Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 15 things women secretly want men to do
but never say. Would you like to know how to get a girl's attention and how to get a girl
to fall for you? If you do, then you need to know these 15 things. These are the traits that
your dream girl is looking for in a partner. And when you are the one who has these traits
you eliminate the competition. Can you imagine how amazing that would feel to eliminate the
competition? So make sure you watch to the end so that you understand each of these
things. Now before we dive into the 15 things if this is your first time watching, welcome! My name
is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you how to find, attract, and keep
the girl of your dreams so be sure to subscribe ring the notification bell and give me a big
thumbs up. Now as I said these are 15 things women secretly want men to do but never say. So why is
it a secret? Why would she keep that a secret from you? The first thing I want you to know,
if you've been following my channel for a while, I don't teach mind games, right? Mind games don't
work. I'm a certified coach, I teach you real skills that are backed by science. So why would
she, why would that be a secret? Well it's because it'd be a little weird if she just told you, okay?
It would be a little bit awkward. In addition to that she wants a man who's sincere. And so if
she just tells you what it is she wants right up front, "Hey, I'm looking for these traits," well
there's an opportunity there for someone to not be sincere and to pretend to have those traits to
just to get the girl. So she's trying to avoid that. However, I will say that once she gets
to know you better, she sees that you have these traits, and she sees that you're sincere
then of course she's going to want to express her appreciation for that, okay? So it's not like
she wants to keep these things a secret from you, it's just that that's kind of how this goes. Does
that make sense? Okay, let's get to our first thing women secretly want men to do. And this
is to be a gentleman. Guys, old-fashioned manners like opening the door for her still make her heart
beat faster. Why do you think girls still watch Cary Grant movies? There's a reason for it.
No matter what the toxic women say, classy women still wants a man with old-fashioned manners.
When a guy opens the door for her or something like that it just like, oh my goodness, that
right there shows you are a classy man. Okay, the next thing women secretly want men to do
is she wants you to listen. This is something that is very important to women. Women connect by
talking. That's why you often see a lot of women together talking to each other and figuring things
out while they talk. That is how women connect. And so if you're the man who listens to her,
wow, that says something about your class, she feels connected to you,
she feels like you understand her, she feels like you are trustworthy. So if you want to get a girl
to like you and you want to make her fall in love with you it's very important that you
listen to her. And this leads us to our next thing women secretly want men to do. And that is to be
good at conversation. Yes, she definitely wants you to be a good listener, but you can't just
listen the whole time, right? There needs to be a little bit of back and forth conversation going.
And she wants to make sure that you're fun to talk to, that you're interesting. She doesn't
want it to be boring or awkward. This is why one of the things i teach my clients in my program
is the importance and the basics of a small talk so that you can literally carry on a really fun
conversation no matter where you are no matter what's going on. If you haven't yet seen this
video and this video there are links in the description below. They're going to teach you
more about how to be better at conversation. Okay, our next thing that women secretly want you to do
is she wants you to flirt with her. Flirting is fun, right? It really just makes dating and
relationships so much more enjoyable. Now flirting is something that should continue through the
entire relationship. That's one way you make sure you have butterflies through like your entire life
together. Now if you want flirting to be a part of the whole relationship it better be there at the
start. And something she wants is she wants you to flirt with her. It's more fun, it makes her
feel feminine, it makes her feel attractive, it makes her feel more attracted to you.
She definitely wants you to flirt with her. Okay, next up she wants you to pursue her.
Pursuing a woman makes her feel safe with you, it makes her feel feminine and attractive,
and it helps her see you as a confident, masculine man. And that right there,
that is what she wants to see. Pursuing her also helps her respect you. One of the reasons I love
teaching how to pursue the right way to my clients who go through my program is because
there are so many people who teach total lies about what it means to pursue. And these lies,
these false teachings, cause so many men to be rejected and heartbroken and it's just not
right. This is why instead, I teach how to pursue the right way so that it's very natural and very
simple instead of awkward or creepy. Honestly, unless you are someone who has been through my
program I can almost guarantee that you don't know how to pursue the right way simply because
no one is teaching how to do this. As a coach it's my job to help you get results and my program is
where I help you do this. To learn more about my program, my methods, why they work, how it works,
all of that, I've put together a free masterclass for you. There's a link in the description below.
When you are ready to just have the secrets you need to find and attract the girl of your dreams
make sure you check it out. My clients are already seeing incredible results and I would love it
for you to be next. So again, to learn more about that there's a link in the description below. I
will also put a link in the pinned comment. Okay, next up on our list of things women secretly want
men to do, she wants you to consider her needs. If she's looking for a lifelong partner she's looking
for someone who would make a good husband, right? She's looking for someone who would ultimately
make a good father to future children. And someone who considers her needs is very very important.
This means paying attention to the little things and noticing what she's going through and how
you can be involved in her life. Now, she doesn't just want you to consider her needs she also wants
someone who is considerate of everyone's needs and who is kind and generous to everyone instead of
just the girl they're trying to impress. Does that make sense? Okay, the next thing women secretly
want is a man who sets boundaries. Do you want her to feel safe with you and to respect you? You need
to set boundaries. Not just with her, although yes, all healthy relationships have boundaries
even with each other. But she also wants someone who sets boundaries with everyone. She does not
want to see you as a pushover or someone who has no backbone. Something I teach in my program when
I'm explaining how to set appropriate boundaries is that when you respect yourself others respect
you. And setting appropriate boundaries is what allows you to respect yourself and other people
see that. And that in turn helps her see you as a confident, masculine man, someone she feels safe
with. Next up, she wants a man who's imperfect but always trying to be better. We are all human,
right? We all make mistakes, we're all less than perfect. And being around someone who's trying
to appear perfect makes everybody else feel uncomfortable. Even if it's not in a romantic
situation we all feel uncomfortable around someone who's trying too hard to be perfect.
But if instead, you are someone who's real while also striving to be the best person you can be,
she can relax when she's around you, she can feel safe when she's around you. A real man is a man
who's imperfect but trying. Before we get to my next tip I want to hear from you in the comments.
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women secretly want is she wants you to build her up and encourage her. We all want to be built
up and encouraged, right? Even confident people want to be supported and wants to be encouraged.
So if you are someone that she knows will encourage her and be on her side that's one way
you can help defend her and it's something that definitely, that's a game changer for a woman,
that is something she wants very most in the man she wants to be with. Okay, next up is a man
with a good self-image. She wants to be around someone who feels good about himself,, because
that kind of person is fun to be around. She does not want to be around someone who is needy
or negative or puts himself down. That drains her energy. Instead, she wants to be around someone
who feels good about himself, because then he feels good about life and it's okay for
her to feel good about herself when she's around him. Now some of the ways I teach my clients to
improve their self-image are by setting boundaries like we talked about earlier, dressing to empower,
this means really showing off how attractive you are but also dressing in a way
that increases your confidence. Some additional ways are understanding how to create that healthy
self-love and that healthy self-respect and also understanding how to take care of yourself
so that you feel like you matter. Because if you don't treat yourself like you matter,
you won't feel like you do. These things are very simple but they pack a powerful punch.
This is why the biggest result my clients see is increased confidence. Like dramatically increased
confidence. Do you want to know how to increase your confidence and how to be an absolute magnet
for your dream girl? Again, to learn more about my program and what I teach and why it works
make sure you watch that free masterclass. There's a link in the description below. When you're ready
to stop being alone and finally get your dream girl make sure you check it out. Like ASAP. Okay,
our next thing women secretly want men to do is to be a moral man. Again, I am not talking about
toxic women. Guys, I will never teach you how to attract a toxic woman. All a toxic woman wants is
one night fling. That's all she cares about. She doesn't even care about you. But a classy woman,
the kind of woman who wants to give her heart to a man forever, she wants a man who's moral.
Why? Because he's trustworthy, because he's masculine. It is very very masculine to be a
defender of what's right. That right there, that's a knight in shining armor, that's what turns you
into her superhero. So make sure that you are someone who stands up for what's right
and someone who keeps yourself morally clean. That is the kind of man she can trust, and that is the
kind of man she wants to give her heart to. Okay, our next thing women secretly want is a man who is
gentle. This is definitely not something society teaches, but it is 100% true. The very most
confident men and the very most masculine men are gentle men. That is the kind of man that
she will feel safe with. That is the kind of man she could see herself marrying. That is the kind
of man she can see herself raising children with. A man who is gentle to her and to others. Okay,
our next thing women secretly want men to do is she wants you to treat her like a queen, because
she wants to treat you like a king. Again, we're not talking about toxic women at all.
But a classy woman, she wants to treat you like a king, okay? She wants to love you like crazy.
And so she wants you to in turn treat her like a queen, so that that's how the relationship goes
and how she sees, "Okay, it's safe, it's good, I can trust him, I can treat him like a king."
So make sure that in every aspect you are treating her like a queen, because a classy woman
in turn will treat you like a king. And if you want to be treated like a queen by your woman,
which you should be, that's how you do it. Okay, next up she wants a man who is mature, not a man
who is silly and immature. I have been trying to figure out how to say this nicely and guys,
I really can't figure out a way to so I'm just gonna give it to you straight. A classy woman
has zero interest in spending time with someone who's boring, who talks about just nonsense.
That doesn't make an interesting partner, that doesn't make a a good husband. A lot of people
think that immature silliness is funny. It's not. Not to a mature woman. It's not that you can't be
funny, it's not that you can't be playful. You should be. But immature silliness is not funny,
and it does not attract her at all. As a matter of fact it pushes her away. Make sure you watch this
video to learn a little bit more about that and how to become incredibly attractive to women. I'll
put a link in the description below to that video. Okay, our next thing women secretly want men to do
is she wants you to be sincere. This makes sense, right? You want her to be sincere with you.
You want her to sincerely care about you and to be real and genuine. That's what she wants from you
as well. That is critical to a happy lifelong relationship, right? And this is again one
reason why some of these things may be secrets, so to speak, is because she she doesn't want you
to just do these things to get her or to win her heart. She wants you to be very sincere
about who you are. If you are a sincere man, you have one of the very most attractive traits.
One of the traits women look for the very most. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend!
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Okay, [in a silly voice] 15 things women secretly want me to do but never say. [laughter]
I just really wanted to do that. That's not going to be the official start,
because that would be weird. [laughter] That's a lot of talking in a short period of time.
It makes you lightheaded. That's how I feel when I'm done filming. [laughter] Never mind. It's
fine.