and now more and more people are getting
into toxic relationships more and more
people are trying to navigate this space
with walls up but I always say the same
walls you up to protect you are the same
laws blocking your blessings so I want
to read this quote by Maya Angelou that
says love recognizes no barriers it
jumps hurdles leaps fences penetrates
walls to arrive at its destination full
of hope so what are we talking about
today I want to give you the best
relationship advice ever
all right this advice is gonna change
your life this advice is gonna help you
in your relationships and help you
receive exactly what you're looking for
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the video as well now here's the reality
in love of relationships
we're all trying to figure this thing
out well I like I got to figure it out
but that's a whole other story
anyways lucid and I'm trying to help you
see more clearly how you need to better
go about your relationships and how you
can more effectively approach it the
reality is there's a lot of bad
information being given out there a lot
of people are leading you on the wrong
path some of it has been your own family
members your friends or you're letting
your own past negative experiences shape
your perception of love and
relationships and now more and more
people are getting into toxic
relationships more and more people are
trying to navigate this space with walls
up but I always say the same walls you
up to protect you are the same laws
blocking your blessings the reality is
this you cannot fully give love and
receive love with walls up you're
hindering the flow of love in and out of
you because you're holding on to fear
you're holding on to anxiety you keep
replaying
what you've been through rather than
resolving and healing from it that's not
going to work you've got to let it go
you've got to be willing to be fully
vulnerable if you want to receive love
so this brings me to what exactly is the
best piece of relationship advice ever
and that's to love with all your heart
and hold nothing back now for some of
you might be thinking oh hell no because
last time I tried that
it got me hurt let me explain something
to you loving with all your heart isn't
what got you hurt dealing with the wrong
person is what got you hurt trying to be
in a relationship beats before you or
them we're truly ready is what got you
hurt but letting the love fully come out
of you that is not the hurtful part but
here's the reason why that has to happen
and it's the best piece of advice you
can ever embrace if you want to truly
experience a relationship at its full
potential you've got to let it all out
you gotta love it on your heart and in
doing that you are going to expose what
that other person is really about follow
me here when you hold back you validate
them holding back and now I'm trying to
determine and see where they really
stand becomes a lot more clouded and
because more difficult to read and also
it becomes harder to read because you're
trying to evaluate things through a
broken lens when you haven't healed your
vision is blurred you can't see things
straight so first you must create the
love within you through healing you must
creep in love within you to connecting
to God connecting to your spirit when
you fill yourself up with love now you
can see everything more clearly and now
you go into a relationship giving your
all holding nothing back
not taking tabs of what you did because
in giving everything the other person
has two options step up to the plate or
get the hell on that's it they can not
anymore validate their lack of effort
they can't validate their walls being up
you are letting it all flow out so if
you want to really see what they're
about love them with all your heart but
here's the beautiful thing if they show
themselves to be on the same plane as
you to want to match your energy match
your effort now you too will have the
most amazing relationship because you're
both giving your all to each other and
if they're not gonna step up to the
plate you're gonna expose them so fast
that you won't waste months and years in
dead-end relationships that only damage
you further and keep you in a negative
cycle stop holding back let it all out
love with all your heart and you will
get to experience relationships at a
whole new level but that not just
relationships with other people
the greatest relationship with you and
God because in that is where you will
find your peace find your happiness sign
your lights that you can receive the
person who is truly best for you and no
longer waste your time on people who are
not
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