- In this video,
I'm gonna show you how to remove the love blocks,
friendships blocks, meeting your high vibe friends blocks,
the things that are blocking you
from actually meeting and gaining the connection
that you want in your life.
This video's gonna be a game changer for you.
I'm gonna show you exactly what I did,
what I've seen thousands of people do
to really create the internal shift
to finally allow your soulmates, your soul family,
your high vibe tribe into your life.
Now, right now, I'm in Costa Rica.
It's so beautiful.
Let me show you some of the view here at an Airbnb.
We just recently got done doing a retreat here.
We do these retreats in Costa Rica.
And one of the things that we hear so often
from people that come to the retreat
is we'll have like 40 people there
and people come from all over the world.
By the end of the retreat, a lot of people
say the very same thing.
They say, "I never knew that there were people out there
that would really resonate with the real me.
I never knew.
I thought for a long time that I had
to walk this path alone.
I felt lonely.
I felt like the lone wolf.
And now I know that there's people out there
that can see the real me, feel the real me,
and really, I've connected with at a deep level."
And that kind of inspired this video, to be honest with you,
because I look back at my own journey
and it's so clear to me now.
I have my high vibe tribe in my life.
I've got soul family.
I feel like I have very deep connections in my life now,
and it's come as a result of some of the internal shifts
that I had to make.
Because back in 2012,
when I went through my spiritual awakening,
I was so excited to share all this new information
that I was learning about spirituality.
I was, at the time, working at Nordstrom's in women's shoes.
I started studying and learning meditation.
All of a sudden, I'm into mantras.
I was into Vedic, Hindu, mantras and stuff like that.
I remember sun gazing
and doing these kind of in a wink,
I went vegan and started losing a whole bunch of weight
and doing all this stuff back in 2012.
And family was all concerned about me,
friends were concerned about me
because I was losing weight and not looking as healthy.
That was one thing.
Another thing was like,
I was just talking about meditation.
I was kind of like ungrounded.
And then also, it didn't really help too much
because back in 2012,
I was convinced that we were gonna ascend
into a higher level of consciousness
on December 21st, 2012.
Big learning lesson for me, let me tell you.
However, believing in all these things,
no wonder there's some people in my life
that thought, "What the hell's happened to Aaron?
He went from ADHD, drinking, smoking,
and just kind of being the way everyone expected him to be
to all of a sudden, meditating, stopped drinking,
stopped smoking, started losing weight
'cause he went vegan immediately, and all of this stuff."
And what ended up happening is I then felt kind of rejected.
I felt abandoned in a way.
I felt like, I'm here excited
to share all this exciting information with people.
And what ended up resulting is friends
even calling my family and say,
"What the hell happened to Aaron?"
And I'm like, "What? They just don't get me."
And I started to wire in this belief system
and I started to believe,
"Maybe I am meant to walk this path alone.
Maybe I'm not meant to have people
in my life that really understand me,
or it's not gonna be the way it was before."
Because before, the people that I surrounded myself with
were friends of high school and stuff like that,
and people that shared similar values as me at the time,
and that was kind of like drinking, smoking.
It was a complete reflection
of where I was at the time for growing up.
And then once I started changing my values
and changing what I was into,
that's when some of that started to fall away
and sometimes you can be afraid
of like things changing because there maybe is.
It's almost like we're avoiding.
Maybe the truth is I'm not meant to be
with other high vibe people.
I'm not meant to find love of someone
that really resonates with me at a deep level.
And it's almost like we're afraid of that abandonment wound.
That's what I was afraid of.
So for 2012, 2013, I remember,
just very lonely year for me.
Not having people in my life that really understood me.
I worked at Barneys New York or Nordstrom's, then I quit.
And then I kinda just lived.
I lived with my mom and I was at mom's house,
my brothers and sisters, and just kind of like
was doing the spiritual awakening thing,
but wasn't connecting with anybody else.
A lot of my friends that kinda fell outta my life.
My family thought I went nuts and I felt alone.
I didn't know what to do.
And I developed a certain belief system as well
at that time where it was like, "People don't get me,
and one of the reasons they don't get me
is because they're just not woke."
It was this kinda spiritual ego in a way
that I didn't wanna look at at the time,
but I was literally believing that people
just were asleep in the matrix in a way,
and that's why.
The reason I'm not connecting with people
is because they have a lower vibration than me,
and that was a very toxic belief that I had
for a period of time.
Because of that belief, by the way,
guess what I attracted my life?
A complete reflection of that self-fulfilling prophecy.
There was a judgment that I had
that everybody just doesn't understand what I understand.
They don't get me.
It feels so surface level
talking about these things I'm not passionate about.
When really what it was is I was judging other people
and putting people on this scale.
It was like they're high vibe, they're low vibe,
and most people weren't high vibe,
so I was like, "Oh, I'm just lonely.
I'm just meant to be alone on this path."
And because of that, I ended up
in that box of judging other people energetically,
which made it harder to connect with people
and had this just solid belief system
that I'm just meant to be alone on this path.
And what really changed a lot
for me was when I actually dropped the belief
that I meant to be alone,
dropped the belief that judging other people.
And because I was starting to realize
that my beliefs create my reality
and that when I realized that I was believing in that,
that was my block.
And one of the best ways
that I recommend people attract love,
attract a high vibe family, or whatever, high vibe tribe
is when you change your values,
you attract people based on the values you have.
Values are kinda like virtues you live by.
And back in the day,
as I've gone through my spiritual awakening journey,
I lived according to certain values
back in the day that I do not live by now.
And once you go through a spiritual awakening,
your values really do change normally,
'cause you might value eating unhealthy food.
You might value alcohol and substances.
You might value being around certain types of people.
And then all of a sudden, your values change
and you realize,
"Oh, I actually don't have as much in common."
You may also value your own boundaries more.
You may value expressing yourself more.
As you start valuing different things,
you'll notice that certain people might fall
out of your life.
And guess what? That's okay.
That is a part of the process.
The key is to not try to hold onto it as it's happening,
to not try to control the situation,
and realize that there's something wrong that's happening.
And it's about really living
according to your own values and virtues,
because that's gonna be an equal reflection
of what you attract.
When I used to sell women's shoes,
the kind of woman that I dated,
were normally people that were working nine to five jobs,
nine to five jobs they didn't like.
Because I was working a nine to five job that I didn't like,
and I valued that.
Even though maybe I didn't value it,
because I would've rather done what I loved for a living.
I would've rather valued that more.
That wasn't actually in my energy field.
There was an addiction maybe
to even working the nine to five job,
bitching it to my coworkers about how slow it was.
And then I'd also attract women into my life
that also bitched about their nine to five jobs,
and we could just like kind of be in that energy together
because we shared similar values.
We shared similar energy.
That's what we believed we also deserved.
And when I started going after my purpose
and I started making YouTube videos,
that changed everything about my energy,
that raised my vibrational energy,
and I started living in more alignment.
And then I started making daily videos.
My YouTube channel started to grow.
And as that happened,
as I energetically stepped onto my path,
I started to meet other people
that energetically were on their path.
That's when I met my best friend, Victor Otto.
That was because we were both on YouTube making videos.
And as we were starting to really get
in the energy of our alignment of who we are,
we then energetically met up with each other back in 2017.
And I think that's really the way it works.
So then also, the woman that I began dating,
the woman that were in my life
after my spiritual awakening
were only people that were doing what they love
because I was doing what I love and I valued that.
So you attract people into your life
that are one-on-one reflection
to the values you are currently living by.
As you upgrade your values,
you will upgrade that of the experience of your reality.
Another example is we do these plant medicine retreats
in the Costa Rica.
As we've all gone through our own transformations
and even the crew,
the team of us that facilitate these experiences,
we've upgraded our own level of integrity.
Because we've grown,
it's then grown how we do this space,
how this space is ran.
The structure of everything has began changing
over the last couple retreats
'cause we do these three times a year.
And every time, it changes a little bit,
but now we're making some pretty drastic changes
because it has to reflect the new level of integrity
that we're living by.
So it's like, we're all upgrading
and that's upgrading the space.
So literally everything in your reality is a reflection
of the energy you are embodying.
And as you upgrade your own integrity,
you'll find that sometimes,
people may fall out of your life.
You'll find as that happens,
you might be a little afraid.
You might be trying to control it.
You might be trying to hold people in.
But the key to that is realizing
that as you upgrade,
a natural part of the process is letting go,
so that you can actually make room for the new.
And that's a part of spiritual awakening.
And this process, that's sometimes scary to people
because people believe, they develop stories
around the people that they've been connected to before.
And they believe
that these people they're connected to before,
they're never gonna find somebody else
that's that kind of connection again.
Happens so often,
especially in the spiritual space
where people develop these belief systems
around twin flames and soulmates
and soul families and divine unions
and all these labels that grave so much weight
and so much meaning to these things
because they're concepts that people then stay attached to,
and once they attach to it,
what really happens is they're afraid to let that go
because they're afraid they're gonna let go
of that meaning.
They're afraid they're gonna let go
of that kind of connection,
and believing that there's nothing else
like that in the world.
When in fact, everybody that is in your life is a reflection
of the kind of what you're learning
and is in a way, a soulmate,
is in a way, part of your soul family in the moment.
And if you live like that, you're gonna find
that you also connect with people at a much deeper level.
However, the thing that makes connecting
to other people more challenging is believing
that you're meant to walk your path alone,
believing that there's no one else out there like you
and realize this.
That's just a belief.
It's a belief.
It's something that you've bought into
because at one point in time,
it was safer to buy into that belief
than it was to accept.
That maybe just at the moment, now's not the time.
A lot of times,
we'll try to avoid our own abandonment wound.
We'll try to avoid things in our life
and we'll try to rationalize it.
And the way we rationalize it,
oh, this isn't just a belief that I have
that there aren't high vibe people out there
that I meant to walk this path alone.
It's not just a belief, that's the way reality is
because it's a little bit easier to believe that
than it is to really go within
and to realize that that's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The keys though that I've learned
in my life is really going after my passion,
going after my purpose has been a game changer
because then I started living to a higher sense of ideals.
Having vulnerability to express the real me
has also been a game changer.
Through different levels of my spiritual journey,
I've had to express the real me.
Now sometimes scary.
That means sharing with people,
my emotions and how I feel.
That means being direct with people.
That meant dating someone,
actually expressing, "Hey, I have feelings
or emotions for you, or I'm attracted to you."
The nice guy version of me back in the day
was very afraid of saying that
because I was afraid of rejection,
was afraid of being abandoned,
but I was also hiding the real me.
And maybe in your life right now,
is there any way that you're hiding the real you?
Is there anything you could express in your life,
maybe your passion, maybe sharing more vulnerable side
of yourself with other people?
I think deep down, all of us are just a little bit weird,
or a lot weird, but we're afraid to show that.
And when we're afraid to show that,
we're actually holding people back
from getting to know that side of ourselves,
and when we do that,
it really opens up so much in other people,
and it's real too.
So meeting your soul family,
meeting your high vibe tribe
is about really just recognizing the limiting belief
and the negative belief that's been there
for maybe a long time
that has held you to believe there are not people
like that out there.
You are meant to walk this path alone, or whatever it is.
Realize that's just a belief,
it's something you've bought into
and realize there are a lot of people out there
that share similar values as you.
However many people you see watching this video,
there's at least that many people.
However many people you see subscribed to the channel,
there's at least that many people,
because they resonate with the values.
They resonate with the content of the channel,
and that I guarantee when you do these events,
it's so cool to see,
because so many people share similar values
and they know that they're into the same kinda things.
Normally, they're committed to their spiritual journey.
They're focused on elevating themselves.
They're focused on becoming present, their own energy.
These are things that happen.
Now, something to really wire all of this in
and something that I'm doing starting August 15th
is something that is called the Magnetic Mastery Membership.
This is the accountability, the group,
and the coaching
for you becoming the highest vibrational you.
Every single week, I'm gonna be going live,
doing breakout groups, connecting everybody together,
doing live meditations,
and coaching people live every single week,
so that we can remain accountable
and also on this path
of elevating our vibration to the highest level.
But in that group, you will see, at this moment,
hundreds of people, because we've only opened it
to the early bird founding members.
In August 15th, it opens to the public.
So if you wanna connect, meet your high vibe tribe,
work every single week, month in, month out.
It's something that you can join on August 15th.
Mark, there's a link below.
You can sign up to join the waitlist to check that out,
and that's something in a very powerful way
to be in a monthly container with people,
going through that of transformation.
The craziest thing is, is when we open it up,
it's only gonna be $29 a month.
Cancel anytime.
For weekly calls, all of this stuff.
So sign up below, if you haven't already,
if you wanna check that out.
Also, if you want a video
that's going to help you understand more
about shedding this image, this self-conscious,
this self-image that we have of being the lone wolf,
this video right here will change your life.
If you're seeing this video,
then you are meant to be here.
You can take it as a good sign that you probably are
and consider yourself a lone wolf in your family,
and I'm gonna show you in this video
how you can finally meet your soul tribe,
how you can release the beliefs and the energy that.