Hey ladies!
Brad here – and in this video, I’m going to tell you the top 8 “attraction destroyers”…
these are behaviours that drive men away.
So if you’ve just been dumped recently and you don’t know why, or you’re struggling
to find and keep the man of your dreams, then keep watching, this video is totally for you.
And, by the way, if you ladies have any questions for me regarding this video, just hit me up
in the comments section below and I’ll do my very best to get back to you.
Okay!
Let’s just jump right into it.
1.)
Complaining and being negative.
Just like I say in all my other videos, people are NOT attracted to negativity.
While it might be tempting to bitch about how your best friend ditched you today or
how shitty your work day was, it’s not worth causing a huge ruckus.
Instead, mention to your partner how you’re feeling and then leave it as that – try
and move on!
I’m always so impressed when my wife tells me about how something awful happened to her
at work… and then move past it like it never happened.
Of course this isn’t always going to be the easiest thing to do but it’s super attractive
and I promise you’ll just be happier when you’re more positive as well.
2.)
Letting yourself go.
I know, this one’s obvious so I’m not going to talk about it that much, but this
one is big.
Men are visual creatures and we need to like what we see.
3.)
Being jealous and controlling.
Guys need their space sometimes.
If he’s going out and you’re not letting him…perhaps because of jealousy, then just
know that you’re actually making things much worse for yourself in the long run.
A little bit of jealousy from time to time is natural and to be expected, but you need
to know when you’re taking it a little bit too far and stop yourself before your damage
his attraction for you any further.
4.)
Being a drama queen.
If you’re constantly gossiping about what your friend did at work the other day or stirring
some shit up just for the heck of it, you could be annoying your man greatly.
Causing unnecessary drama could not only end up cause significant harm to your relationship,
but it could also be killing your man’s attraction for you.
I know I know, it’s fun to gossip and maybe he’ll be into the odd juicy story here and
there, but there’s definitely a line that you shouldn’t cross.
Tread carefully!
5.)
Being needy and desperate.
I’m sure you’ve heard this one before a zillion times so again, I’m not going
to get into too much detail.
But there are little behaviours that you might be doing right now that he thinks are desperate
and needy… and you don’t even realize it!
For eg., did you know that simply texting a man while he’s out with the guys could
be considered needy?
Or that butting into a conversation that he’s having with somebody else could be seen as
desperate?
Obviously, context is everything here, but these actions can be seen as attraction killers
if the timing isn’t right.
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Okay, let’s get right back into it…
6.)
Being moody.
You know that cliché of how every guy says their ex is a “psycho”?
Do you know why these guys would think that?
It’s obviously not because they literally think their ex is a psycho, but their ex exhibited
behaviour that could be construed as such.
And being ‘moody’ is an example of that kind of behaviour.
Of course, not everyone can control his or her mood and sometimes mood swings just happen
– but if it’s happening too frequently, you could be turning your boyfriend off completely.
Don’t be branded that “psycho” ex girlfriend!
7.)
Not being appreciative.
You need to make your man feel like he’s providing for you.
It’s in a man’s nature to provide and take care of the ones he loves -- and when
he does this successfully, it will make him “feel” like a man.
It makes him feel emasculated and more confident in himself – and in turn, this will look
better for you AND make him more attracted to you.
So make sure that you show your appreciation by simply telling him… but here’s the
trick, try complimenting him very specific things.
Don’t just say, “I appreciate everything you do for me.”
While that’s good, saying something like, “I appreciate you for supporting me through
that tough time I had at work last week…couldn’t have done it without you.”
8.)
Putting unnecessary pressure on your boyfriend.
Putting pressure on your man for something that just isn’t that important is going
to make him feel resentful and even angry at you.
So instead of nagging at him for something insignificant or telling him to do something
a certain way, try letting it go for once.
You’re not always going to be able to do it, but do your best and eventually he’ll
notice and appreciate you for it.
Okay, that’s all for now.
I know that you might have some questions about this video, so if you do, just hit me
up in the comments section below and I’ll do my best to get back to you!
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