It can be really frustrating when a guy seemingly pulls away from you, and you don't know why.
Today, we're discussing what to do when a guy pulls away from you.
Hey girls, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours.
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So how do you handle it when a guy pulls away? So as a girl, you'll often just get a sense,
and I talked to a lot of girls who go through this. They just get a feeling that something's
off. The guy they're seeing or the guy they're in a relationship with. He just seems to be
drawing back a bit, and they want to know how to handle this. Look, the first thing is don't
freak out. You don't want to do anything rash or start sending 1500 texts or doing anything
weird. The reality is a lot of guys will pull back for their own reasons. It could be something
to do with the relationship, but it could also totally be something that's going on
with him. As guys, we sometimes pull back just to just to get our heads together, just
to kind of come back at life stronger and we, when we're feeling a bit insecure out
there, we kind of pulled back to ourselves just to rethink everything and get it together
before we launched back out again.
It doesn't necessarily mean it's something to do with you. Now, what you do kind of depends
whether you're in a dating or a relationship scenario. If you're in a proper relationship
scenario, you probably going to have a better idea what's going on and you're going to have
a better idea of that guy's patterns. So the first thing you want to do is you just want
it without pressuring the guy, just check in, just to see if everything's all good with
him. Just make sure you let him know that you're there for him, but also without pressuring
him. After you do that, you will then want to give him some space. So just go "Baby,
just so you know, is there anything wrong? I'm here for you. If there is."
If he's like, "No, no no, it's nothing." Then just leave it for awhile.
Don't keep putting pressure on the guy cause the more pressure you put on him,
the more he's just gonna draw back.
Talk to him first, then give him space. If you're just dating, if you're not sure you
haven't got the commitment that he's exclusive, there's no boyfriend-girlfriend, there's no
status, there's no exclusive, if you're just dating, it's trickier because he could be
pulling away for other reasons. You just don't know. But you don't have as much leeway in
this situation to go and question him. You're not his girlfriend, so you just want to give
him space first. If a guy pulls away when you're dating him, just give him space. Let
him come to you. The last thing you want to do and what so many girls do in the situations,
they send them like four texts and then they start to get worried, and then they're calling
up different people, and it just fills their heads. You just want to give him space cause
it could be nothing.
It could just be he's busy with work or something else and you don't want to freak out and give
him a really weird impression if that's the case. So give him space, and then if that space
doesn't let him come to you, after a few days, you can just throw him a text like, "Hey,
I'd love to love to catch up. Let me know if you're free at all. Hope all as well."
Something very simple that doesn't put any pressure on him and then leave it after that
and just see his response. So again, if you're in a relationship, you want to talk and then
give him the space. But if you're just dating, you want to give him plenty of space first
and see if he comes to you and then maybe talk afterwards. And look, the biggest thing
in both of these scenarios is you want to focus on yourself.
You want to really make sure that you're being your best you. So if you're in a relationship,
make sure that you're taking care of yourself, you're doing your own hobbies, you're doing
your own thing, you're getting your own self esteem internally. And if you're dating, make
sure that you're not investing too much in one guy. Make sure that you're having fun,
you're seeing your friends, you're getting out there and having a good time, and you're
filling your own life with valuable things that raise your own self-esteem. So girls,
I hope that gives you a good idea of what to do in both dating and relationship scenarios.
When a guy pulls away. It can be tricky and look, especially in the dating scenario, it
can mean a guy's losing interest, but it doesn't necessarily mean that and you shouldn't assume
it. So don't freak out. Give him the space. Do you agree, disagree? What experience have
you had in, in this scenario? Let me know. Put it in the comments below. I'd love to
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Thanks again, girls. I can't wait to chat to you very soon.
We'll look. The first thing is don't freak
out. Don't, don't, don't, don't.