Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on signs a female co-worker likes
you. Specifically 5 subtle signs that you need to know. The truth is, a lot of
people meet that special someone at work, however a lot of people are really
scared to go there quite frankly, and the truth is with good reason. However, I have
some really good guidelines for you today that will help you a ton. Before we
get started be sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name is
Melannie. I am a Christian dating coach for men. My specialty is helping good
guys get the girl of your dreams, even if you have never had success in that
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Now, as I mentioned a lot of people do actually meet that special someone at
work, however it makes a lot of people nervous and with good reason. One of the
best tools you can have is being able to read the signs that a female co-worker
likes you, because this will help you know how to act better.
Far too many men have thought she likes them, made a move, and messed everything
up because she actually wasn't interested, so being able to read these
signs is one of the most important first steps. I've already done one video on
this which is Signs a Female Co-worker Likes You. There's some really good signs
there as well, be sure to check that out. I will put a link to it in the
description below. And with that let's get started. Sign number one is that she
touches you. Now if you saw this video which is How to Tell if a Girl is
Flirting with You, you know that touch and flirting go hand in hand. Obviously
when we are interested in someone we want to touch them, it's just kind of
human nature. Now, if a girl is touching you in the workplace that is actually
incredibly bold and a little bit risky, which is what makes it so bold, however
if she is in the workplace she's not going to be bold about how she is doing
it. Because obviously she doesn't want to get in trouble and she doesn't want you
to get in trouble. Now she's probably not going to be very obvious
this, so she's probably not going to give you hugs, however you may notice that
she gives you high-fives a lot, especially if she only gives you high
fives. She may accidentally brush up against you sometimes. Again this is not
something she's purposefully doing "Hey, I'm gonna brush up against him." That just sounds
weird. She may just accidentally brush up against you because you're on her
mind. She may put her hand on your arm when she's thanking you or asking
you a question or something, touching you in some way to get your attention when
she's talking to you. Those can all be signs that she is,
without realizing it, passing the touch barrier in an appropriate way because
she likes you. Sign number two is she notices changes, the little things about
you that change, like if you get a haircut or maybe if you have switched up
your routine in some way or maybe you got a new car or something like that. She
is going to notice those little things about you because when she's crushing on
you she's paying very close attention to what's going on. When a girl is crushing
on a guy she is hypersensitive to those little things. She's paying very close
attention, but obviously in a work setting she's trying to not look like
she's paying close attention. So if she notices those little things, especially
the things no one else would really notice, then that can be a very good
sign that she likes you. This has an added bonus in that when something
little is different like a new haircut or something she can compliment you in a
way that is not obviously flirty. Sign number three is she adds you on social
media. One of the reasons especially in a work setting women will do this is
because it's a way to contact you, a way to get closer to you, without it looking
like hardcore flirting. It gives her opportunity to interact with you and to
get you to think of her outside of a work setting. That's ultimately what
she's wanting. This gives her the chance to comment and to like and to interact
and there's always the added bonus that she
gets to see your cute pictures and she's really hoping you're gonna notice
hers. Quick question for you guys before we get to sign number four.
Should I make more videos about flirting and stuff in the workplace? If you think
I should be sure to comment "YES!" in the comments below. I also wanted to take a
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to Get a Girlfriend through the link in the description below. Sign number four
is that she remembers random things about you, things that most co-workers
wouldn't even know about you let alone remember. For instance, what you usually
eat for breakfast or the name of your dog. These are again signs that she's
paying close attention to you, picking up on those little things because you mean
something to her. And we are to sign number five which kind of goes
hand-in-hand with sign number four, and that is that she talks to you about
things that are not work-related. If she's all business then there's a really
good chance it's all business to her. But if she takes opportunity to occasionally
change the subject and start talking about things that are not work-related
that's a really good sign that she wants to get to know you better. If you notice
that she frequently changes the subject to maybe hobbies or home life or fun
things to do or what you enjoy doing, fun places to eat, if she's talking to you
about things that are not work-related frequently that is a very good sign that
it's because she wants to get to know you better.
That wraps up my five signs, however, here are the guidelines I promised you.
Guys, one of the biggest reasons people are nervous about flirting in the
workplace is because you don't want to get fired, right? You just want to get in
trouble. So the number one thing you need to do before you ever flirt or make a
move or anything is you need to check company policies. This is the number
one priority. And in addition to that, guys, just don't do anything you
shouldn't be doing, okay? That's just kind of a good life rule, don't do something
you should not be doing. If you always keep your actions and your words, etc.
appropriate then you really don't have anything to worry about. The second
guideline is you do need to acknowledge the risk. What a lot of people are
afraid of is "Well, what if it gets awkward?" And the truth is there is a
potential for it to get awkward. So, that's reality. What are you going to
do about it? Are you okay with that? Are you not okay with that? If you are
getting to know a mature woman then she's going to act immature about it. Yes,
there might be some hurt feelings but she's not gonna gossip behind your back
and turn everybody against you if she's mature. This is actually one of the main
reasons I teach you guys so much about knowing the signs of a toxic woman.
If you do not know those signs or if you need a refresher check out the links in
the description below. I have a whole bunch of videos on this that are going
to help you a lot in all areas of dating and relationships. This is one of the best
skills you can learn. So again, acknowledge the risk and decide if it's
worth it to you. If it's not that's okay, but drop it now and don't encourage
anything with her. Or if you decide to take that risk, and it's okay with
company policy, then just be aware that there is that risk. But if it's worth it
to you, then that's okay. Guideline number three is be very sure that she is
flirting with you, okay? This is why I give you guys so many signs how to
know if a girl likes you, you want to be very, very confident especially in the
workplace that she is actually flirting with you and actually interested in you
rather than just being friendly or even just trying to use you. The sad
reality is some women will try to use guys
in order to climb the corporate ladder. If that's something you're worried about
be sure to check out this video which is Signs She's Using You. And my videos on
toxic women will actually help you with that a lot too. But, be very, very, very
familiar with the signs that she likes you. This is a huge lifesaver. I've done
tons of videos on how to know if a girl likes you be sure to at least check out
this one which is the Top Five Signs and the most important guidelines you need
to know when trying to decide if a girl actually does like you or not. I will put
a link to all my videos on how to know if a girl likes you down below, but that
one in particular be sure to watch. Thank you so much again for watching my
amazing friend. If you have not downloaded your free guide, 17 Traits
Christian Women want Most in a Man, you need it right now.
Be sure to check out the link in the description below. Guys, this is so
helpful to just know what it is women want and how to develop those habits so
that you're a total heartthrob. Also be sure to check out How to Get a
Girlfriend through the link in the description below. I walk you
step-by-step through finding and attracting your dream girl. You're
not going to want to miss it. Again, I want to hear from you in the comments. Do
you want more videos on the workplace and flirting and how to kind of
navigate that? Because let's face it it can be a little bit scary. If you do,
comment "YES!" in the comments below. And don't hesitate to be specific. Let me
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friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
So this means she's probably not gonna give you
like hugs and all kinds of stuff. [singing a quick jingle] That sounded weird. That's my new thing.
I think I'm gonna trademark that. [singing it again] [laughter] Just kidding.