did you know according to some studies that on any given day we're lied to from
10 to 200 times now of course yes these are often white lies but some of these
lies may very well be a malicious act that could potentially do you harm and
that's why it's important that you understand how to spot a liar not
relying on these typical telltale signs that you've probably come across online
but more from a psychological point of view so that way you get the edge over
these con men and criminals that's trying to do you harm and that's why
it's important that you pay close attention to every single one of these
signs I'm gonna reveal to you today because I'm going to be revealing the
five signs you're being lied to so make sure to pay
close attention especially to the final sign because I've saved the most
important til last so let's go straight to the first sign which is behavioral
patterns that's beyond verbal language one of the things you want to get great
at is listening to of course what they're saying but also looking beyond
that because realized criminals and con men are great through convincing you
persuading you through verbal language so try to listen to what they're saying
but try not to be brainwash or manipulated through their verbal
language instead where your focus should be going is more towards calibration and what
calibration is is the art of taking a mental snapshot of the person's emotional
state the reason why calibration is a better reference frame they're looking
for telltale typical signs that you probably have heard of online is because
people express themselves differently from other people so you could look at
calibration like measurement what you're looking to do is measure how they
express themselves you're looking you're listening you're feeling for clues and
cues that mark a particular motion than person which is unique to them so you
wanna ask the person you want to test this on questions that you know 100% is
truth and notice how they react and after that you're gonna ask a question
that you know hundred-percent is false and look out for the following
you wanna pay close attention to their voice tone their posture facial color eye
accessing cues which we'll go to next and pupil dilation of muscle tension in
the face and forehead angle of the forehead lower lip size breathing
pattern so overall you've got to get big bigger broader
picture of how this person expresses themselves when they're telling the
truth and when they're telling the lie and that way you get a clear indicator
or when somebody is telling the lie now let's go on to the second sign which is
to observe the eye pattern here's example on the screen here right now so as you
can see on this image when the brain is creating a picture the eyes will look at
the top right which is your top left again and this signifies accessing to
the right hemisphere creation and the visual cortex if someone is recalling a
picture remembering something that they actually saw then they will look up and
to their left which is your right so what you should do is you should ask
questions that make them recollect the image in their mind and notice if they
are either dreaming up an image so making it up or they are recalling an
image by the way their eyes are moving to different directions and of course
it's worth mentioning you're a good liar can prevent any of these signs occurring
when they're telling a lie depending on how good they are and that's why it's
important you pay close attention to the next sign which is look for signs of
stress because when under stress you'll show snippets of your true emotions on
your face but these are micro expressions that occur within
milliseconds so one of the first thing you should look at is the facial
expressions in general if for example somebody's showing signs and symptoms of
stress they normally have twitchy eyes and lip movements they may also
have awkward time smiles to release some awkward energy that they move be feeling
from the lie that they're telling you another thing to look out for is hand
gestures if there is too much touching the reason why this tends to happen is
stress negatively affects nerve endings which causes people to feel itchy so if
they are particularly itchy when they're telling your story this may be a sign
that they're lying to you another thing is fidgety feet twisting tapping or
whatever maybe we have the least control of our feet and we're not very conscious
of it when we are tapping with our feet so look for the feet and any irregular
patterns or tapping or fidgeting because this could also be indicated that they
are stress in that moment now another thing you need to pay close attention to
is the fourth sign which is language patterns there are numerous things you
need to account for such as liars tend to manipulate verb tenses a lot
for example if you ask have you ever used illegal drugs they may answer I
don't use illegal drugs now think about this for a moment this subtly dodges the
question you asked and they didn't really answer your question at all so
they're dodging your question another language pattern you may notice is them
answering back your question with another question to buy time to think of
a lie that they could follow through with so for example if you were to say
to them hey were you in the office last week at 9:00 a.m. they may reply
I didn't catch that I was just busy what what did you say now there's a chance of
course they may actually want real clarification but they may also be
lying to you so it's important that you watch their nonverbal language
whenever they want further clarification also another thing to look out for is
unnecessary filler words this shows nervousness and signs of stress such as
I'll try all you see the truth is to be honest maybe to tell the truth actually
sometimes they say this because it's buying up more time that allows them to
tell a lie following through so that is a fourth sign look out for the
language patterns so let's go on to the final sign which I believe is the most
important which is your gut feel you see Psychological Science found that
we all have preset instincts for detecting liars
but they're often overridden by our conscious you see when you've got a
relationship with somebody who may be lying to you you've got a cognitive bias
towards them and that's why even if the person is doing something wrong you may
justify why it's still right because of the cognitive bias and the relationship
you've built up with this individual now one of the things I want to always
realize is this your heart never lies your heart just knows from a gut
instinct it's almost like when you've never met somebody that you felt a
little bit dodgy with but you ignored that feeling and then you listened to
your head and several months down the line you get screwed over it's because
your heart knew but you ignored it but we often manipulate the information that
heart is trying to signal to our mind and that's why it's important to ask
yourself how does my heart feel what's my gut feel in regards to this
individual and depending on that answer that may very much tell you whether or
not you're dealing with a liar so these are the five signs that
your being lied to I hope you found today's video helpful
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