically a lot of men that turn to the Red Pill are broken, upset and fed up with their lives...
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Let me ask you some questions =
What brought you to the Red Pill in the first place?
Did a friend recommend it to you? Or was it on your feed? Were you sick and tired of getting
rejected by women for being TOO nice? Did you just go through a really ugly divorce or break up?
Were you betrayed hurt? Had your heart broken or did you just want answers? Mental Health is
vitally important ESPECIALLY in a day and age of lockdowns, pandemics and toxic behaviors on
the rise, not to mention a heavy amount of social media consumption, which has already proven to be
MORE detrimental to our mental health than positive! I know I'm sponsored by BetterHelp
Feel free to use another service but maybe it wouldn't hurt talking to a professional?
Taking the Red Pill may answer a lot of questions regarding your confidence,
female, nature, game but it might ignore your trauma, pain, suffering, childhood, lack of role models and
PTSD. Just simply joining this community online is NOT enough and far TOO generic and simple,
especially when it comes to human psychology... Let's use an example that you DO take the red
pill and you call yourself an "alpha" now, and you have six pack abs, you earn six figures a year,
and so on, you are now the "Chad or Tyrone" of the dating pool, you're no longer the chumpy little
beta male you once used to be. You're getting hot girls, you feel amazing, you're flexing, showing off,
life has never been so good.... but DEEP DOWN that inner critic, that inner voice is
SCREAMING inside you telling you that "you're still not worthy, good enough, that she's gonna
leave you!" Then you become overprotective, have unrealistic standards, controlling and suddenly
you're toxic! You're the one causing the problems, the drama, the issues, nothing's ever gonna be good
enough! You're going to live a far more superficial life than one of meaning, passion and peace. There
are PLENTY of people who don't even know what the red pill is, and they're not natural alphas
or betas, and they're living happy, healthy, genuine lives! So you're back to where you started. Even
though you've done all of this self-improvement, because you NEVER resolved those deep rooted issues...
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One thing the red pill encourages its viewers and readers to do = is to avoid women who display red
flags e.g. like those who party, a lot are too entitled and spoilt, extremely selfish, who give you no
respect, who cheat on you, blow your money, who don't compliment your life, basically avoid toxic women!
And I champion such a point, as basically those are the narcissists, sociopaths, and toxic, negative
women of the world! But by simply looking at the red flags and NOT understanding though
how narcissists work, that is not enough! You may notice a woman is extremely rude and entitled
but she's "still hot" and you're an "alpha male" who has taken the red pill, and you say to yourself =
"you know what? I'm gonna play her, keep her around and keep it casual." But then however, years go by...
and now you're married with kids with the EXACT same girl YOU SAID you were only going to keep it
casual with! And you go "how did this happen?!" Well, maybe she gaslighted you, maybe you left and she
hoovered you back in, maybe you didn't learn about the power of walking away,
maybe you just got excited showing off to other men your brand new "hot girl" ?
LEARN about narcissism. Learning about narcissists and toxic behaviors is FAR superior to taking any
metaphorical pill or joining the manosphere. Now don't get me wrong, they will say "comply or goodbye"
in the red pill, but it's also better to LEARN it in more detail, because narcissists are on the rise!
Nine times out of ten, these DIVORCE HORROR STORIES getting cheated on etc, have come from
women who are toxic and narcissistic to begin with, who were NOT good, genuine, healthy women! Learning
about narcissism saved my life! Honestly I could have married one and destroyed everything! But
luckily by educating myself and speaking to the RIGHT people about it, I can now see and spot SUCH
toxic behaviors and underlying ones, as well subtle ones everywhere I go, and the minute I see it...
I try to AVOID it in ALL individuals MEN and WOMEN! And you should certainly consider doing the same...
In packs of Wolves there's typically an Alpha wolf, and the others follow its lead...
and that has and all always been the case! The responsibility always falls on the
shoulders of the alpha wolf, aka "the head of the pack" and that means = whether they go hungry
get attacked by others, and so on. But the alpha wolf is NOT only a leader who's strong, tough
and resilient! The alpha wolf protects the young and the other females of the pack! He will even
sacrifice himself if need be, for the good of the pack and for the future of the pack, like a hero!
Does that sound like the alpha the red pill is encouraging men to be? Well, yes and no. I'm not
suggesting you've got to SAVE everyone (but have boundaries) but also you've got to save yourself...
The reality is NOT everyone is alpha, NOT everyone is beta, NOT everyone is a natural born leader,
NOT everyone's going to have amazing six-pack abs, or earn six figures, or NOT everyone wants
to sleep around, or date younger women or stay single forever! So just be the BEST version of
yourself! I've seen men with little to low income but display confidence, and have some of the most
wonderful women in their lives! I've seen men who are very unattractive, and do the same thing...
So just be the BEST version of yourself! You don't need to be a millionaire, sleep with thousands of
women, or have social proof to be an ALPHA male. Just do what you enjoy, what makes you happy, have
boundaries, and work on your confidence. If you want to date a woman who does not display red
flags and may not be what the red pill community deems as "hot" who cares? Do what makes YOU happy!
Life is too short, pointing the finger and pigeon holing people who are beta, alpha, whatever!
Just keep getting better, be aware of the dangers, maybe you just got unlucky
marrying the wrong girl, or being with the wrong girl, it happens I've been there!
BUT that doesn't mean you need to go down the route of being TOO red pill, to this, too that...
Labeling, splitting, all or nothing thinking, can have a detrimental effect on our lives...
And just remember = the alpha wolf will protect the other females that he's not
even mating, because that's the role of the alpha! Just be the BEST version of yourself...